It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships

In this episode I talk about how abuse felt quite different for me in a same sex relationship and how it felt harder to understand it for what it was. You can find more from me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram or visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman 

It’s quite common for people to come out liger in life and get swept away by the first time queer person who comes along. The point of this episode is not to instill fear of dating in the LGBTQ+ world, but to help you feel more equipped to have healthy relationships and avoid abusive ones. If you like this and what more you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on TT and IG or visit my website at Theli...

In this episode I talk about some of the things that helped me really put together the pieces of what I was dealing with in my abusive relationship and helped me move toward healing. If you want more from me you can find me on TT and IG at Thelindsaygoodman or visit my website at Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about the toxic mess that was my abuser going out drinking with friends…until I found a way to make it stop. If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram. You can also visit my website at Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about some of the things my son experienced while I was in an abusive relationship and the ways he was used as a pawn to control me. If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram or visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about the differences between love and a trauma bond and how I went about breaking mine. You can find more at thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram or visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about the ways in which my abuser worked to isolate me very early in our relationship. If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram or visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about the ways in which my abuser would react to me when I was crying. You can find more from me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram or visit my website at Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about the day my abuser and I finally broke up (although that didn’t mean it was the end). You can find more from me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok & Instagram.

I’m this episode I talk about the time between breaking up with my abuser and actually getting to no contact (about 2 months) and what I experienced during that time.

In this episode I talk about my experience trying to leave my abuser and what some of their tactics were to keep me around. If you want more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram.

In this episode of the NEWLY NAMED PODCAST I talk about my experience with my abuser using my dog to control me. Lots of followers on tiktok and Instagram showed concern for my dog in my birthday video so I wanted to share her story. If you like this and want more, find me on Tiktok and Instagram at @thelindsaygoodman.

In this episode I talk about flying monkeys. What are they? What do they do? How do you avoid them? Why does a narcissist use them? If you like my content and what more from me you can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on tiktok and Instagram.

In this episode I talk about reframing my understanding of the start of my relationship with my abuser. They seemed to be my savior, soul mate, perfect match, etc. What was really going on?

In this episode I talk about how narcissists Tell on themselves and my experience with this in my past relationship. You can find me on TT and IG at thelindsaygoodman.

TW: DV (graphic descriptions of DV). In this episode I talk about being careful what you say at the start of a relationship. Don’t give an abuser a field guide to how to abuse you. I did! Follow me on IG and TikTok at Thelindsaygoodman or visit my website thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I react to an Instagram reel from Elizabeth Barre Coaching. I share my perspective on some of her points. You can find me at Thelindsaygoodman on IG and TikTok and at my website thelindsaygoodman.com

In this episode I reflect on my experience with holidays and gift giving while living with a narcissist. If you like this episode and want more you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at thelindsaygoodman and you can visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about my experience of doing couples therapy with an abuser. If you like this episode and want more from me, you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at thelindsaygoodman or visit my website Thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I go into detail about the lead up to me finally leaving my abuser and what it was like during and after. If you like this episode and want more content from me, find me at Thelindsaygoodman on Instagram and Tiktok or at my website thelindsaygoodman.com.

In this episode I talk about what breadcrumbing from a narcissist can look like. Find me at thelindsaygoodman on IG & TikTok for more.

In this episode I’ll talk about my experience with hoovering by a narcissistic partner.

TW: DV. In this episode I talk about just a few red flags I ignored early on in my relationship with a narcissist.

In this episode I talk about my experience with devaluation from a narcissistic partner. I cover everything from gaslighting to passive aggression to stonewalling.

In this episode I talk about how my relationship began. What I thought was a romantic and beautiful creation unfolding was actually love bombing.