Lindsay Goodman

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships

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It's Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will explore different aspects of narcissistic abuse, how to get out, and how to begin your healing journey.

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Lindsay Goodman

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Latest episode

Jun 26, 2024

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Episodes

Do Abusive People Always Isolate Their Victims? 26.06.2024

In this episode I talk about how abusive people can isolate their victims at home but SOMETIMES they encourage victims to leave home. Why? Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

You WILL Be the Villain in Their Story 12.06.2024

No matter what you do or don't do, you WILL be the villain in the abuser's story. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

Some Thoughts on Abuse in the LGBTQ+ Community 05.06.2024

In this episode, I talk about some issues with abuse in the LGBTQ+ community (and in general) and some things I wish we would change as a whole to make our community safer.

Using "I Love You" As a Weapon 08.05.2024

In today's episode, I talk about ways abusive people can use the words I love you as a weapon. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Abuse One in the Home, Abuse ALL in the Home 01.05.2024

In this episode, I talk about how when someone is abusing one person at home, they're abusing EVERYONE. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Monkey Branching 24.04.2024

In this episode I talk about monkey branching and what that can look like. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Why Does My Abuser Look SO Happy!? 17.04.2024

In this episode I talk about why abusive people LOOK so happy after your relationship with them ends. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

You Only Like it the way I Do It: Gaslighting & Sex 20.03.2024

In this episode, I talk about how some abusive people will tell you that you won't like sex with anyone else. Why do they say this? Is it true? Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Why Does My Abuser Always Walk in Front of Me? 13.03.2024

In this episode, I talk about what it can look like when your "partner" is always walking in front of you, and why an abusive person might do that.

Do You REALLY Know Your Abuser? 06.03.2024

In this episode I talk about how we can't really know our abusers because they most likely don't even know who THEY are.

AM I Healing? 28.02.2024

In this episode I talk about how sometimes, as you continue to heal from abuse, you might even start to miss moments of testament to your healing and why that's a wonderful thing.

Did You Notice Things Change When Their New "Partner" Came Around? 21.02.2024

In this episode I talk about some little things you might notice when someone starts dating a potentially abusive person.

Valentine's Day and Abuse 14.02.2024

In this episode I talk about several scenarios that might go down on Valentine's Day, or any special day, with an abusive person.

Do They REALLY Like the Same Things as You? 07.02.2024

In this episode I talk about how an abusive person can pretend to be everything you are/have so much in common with you, at least for a short while...

Mysterious Physical Issues? 03.01.2024

In this episode I talk about some of the mysterious physical issues I experienced while being abused and how YOUR "mysterious" issues might not be so mysterious. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

When You Try to Leave and Abusive Person 27.12.2023

In this episode I talk about a few of the times I attempted to leave my abuser and how eventually I learned (was trained) not to even try to leave. TRIGGER WARNING: physical abuse Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Using Finances to Control You 21.12.2023

In this episode I talk about how abusive people will use finances (financial abuse) to control you. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Abusers Will Use Helplessness to Control You 13.12.2023

In this episode, I talk about how abusive people will use your helplessness (which they will bring out in you) to control you. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Abusers Will Tell on Themselves 06.12.2023

In this episode, I talk about how quite often abusive people will tell on themselves. It's very hard to keep up with all the lies they tell, and if you pay attention, they'll give themselves away! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

EPISODE 100! What Have I Done Since Episode One? 29.11.2023

In this episode, I talk about 100 things I've done since I started recording and sharing this podcast with you! Just kidding, that would take too long, but I talk about a few of the big things! Thank you for being on this journey with me. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman In this episode, I talk about 100 things I've done since I star...

Am I A Fool for Not Knowing it was Abuse Sooner? 22.11.2023

Many people tell me they feel like a fool for not recognizing the abuse sooner. In this episode, I talk about why it doesn't make sense for us to feel that way! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Traumaversaries! 15.11.2023

In this episode I talk about what it can be like as trauma anniversaries roll around. How does it feel? How does it effect our bodies? How to get through those times? Website: Thelindsaygoodman.con 1:1 coaching/group coaching Calendly.com/Thelindsaygoodman

They’re ALREADY Dating Someone Else! Noooooo! 08.11.2023

Did you "go crazy" when your ABUSER moved on their next victim? Let's talk about why that might be and what to do about it! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

Why Should I Stay Single After Abuse? 01.11.2023

In this episode I talk about several reasons why it's so important to not rush into another relationship, especially after abuse (I KNOW you don't want to hear this but it's important)! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

PET THAT DOG! Pets in Abusive Relationships 25.10.2023

In this episode, I talk about two reasons why I DON'T pet the dog in my viral birthday video (here: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8rqpPKS/). Pets are used as pawns in relationship and here I dive into what that can look like for a victim. Website: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman

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