IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, parenting expert Ben shares invaluable insights on empowering teens in today's challenging world. Drawing from his experience as a foster parent, high school principal, and parenting life coach, Ben outlines six simple yet powerful steps to help parents foster independence, resilience, and confidence in their teens. From finding mentors to engaging...

"Send Ben a text" 5 Key Takeaways from my conversation Ashley Supporting Teen Interests: As parents, we should really get behind our teens' passions, even if they don't fit the typical school mold. It's about encouraging what they love and finding ways to make learning meaningful for them. Valuable Skills Outside School: Look at what happened with Ashley's son! He fou...

"Send Ben a text"  I'm super excited about to continue talking about How to help your teen when they hate school. We'll discuss how to shift from the blame game to empowerment, have meaningful conversations, and explore alternatives to traditional education. Trust me, you don't want to miss the insights and practical tips I've got lined up for you. Tune in and let&apo...

"Send Ben a text" Join me on a journey of redefining success for teens in today's world.  In this podcast, we debunk myths about school, explore alternative paths beyond college, and empower teens to thrive.  Let's challenge the status quo, break free from blame, and create an educational experience that truly prepares our teens for a successful future.  It's time to revol...

"Send Ben a text" 🎙️ Ready to break free from outdated parenting patterns?  If your relationship with your teen feels like a struggle, it might be time to reprogram your parenting mindset. 🚀 Key Steps to Parenting Transformation: 1️⃣ Don't Be Ashamed: Learn why there's no need to feel ashamed about your old parenting programming. Discover how gratitude and acceptance can pave...

"Send Ben a text" 🚀 Ready to make 2024 the year you actually achieve your parenting goals? Join Ben in this high-energy episode, as he reveals the secrets to becoming part of the 10% who make their New Year's goals a reality. 🎙️ Episode Insights: 1️⃣ Focus on Habits, Not Just Goals: Dive into the unconventional wisdom of prioritizing habits over big future goals. Learn how identify...

"Send Ben a text" 🎙️ Unlock a Better Connection with Your Teen in 2024! 🌟 Join Ben in our latest episode. Dive into quick, impactful mindset shifts to supercharge your parenting journey. Discover why seeing your teen as amazing and capable, finding joy in parenting, and becoming the change can make 2024 the best year yet. Tune in now for a dose of inspiration and practical tips! 🚀 CLIC...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, I share three powerful secrets to help parents deal with the common concern of teenagers who seem to hate or want nothing to do with them. By focusing on ourselves, letting go of control, and being the parent of our dreams, we can improve our relationship with our teenager. I also provide two bonus secrets, understanding our teenager's values and n...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast episode, we dive into the importance of building a strong connection with your teenager, even if they're not meeting your expectations. We chat about how teenagers actually want their parents to connect with them, and how letting go of expectations and attachments to desired outcomes can actually help you connect better with your teen. We also discu...

"Send Ben a text" Today we're discussing the importance of building holiday traditions with your teenagers. Traditions convey values, create connection, and bring joy. To create holiday traditions with teens you need to make it fun, keep it simple, and let the teen lead.  Also, make the tradition meaningful and considering traditions from different families. Set your intention to cr...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode of the Impact Parenting with Perspective podcast, I interview guest Jesse LeBeau, a youth speaker who shares his experiences and delivers messages about being an underdog, overcoming obstacles, and improving attitude and life. Jesse's passion for basketball led him to pursue a career in commercials, movies, and TV shows, but he realized that his pur...

"Send Ben a text" Ever feel like you're lost in the maze of parenting? Well, guess what? It might be because you're not exactly sure where you want to go or who you want to be as a parent. Yep, that could be the key to your unhappiness too. The author of this text offers a free audio course, Parenting from the Inside Out, where they dive into the first big thing – your identity...

"Send Ben a text" Everything is Energy: The core message is that everything, including ourselves, our emotions, and the world around us, is made up of energy. Understanding this fundamental concept sets the stage for managing our overall well-being. Emotional Intelligence Matters: Developing emotional intelligence is crucial. It involves identifying and comprehending our emotions, knowin...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast, I discuss exploring spirituality with an open mind, and acknowledging that traditional religious views may clash with non-traditional perspectives.  I differentiate between spirituality and religion, emphasizing a personal exploration without claiming expertise. I challenge the notion that worthiness determines spirituality, sharing personal experiences...

"Send Ben a text" Join us for an insightful discussion on building trust with your teen through consistent respect and boundary-setting.  Discover how modeling respectful behavior and fostering problem-solving skills can positively impact their growth.  Learn effective strategies for maintaining composure during challenges and the significance of self-reflection in creating a healthy fam...

"Send Ben a text" Hey there! Ever had a moment that completely changed your perspective? In this podcast, I'll share the story of how a simple sign flipped my world upside down. From feeling stuck in the victim mindset to discovering three game-changing mentalities, this journey will make you rethink how you see the world. Join me as I unveil the Victim Mentality , the Hero Mentalit...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast episode, Ben and Cynthia discuss the YouMap assessment, which helps identify teenagers' strengths, values, preferred skills, burnout skills, and interests. They emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and using this knowledge to make informed decisions.  Things we discuss: Importance of self-awareness and understanding one's strengths...

"Send Ben a text" Here is what you'll learn in this episode: Understanding the impact of bullying on both the victim and the bully. Rethinking traditional anti-bullying methods by emphasizing empowerment for both parties. Analyzing real-life bullying instances to reveal underlying issues and motivations. Providing practical advice for parents and educators to support teens facing bu...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast episode, you will learn: Trust is subjective and depends on individual expectations and experiences. Trust comes from within and is influenced by both expectations and actions. Clear communication and understanding of core needs are essential in parent-teen relationships. Dwelling on the past and thinking in black-and-white terms can hinder progress. Add...

"Send Ben a text" In this enlightening episode,  Ben explores a fundamental concept in parenting that most advice gets wrong – the external focus versus the internal focus. Discover why concentrating on things outside of your control, such as your teen's behavior, can drain your energy and hinder your growth as a parent.  Discover the key unseen elements that influence your parentin...

"Send Ben a text" Today's episode features Julia Rocque as a special guest, discussing the Pyramid of Influence.  The Arbinger Institute, known for "Leadership and Self-Deception," authored this concept. The pyramid consists of six levels: Get out of the box or improve your way of being. Build relationships with others who have influence. Build the relationship with your t...

"Send Ben a text" 3 types of Parent Traps you may be falling into: The Controlling Parent Trap: Ever found yourself trying to control every aspect of your teen's life, from their thoughts to their actions? It comes from a place of love, but it's a trap. We'll show you how to break free. The Doormat Parent Trap: On the flip side, some of us become total doormats, letting ou...

"Send Ben a text" Powerful Points Teens need support from a community of adults.  You can have an impact on more teens than simply your own teen. If you want to have an impact on a teens life, simply be the best adult you can be.  We both remember the impact that other adults had on our lives. Let us know if you would like us to do a Mini-Series. Shoot us a DM  @drive_your_thoughts_coach...

"Send Ben a text" You'll Have to Listen To This Episode This was an awesome interview with Carrie Marshall.  We had an amazing conversation.  As always, I don't really do show notes for my interviews because they're not scripted. We just talk and go.  Powerful Points Your story is worth sharing.  You have a story to share.  Anyone can write a book.  Understand what you wan...

"Send Ben a text" You'll Have to Listen To This Episode This was an awesome interview with Natalie Dianne.  We had an amazing conversation.  Powerful Points It's not your job to change your spouse, your teen, or anyone else.  You can only change yourself.  The only person who can know if divorce is right for you is YOU! Tap in to your internal wisdom, do the inner work, and mak...