IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text" Most parenting advice sounds good. Be more consistent. Set better rules. Use better consequences. Say the right words. Stay calm. But what if the real problem is that most advice points you at the wrong person? In this episode, Ben talks about why so much parenting advice leaves moms feeling stuck, guilty, and more frustrated with their teen. You’ll learn why your teen’...

"Send Ben a text" What do you do when your teen wants more freedom, but the trust is broken? In this episode, I talk with Brayden, a teen I’ve coached who went from almost no trust with his parents to earning more freedom, more peace, and a much better relationship at home. Brayden shares what it was like to feel watched, questioned, and not trusted. He also talks about the work he had t...

"Send Ben a text" Do you feel like you are always reacting to your teen? You ask a question. They push back. You get frustrated. They shut down. Then you feel guilty. In this episode, I talk with Sarah Mueller, a mom of four boys and the founder of The Decluttering Club. Sarah shares how coaching helped her feel more calm, clear, and equipped as a parent. She talks about what changed in...

"Send Ben a text" Giving your teen a voice can feel risky. You want him to learn responsibility, but you also do not want him running the house. You want less pushback, but you do not want to become a pushover. In this episode, Ben talks about how to give your teen a voice without giving him the final say. You’ll learn why teens are more likely to take ownership when they help create the...

"Send Ben a text" When your teen says, “I’ll do it later,” it can feel like they are ignoring you, avoiding responsibility, or trying to start a fight. But “later” does not have to turn into a power struggle. In this episode, I’ll show you one simple question to ask when your teen says “later”: “What time later?” This question helps your teen move from vague promises to a real plan. It g...

"Send Ben a text" Summer with your teen should not feel like a full-time job. But if you are always reminding, chasing, checking, nagging, and managing everything, it is no wonder you feel worn out. In this episode, Ben talks about 7 ways to overcome mom fatigue with your teen by stepping out of the “summer police” role. You will learn why your teen may not be taking responsibility, how...

"Send Ben a text" Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights? You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle. In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A lot of parents think they are setting boundaries, but they are really reacting after things have already gone too far. And a reaction is no...

"Send Ben a text" Do you and your teen keep having the same fight over and over again? Maybe it’s about chores, screen time, sleep, attitude, or video games. And with summer coming, you may already feel stressed about what’s ahead. In this episode, Ben explains why summer often makes these fights worse. But here’s the good news: summer is not the real problem. Your teen is not the proble...

"Send Ben a text" Is your teen struggling right now? Maybe he is stressed, frustrated, disappointed, or ready to give up. And as a parent, you may want to jump in and fix it. But what if your teen needs some struggle? In this episode, Ben and Cortni talk about how resilience is built. It does not come from having an easy life. It comes from doing hard things and learning, “I can get thro...

"Send Ben a text" Is your teen staying up too late, sleeping through alarms, and walking around tired all day? You might think your teen has a sleep problem. But what if sleep is not the real issue? In this episode, Ben and Cortni talk about the real reason many teens won’t go to bed. It is not just phones, video games, homework, or bad habits. A lot of teens are trying to fit sleep into...

"Send Ben a text" If your teen keeps breaking the same rules…  and nothing you try is working… this episode is for you. Most parents think they have a behavior problem. But that’s not the real issue. You don’t have a behavior problem…  you have a boundary problem. In this episode, we break down why consequences often fail and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to stop focusing on what...

"Send Ben a text" Is your teen lazy… or are you just looking at it the wrong way? In this episode, we break down why your teen might not be motivated—and why it’s not what you think. Most teens aren’t lazy. They’re motivated by comfort, fun, and what matters to them… not always what matters to you. You’ll learn how motivation really works, why your teen resists what you push, and how to...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, Ben and Nola Gephart talk about why teens want freedom but often avoid responsibility—and what parents can do about it. You’ll learn how to stop rescuing your teen, empower them to grow up, and help them earn independence the right way. NolaGephartCoaching.com Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and...

"Send Ben a text" If you feel like you’re repeating yourself every day—and your teen still doesn’t listen—this episode is for you. “Be home on time.” “Do your homework.” “Get off your phone.” And nothing changes. Most parents think they have a teen problem. But what if it’s actually a boundary problem?  In this episode, we break down why most parenting boundaries don’t work—and how to fi...

"Send Ben a text" What if your teen isn’t the problem? Most parenting advice tells you to fix their behavior. Get them to listen. Change their attitude. But what if that’s exactly why it’s not working? In this episode, I sit down with Randon Young, author of Foundations for Business Relationships , to unpack simple but powerful relationship principles that weren’t written for parents… bu...

"Send Ben a text" You said “I’m sorry”…  But your teen is still upset. Now what? Most parents think an apology should fix things.  But with teens, it often doesn’t—and that’s where the frustration starts. In this episode, I’ll show you why your apology didn’t land…  and what your teen actually needs from you instead. You’ll learn:  Why “I’m sorry” alone often falls flat   The common mist...

"Send Ben a text" Do you feel like your teen is pulling away? They don’t talk. They stay in their room. And nothing seems to work. Most parents think the problem is their teen. But what if it’s not? In this episode, I share why teens feel disconnected—and what actually helps you rebuild that connection. It’s simpler than you think. And it starts with you. 🎧 Listen now to learn how to re...

"Send Ben a text" Does it feel like your teen is pulling away from you? Most parents respond by trying to control things. They give more advice, fix problems, and try to guide every decision. But control often pushes teens farther away. In this episode of IMPACT! Parenting with Perspective , Ben and Cortni share two powerful parenting ideas: The Pool Edge and The Steering Wheel . You’ll...

"Send Ben a text" When your teen melts down emotionally, most parents react the wrong way. But what if the most powerful parenting skill isn’t fixing your teen’s emotions? In this episode, we explore the emotional awareness skill that can make parenting teens much easier. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Tak...

"Send Ben a text" Do you ever find yourself reacting just like your teen? They get angry… and you get angry.  They panic… and you panic.  They shut down… and you shut down. Most parents don’t mean to do this. But when we mirror our teen’s bad behavior, we actually make things worse. In this episode, I talk about the difference between mirroring and modeling . You’ll learn: Why awareness...

"Send Ben a text" Are teens today really less resilient? Or have we misunderstood what resilience actually is? In this episode, I break down 5 common myths about teen resilience that many parents believe. These myths can lead to more fear, more panic, and more stress at home. You’ll learn: Why sadness is not an emergency Why emotional pain is not dangerous Why protecting your teen can ac...

"Send Ben a text" Most parents believe they’re emotionally intelligent — but parenting teens reveals the truth fast. In this episode of IMPACT! Parenting with Perspective , we break down the emotional skill every parent thinks they have (but usually doesn’t) and why missing it leads to frustration, yelling, guilt, and disconnection. You’ll learn: The difference between emotional health,...

"Send Ben a text" What do you do when your teen won’t listen, won’t change, or won’t accept help?  Maybe they refuse coaching, therapy, or even a simple conversation. In this episode, Ben Pugh talks to parents who feel stuck and worn out. He shares what you can do when your teen isn’t willing to work on themselves. You’ll learn how to stop trying to control what you can’t, focus on what...

"Send Ben a text" Many parents today are scared. Everywhere you look, there are headlines saying phones, social media, AI, and screen time are driving teen suicide. It can feel overwhelming. And when parents feel afraid, they often start parenting from panic. In this episode, I want to slow things down and zoom out. We talk about what the data actually shows about teen suicide. We look a...

"Send Ben a text" Parenting a teen can feel draining.  You might feel tired, frustrated, or stuck in stress mode. If that’s you, this episode is here to help. In this conversation, Ben and Cortni talk about why parenting feels so exhausting and how to start feeling better fast. The problem usually isn’t your teen. It’s where your energy and focus are going. You’ll learn simple shifts tha...