IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text" Some of the most common problems with athletes If you have a teen athlete, this podcast is for you and for them.  If you don't have a teen athlete, you can still listen because these principles are true in parenting as well.  Every year I coach a handful of elite athletes who want to take their game to the next level.  Often times, these are athletes who used to pl...

"Send Ben a text" Some of the most common problems with athletes If you have a teen athlete, this podcast is for you and for them.  If you don't have a teen athlete, you can still listen because these principles are true in parenting as well.  Every year I coach a handful of elite athletes who want to take their game to the next level.  Often times, these are athletes who used to pl...

"Send Ben a text" Are You and/or Your Teen Dreading School? First off, I think you should know that teens all over the US are dreading returning to school.  If you're teen is feeling anxious and they are dreading school, this episode is for you.  If you're teen is excited and ready to return to school, you can still implement everything you hear in this episode to help your tee...

"Send Ben a text" As the back-to-school season approaches, parents and teens alike experience a mix of emotions. While some parents eagerly anticipate the return to routine, many teens might feel anxious and overwhelmed by the upcoming challenges. If you find yourself wondering if coaching is the right solution for your teen during this critical time, this podcast is here to provide valu...

"Send Ben a text" You'll Have to Listen To This Episode This was an awesome interview with Emily Brown.  We had an amazing conversation.  As always, I don't really do show notes for my interviews because they're not scripted. We just talk and go.  Powerful Points In this episode we talked about how many parents struggle homeschooling their children because they're try...

"Send Ben a text" Want a Better Relationship with Your Teen? If you're anything like the parents that I work with, you probably want to improve your relationship with your teen.  That's awesome, because having an impactful relationship with your teen the foundation that successful teens are built on.  The problem is, there are sneaky traps that parents get caught up in that kil...

"Send Ben a text" Powerful Points In this episode we talked about parenting being the best personal development course ever.  We talked about how it gives you endless opportunities for personal growth.  Dr. Paul also taught about how personal growth is one of his 4 pillars for positive parenting. Dr. Paul's Free Book As a special gift to you, Dr. Paul is giving away his eBook, Porta...

"Send Ben a text" YOU Have the Power to Make Tough Moments Powerful Moments Recently in one of my group coaching call, a mom humbly and a little embarrassed admitted that she had recently parented her teen in a way that she was not proud of.  In fact, she was embarrassed and beating herself up. She couldn't understand how, after learning all this new stuff inside the membership, she...

"Send Ben a text" This is an awesome conversation about trauma and Triggers with Dr. Leanne Hawken After my recent podcast episode, Leanne reached out to me to further the discussion on trauma and triggers. This is a powerful conversation.  SO, you'll definitely want to listen to this one rather than just trying to read the show notes.  Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover th...

"Send Ben a text" Have You Ever Had A "Gut Punch" Realization? Today, I'm going to tell you about one of the most life altering events of my life.  It took place during a jog at my local walking park with Brooke Castillo.  Only, she wasn't there.  It was just me, my phone, and my head phones, and Brooke's podcast. It's Not My Teen That Needs To Change, It&ap...

"Send Ben a text" What Does Trigger Even Mean?  For most people, when their talking about triggers, or "being triggered", they're usually talking about some kind of circumstance that triggers them or others.  This circumstance could be somebody else's actions, or words, or even something outside of their control like the color of their skin, their past, or even their...

"Send Ben a text" Habits Are Underrated and Underutilized  Every year around New Year's, everyone starts talking about goals.  This is awesome, I think everyone should have goals. The problem is, with out habits, your goals are little more than dreams. If you want to accomplish your goals, you need to identify, "What habits will it take to accomplish my goal?" Powerful Par...

"Send Ben a text" Boundaries are Misunderstood There are some common mistakes that parents make when setting boundaries. Boundaries aren't meant to control others. Boundaries are important for you and your teen. Come Join Me! I'm going to be Live for my 3 Day Be the Change Parenting Training It's going to be awesome! Register and Save the dates: June 8 - 12PM (MDT) June 13...

"Send Ben a text" Trying to Control Your Teen Hurts Your Teen Just Because Everyone Does It Doesn't Make It Right Do You Like It When Others Try To Control You? There's a Better Way If You Continue to Control, Your Relationship will Suffer Come Join Me! I'm getting ready to do my 3 day live Be the Change Parenting series. This is one of my most popular trainings that I do....

"Send Ben a text" Teens want connection. Contrary to the myth that teens don't want anything to do with you as their parents, it's important for you to trust that your teen actually desires a connection with you.  Build Values-Based Connection.   Instead of trying to connect over things that you value, it is important to connect with your teen based on their values and interest...

"Send Ben a text" Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast episode, I interview Cliff Ravenscraft from MindsetAnswerman.com We talk about: 1. Identity 2. Abundance 3. The Law of Attraction and a few other random things. Come Listen and Enjoy this Podcast Interview! Want to be the mom of your dreams? Come join us in my parenting membership. Benpughccoaching.com/fffp Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the...

"Send Ben a text" Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-...

"Send Ben a text" Real Talk about the book Leadership and Self-Deception What does it mean to be “in the box” towards someone? Being “In the Box”= Seeing ourselves and others in a systematically distorted way. Others are mere Objects Being “Out of the Box” = Seeing ourselves and others more or less as we are, as People. Self-deception is creating stories based on your own reality that do...

"Send Ben a text" What is Your Parenting Identity? One of the things I’ve realized is that if you are struggling to make lasting changes in your life, it is probably because you don’t identify as someone who could make those changes. Mindset Matters! Often times, experts, whether in parenting, business, or weight loss focus on the tactics, but they often forget the mindset component. Min...

"Send Ben a text" Feel Powerless in Your Parenting? If you're like most parents, you've probably felt powerless from time to time.  In fact, if you're a first time listener to this podcast, I'm guessing that you've recently found yourself feeling powerless.  If you've listened to my podcast very long, you've probably heard me say that when you feel powe...

"Send Ben a text" My Favorite Things to Teach I want to walk you through my 10 favorite things to teach parents.  In fact, these principles are not only my favorite things to teach, but they are the things that the parents who I work with consistently tell me have had the most impact on their lives.  So, over the next several episodes, you'll get access to my top 10 favorite princip...

"Send Ben a text" If you create experiences you can create powerful transformations and powerful relationships. We underestimate the power of fun in our lives. When I took my kids surfing in Hawaii the instructor told us that when we got up to make sure that we looked ahead of us, like at a palm tree. If we looked down in the water, that is where we would end up. I love this, it fits so...

"Send Ben a text" My Favorite Things to Teach I want to walk you through my 10 favorite things to teach parents.  In fact, these principles are not only my favorite things to teach, but they are the things that the parents who I work with consistently tell me have had the most impact on their lives.  So, over the next several episodes, you'll get access to my top 10 favorite princip...

"Send Ben a text" Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-...