Jessica Cooke
I’m Done! Now What?
Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling tra...
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Jessica Cooke
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Jul 7, 2026
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Episodes
Episode 273: Is Your Body Image Secretly Running the Show? 24.06.2025 30:00
What if your body image has been quietly making decisions for you — not just about food or fitness, but about how much space you’re allowed to take up in your own life? 3 Reasons to Tune In: You’ll hear how body image can shape everyday choices — without you even realising it. Discover the hidden rules you might be living by when it comes to food, exercise, and clothing. Explore what could change...
Episode 272: What’s Really Stopping You—and Why You’ll Never Get Fit Until You Face It 17.06.2025 37:43
What’s really getting in the way of your success when it comes to being fit, healthy and consistent? For years, I went around in circles—desperate to become fit and healthy, to start feeling good but I always ended up back at square one. And I realised... the things I thought were holding me back? They weren’t the real issue at all. In this episode, I’m opening up about the sneaky, unexpected thin...
Episode 271: From Numbing Out to Waking Up: My Breakthrough with Wine, Food & Scrolling 10.06.2025 31:10
Do you feel like you eat, drink, and scroll too much — and wish you didn’t? I drank too much for years. I overate for years too. And while I didn’t hate it all the time, towards the end… I just felt stuck. Every day felt like Groundhog Day. Every Monday felt like I was starting again. I wasn’t making progress in the areas that mattered to me. I felt unfit, tired, and sluggish all the time. My clot...
Episode 270: I Was Tired, Unfit, and Starting Over Again… Here’s What I Wish I Knew 03.06.2025 33:18
You keep thinking, “If only I knew back then what I know now…” You’re either all in or completely off—and you’re so tired of swinging between the two. In this episode, I’m taking you back to the version of me that was stuck in that loop—eating too much, drinking too much, and feeling totally disconnected from my body. I’ll share what I wish I’d known back then, the tiny mindset traps I couldn’t se...
Episode 269: You Feel Off Every Monday—Are Your Weekend Habits Out of Sync? 27.05.2025 26:50
You feel off every Monday. Tired, bloated, overwhelmed—like you’ve gone too far again, and now you’re starting over. You tell yourself you’ll get back on track, but deep down, it’s the same cycle every week. And it’s exhausting. In this episode, we’re slowing things right down. We’ll look at what’s really going on with your weekend habits—not from a place of shame, but from curiosity. If you’ve be...
Episode 268: Could These 6 Habits Be Stealing Your Peace? 20.05.2025 32:19
You’re doing your best, but something still feels off. You’re ticking all the boxes, but deep down, you feel overwhelmed, unsettled, and like you’ve lost a bit of yourself. In this episode, we’re getting really honest about the small habits that might be stealing your peace — without you even realising it. These aren’t big dramatic things, but they quietly pile up and leave you feeling exhausted,...
Episode 267: Evenings Were My Downfall — How I Stopped Using Food and Wine to Cope 13.05.2025 26:53
You tell yourself every night, “This time will be different.” But somehow, you’re back at the fridge, glass in hand, wondering why it keeps happening. You’re tired. You want peace. And you’re not sure how to get it. In this episode, I’m sharing what my evenings used to look like—and why they felt so hard, even when everything on the outside looked fine. If you’ve ever felt that pull toward food or...
Episode 266: Is It OK to Not Like Exercise? 06.05.2025 17:21
You keep trying to stick with exercise… but it just never clicks. Maybe you start off motivated, but it always ends up feeling like a chore—and then the guilt creeps back in. In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh way to look at movement—especially if you’ve never really enjoyed working out. We’ll talk about why so many women feel disconnected from exercise, and what can shift when you stop forcing...
Episode 265: You’re Not the Problem—Your Plan Is 29.04.2025 41:50
You’ve been putting in the effort—counting, tracking, doing long workouts—but still feeling stuck. It’s frustrating when you’re doing so much and getting so little back. In this episode, we’re digging into why the usual plans—like calorie counting, step goals, or endless food prep—often leave you feeling more tired, more stressed, and no closer to your goals. You’ll hear real stories from women wh...
Episode 264: You’re Not Lazy—Here’s What’s Really Going On 22.04.2025 28:40
You keep calling yourself lazy… but deep down, you know that’s not really it. You’re tired, overwhelmed, and wondering why you just can’t seem to get it together. In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s actually going on when you feel stuck or off-track—and why pushing harder isn’t the answer. I’ll share a few real-life stories from women who thought they just needed more willpower, and what helped...
Episode 263: The Motivation Crash: What to Do When the Buzz Wears Off 15.04.2025 24:41
You were all in. Focused. Ready. Then out of nowhere, the motivation just… vanished. And now you’re wondering, “What happened?” 😕 In this episode, we’re talking about that moment—the dip. When the energy fades, the excitement goes quiet, and everything starts to feel harder than it should. If you’ve ever felt like you were doing great and then lost your rhythm, this is going to help you make sens...
Episode 262: Want to Feel Like You Again? Start With These 3 Shifts 08.04.2025 20:51
You’re going through the motions, holding everything together—but deep down, you don’t feel like you anymore. If you’re feeling sluggish, overwhelmed, or just off… this episode is for you. I’m sharing three small but powerful shifts that can help you feel grounded, strong, and clear again—without overhauling your whole life. Tune in to learn: ✔️ Why doing more might be the very thing keeping you s...
Episode 261: 10 Hidden Habits Keeping You Stuck and Overwhelmed 01.04.2025 36:03
You’re eating well. Moving more. Doing what you think you should be doing… So why do you still feel tired, bloated, overwhelmed—and stuck? In this episode, I’m sharing 10 sneaky habits that might be quietly working against you. These aren’t the obvious ones, but they can leave you feeling drained no matter how hard you try. Tune in to learn: ✔️ What these hidden habits are—and why they’re so easy...
Episode 260: Why Some Women Over 40 Stay Consistent—While Others Keep Starting Over 25.03.2025 17:48
Why do some women over 40 stay consistent—while others keep starting over? It’s not about willpower. It’s not about being more motivated. The difference comes down to a few key mindset shifts and habits that make consistency feel easier. Tune in to learn: ✔️ The mindset shift that separates women who stay on track from those who constantly restart. ✔️ How to make time for fitness instead of waitin...
Episode 259: Struggling to get results? You might be making these 10 common mistakes. 19.03.2025 30:31
You’re putting in the effort, but progress feels slow—or completely stalled. The truth? It’s not about trying harder. It’s about knowing what’s actually holding you back. In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes that might be slowing you down, including: ✔️ The real reason why focusing on weight loss can hold you back ✔️ A habit almost everyone does—but actually works against progre...
Episode 258: Struggling to Stay Motivated? Here’s How to Make Fitness Feel Easier 12.03.2025 22:05
Why does staying consistent with fitness feel so hard? Do you start strong, then lose motivation after a few weeks? What if motivation isn’t actually the problem? I used to think I just needed more willpower. I’d go all-in, train hard for a few weeks, then stop. Every time I quit, I told myself I wasn’t disciplined enough. Sound familiar? The truth is, most people struggle because they’re making f...
Episode 257: Tired of Feeling Stuck? How Sabrina Finally Broke the Cycle 05.03.2025 40:20
Do you feel like you're constantly starting over, stuck in the same unhealthy habits, and unsure how to break free? In this episode, I sit down with Sabrina, a Thrive Academy member who transformed her mindset, ditched alcohol and sugar, and finally took control of her health. She shares the struggles she faced, the powerful shifts that helped her break the cycle, and how accountability and self...
Episode 256: The Secret to Discipline & Achieving Your Goals (Even When You Don’t Feel Like It) 26.02.2025 30:44
Have you ever started something with the best intentions—whether it’s working out, eating better, or sticking to a routine—only to fall off track when motivation disappears? You’re not alone. The truth is, motivation is unreliable, but discipline? That’s what creates real, lasting results. In this episode, I’m sharing practical, no-fluff strategies to help you build discipline and stay consistent...
Episode 255: Why You’re Overcomplicating Food (and How to Make It Easy) 19.02.2025 30:02
Have you ever felt like eating healthy is just too hard? Like no matter what plan you follow, you always end up back in the same cycle—being "good" during the week, then overeating at weekends, feeling frustrated, and starting over again? I’ve been there. In this episode, I’m sharing exactly why we overcomplicate food and how to finally make it easy to eat well without stress, guilt, or strict rul...
Episode 254: Mary Stopped Chasing Weight Loss—And Found Peace, Strength, and Lasting Change 12.02.2025 33:28
Struggling with consistency? Feeling stuck in the cycle of trying, stopping, and starting over? You’re not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Mary O’Dwyer, a thriving member of Thrive Academy, to talk about her incredible transformation. Mary once believed that success meant being “on” or “off”, “good” or “bad”. She thought the key to health was weight loss and dieting—until she discovered a...
Episode 253: Thinking of Quitting Alcohol? Here’s What You Need to Know 05.02.2025 43:17
Have you been thinking about quitting alcohol but feel stuck, unsure, or just a bit lost on what life would even look like without it? Maybe drinking doesn’t feel right anymore, but the idea of stopping feels overwhelming. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. I’m joined by Olivia Farrelly, host of No More Booze and founder of Grey Area Drinker. Olivia gave up alcohol in 2018, and now...
Episode 252: How to Stick to Your Habits When Life Throws You a Curveball 29.01.2025 20:02
When life throws you a curve ball do you stick to your healthy habits or let them slide? Life doesn’t always go as planned—storms roll in, routines get disrupted, and chaos can take over. But what if those moments were the most important times to stick with your habits? What if in those moments you kept a thread of consistency and this kept you out of that dreaded all or nothing loop. In this epi...
Episode 251: How to Rebuild Yourself: Overcoming Stress, Burnout, and Trauma with Laura Farrington 22.01.2025 39:41
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Laura Farrington, founder of Umbrella Wellness and host of "The Are You Well Podcast." After the loss of her father, Laura experienced a life-changing awakening that led her to leave her corporate job and discover the transformative power of yoga, meditation, and setting boundaries. Laura opens up about her journey through anxiety, work-related burnout, an...
Episode 250: Stress and Overwhelm: The Real Reasons Healthy Habits Feel Hard 15.01.2025 35:00
Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, stress and overwhelm keep pulling you away from the healthy habits you want to stick to? Do you feel like stress and overwhelm are stopping you from sticking to healthy habits? 💭 Maybe you’re trying so hard, but no matter what, it feels like nothing works. You’re not alone—stress can make everything feel so much harder. In this episode, I’m sharin...
Episode 249: Overeating: What to Do When You’re Ready to Say ‘I’m Done’ 08.01.2025 45:41
Are you ready to say, ‘I’m done’ to overeating? ❌🍔 Have you hit that pivotal moment where you’re ready for change but don’t know where to start? 💭 In this episode, I’m diving into the real reasons why overeating feels so hard to break and what to do when you’re ready to tackle overeating. 💪🏻 We’ll explore why quick fixes and extreme diets never work and how shifting your focus to the bigg...
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