Jessica Cooke

I’m Done! Now What?

Health EN ↓ 322 episodes

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling tra...

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Jessica Cooke

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Health

Podcast website

inspirefitness.podbean.com

Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

Episode: 298: You Think You Have a Weight Problem — Here’s What It Really Is 13.01.2026

You think you have a weight problem — but what if that’s not actually the issue? In this episode, I share my own experience of feeling tired, overwhelmed, and stuck in the all-or-nothing cycle with food, exercise, and life. I talk about what my days really looked like, why forcing discipline never worked for me, and the moment I realised the problem wasn’t my body — it was overload. We explore how...

Episode 297: Body Shaming, Focus, and Mapping Out Your Year 06.01.2026

I’m starting this year the way I mean to go on — slowly and steadily. In this episode, I talk about how self body-shaming is deeply harmful. I share how learning that where your focus goes, energy flows completely changed my life. I also reflect on the fact that none of us are here forever, and why that matters when it comes to how we live and work.  This episode is a reminder to do the things you...

Episode 296: Ask Trisha: Therapy Fatigue, Family Conflict & Emotional Boundaries 23.12.2025

After how popular our first Ask Trisha episode (episode 293) was, Trisha is back. In this Ask Trisha, we answer the questions you sent in — the ones about feeling drained after therapy, navigating family dynamics, supporting others without taking everything on, and making sense of the emotions that show up after loss. It’s an honest, practical conversation about protecting your energy, setting emo...

Episode 295: Advice I’ll Never Give You Over Christmas 16.12.2025

Every Christmas, well-meaning advice gets thrown around like confetti. Swap wine for gin. Skip meals so you can enjoy later. But this advice isn’t helping. In fact, it’s the reason so many women stay stuck in the same December–January cycle year after year. In this episode, I talk about the advice I will never give over Christmas — and why quick fixes, swaps, and control-based thinking don’t work...

Episode 294: I Got Sick of My Own Bullshit — And That Pain Became Rocket Fuel 09.12.2025

In this episode I’m chatting about how I only changed when the pain of my own habits got too big to ignore. I was tired of feeling sluggish, bloated, unfit, anxious, trapped in excuses, trapped in cycles I kept promising myself I’d break. And instead of pretending everything was fine, I finally used that pain as fuel. That pain wasn’t a weakness — it became my turning point. Today, I’m breaking do...

Episode 293: Ask Trisha: Sabotage, Adult Kids & Routine Struggles 02.12.2025

How do you get out of old patterns and cycles that you’re stuck in? How do you talk to your adult children? And how do you stop self-sabotaging on a Thursday when you’ve been healthy all week? These are the questions I put to psychotherapist Trisha McHale on my latest podcast episode. Trisha has a real gift for getting straight to the root of things and explaining it in a way that actually makes s...

Episode 292: If You Always Start January Feeling Like Crap…This Is for You 25.11.2025

Are you done eating crap and drinking too much over Christmas? This will be my 4th Christmas having a healthy one — enjoying myself in ways that aren’t food or alcohol related. I’m blessed. I feel like I’ve broken free from a toxic part of our society that gets pushed on us the second Halloween is over. The idea that we need to spend, eat, and drink to have a good time — and if we don’t, there’s s...

Episode 291: How I Broke My Old Patterns and Took Back Control 18.11.2025

I used to feel so bad, stuck and trapped in so many unhealthy habits. It felt like no matter what I tried to do, I couldn’t get out of these patterns. I hated it. In this episode, I’m sharing how I went from feeling so stuck in these unhealthy habits to becoming fit, strong, centred, and calm. If you’re feeling stuck in old patterns and you want to take back control, this episode is for you. Click...

Episode 290: You Can Rebuild — No Matter What You’ve Been Through, with Rachel Gotto 11.11.2025

When life breaks you open, how do you find the strength to rebuild? In this powerful episode, I talk with Rachel Gotto — a woman who has faced unthinkable loss, illness, and recovery, and somehow found her way back to peace, purpose, and strength. Her story is raw, real, and deeply inspiring. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or like you’re starting again from zero, this conversation will remind yo...

Episode 289: My Phone Was Running My Life — Until I Took It Back 04.11.2025

On holiday, I got the wake-up call I didn’t know I needed — not from my phone, but from the silence that came when I finally put it down. Somewhere along the way, I’d let my phone run my day — checking, scrolling, reacting, repeating. And I realised just how much energy, focus, and peace it was stealing. In this episode, I’m sharing what I learned from stepping back, the signs that your phone migh...

Episode 288: Why Diet Culture Is Still Controlling You (Even When You Think You’ve Moved On) 14.10.2025

Are you struggling to get fit and healthy? If you’ve got one foot in diet culture and the other half of you is telling yourself you don’t agree with it, you’ll keep going around in circles — because both of your feet are pointed in opposite directions. You need to make a choice.  Do you agree with diet culture — weighing yourself, tracking your food? Or do you disagree with it and stand against it...

Episode 287: Stop Overcomplicating Fitness — Here’s How to Keep It Simple and Get Results 07.10.2025

If you’ve been overcomplicating your workouts, this episode will help you strip it back to what actually works. I’ll walk you through why so many women over 40 struggle to stay consistent, what’s really getting in the way, and how to simplify your routine so you feel fit, strong, and mobile again — without burning out or giving up. Here’s why you need to listen: You’ll learn what doesn’t work for...

Episode 286: Resilience at the Edge with Extreme Cold Water Swimmer Nuala Moore 30.09.2025

Nuala Moore is an Irish open water swimmer and adventurer who has pushed human limits in some of the most extreme conditions on earth. With two Guinness World Records and decades of experience in the ocean, she’s learned what fear, discomfort, and resilience really mean. In this episode, Nuala shares: What happens in the exact moment you face fear, and how to know if it’s protecting you or holding...

Episode 285: Who Am I Without Wine? Rebuilding Your Evenings Without a Glass in Hand 23.09.2025

I wasn’t out of control. I just knew something had to change. Wine had become the thing I turned to — for stress, overwhelm, holidays, Friday nights, everything. But at a certain point, I started to wonder… What is this actually costing me? In this episode, I share: The moment I said “I’m done” — and what scared me most about giving it up The identity wobble that no one prepares you for What life...

Episode 284: Love Coach Hannah Holt on Building Self-Love & Inner Calm 16.09.2025

In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Holt, the woman behind High on Love — part love coach, part wake-up call, part warmest hug of your life. Hannah’s story and work are all about helping you say fuck it to the pressure, the should's, and the lists… and instead choose something far more profound: YOU. Through her transformational breathwork and her signature Fuck It Method, Hannah guides women...

Episode 283: Busy Is Not the Problem — Let’s Talk Choices 09.09.2025

In this episode, I’m calling out one of the biggest patterns that keeps women stuck: saying “life got in the way.” But you know what? — life is always busy. There’s always something pulling at your attention. But skipping your workouts, dropping your routine, or abandoning your healthy habits is still a choice — and one that leaves you feeling worse. This isn’t about blame. It’s about taking back...

Episode 282: 10 Brutal Reasons I Couldn’t Lose Weight 02.09.2025

Have you ever wondered why, no matter how hard you try, the weight just won’t shift?  I know that feeling all too well. For years I was stuck in the same exhausting cycle of starting over every Monday, eating well for a while, then crashing back into stress, wine and sugar. It wasn’t just about food or exercise.  There were hidden reasons I couldn’t lose the weight, and in this episode I’m sharing...

Episode 281: Wine, Stress, Food, Busyness… Avoidance Nearly Broke Me 26.08.2025

Are you pouring a glass of wine, reaching for food, or keeping yourself endlessly busy just to cope? I know what that feels like, because I did it too. Wine to switch off, food for comfort, busyness to avoid slowing down. I thought I was protecting myself from stress — but in reality, I was avoiding the deeper pain underneath. And it nearly broke me. Here are 3 reasons to tune in: Discover the hid...

Episode 280: Are You Choosing Inner Excellence—or Settling for Mediocrity? 19.08.2025

Most people want change… but when the discomfort comes, they quit. You can either choose the temporary discomfort of building new habits — or live with the long-term discomfort of an unfulfilled, unhealthy, stuck life. In this episode, I’m asking you straight: are you choosing inner excellence, or are you settling for mediocrity? We’ll talk about: Why discomfort is the price of growth The differen...

Episode 279: You Can’t Get Organised If You Have No Boundaries — Here’s Where to Start 12.08.2025

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to get organised… this episode is for you. In today’s chat, I’m sharing why the real problem isn’t your time management or how busy you are — it’s your boundaries. We’ll dive into the hidden ways you’re giving away your time and energy without even realising it, and why you keep saying yes when you know y...

Episode 278: Exercise Feels Like a Chore? It’s Not Laziness — It’s This 29.07.2025

Whether you’re showing up and doing the workouts — or avoiding them altogether — if exercise feels like a chore lately, you’re not alone. It’s not that you’re lazy. It’s not that you need more motivation. There’s something deeper going on — and in this episode, I’m diving into it. We’ll talk about: Why movement can start to feel flat, draining, or like pressure The emotional undercurrent that’s of...

Episode 277: Living Inside a Traumatised Body: A Conversation with Fiona Feeley 22.07.2025

What does it really mean to lose yourself… and then find your way back? In this episode, I’m joined by Fiona Feeley — a psychotherapist, speaker, and mental health advocate who blends psychology, body-based healing, and spiritual practices to help people feel whole again. Fiona opens up about her own darkest moments, the trauma that shaped her, and how she transformed her life from survival mode t...

Episode 276: Half-In Gets You Nothing 15.07.2025

If you’re not getting the results you want… If you’re telling yourself you are doing it — but deep down, you know you’re not fully in — this episode is for you. Because not taking action is an action. Not deciding is a decision. And staying stuck doesn’t happen by accident — it happens by default. In this episode, we’ll get into: The real reason you’re circling the same patterns What happens when...

Episode 275: Mary Ann Kenny on Grief, Breakdown, and Rebuilding Life After Loss 07.07.2025

I had the privilege of interviewing Mary Ann Kenny, author of The Episode: A True Story of Loss, Madness and Healing. Mary Ann is a lecturer, writer, and mother who shares her deeply personal journey with honesty and courage. In our conversation, Mary Ann opens up about the unimaginable: the sudden loss of her husband John, who died while out for a jog just days after her 50th birthday. Grief quic...

Episode 274: Quitting? Nah — You’re Here to Win. 01.07.2025

In this episode, I’m sharing the truth about quitting — why we’re tempted to quit when it feels hard, when the routine isn’t working, or when that negative self-talk kicks in. I’ll take you behind the scenes of my own life: the abusive relationships I left, the scrubbing gym floors after my degree, the battles building my business, giving up drink, and figuring out how to survive weekends without...

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