I Love You So Much - ILYSM

Reed’s flying solo with the brilliant Nicole Sachs (Mind Your Body, The Cure for Chronic Pain). Nicole shares her own insight on how to actually reprogram your brain.  Together, Nicole and Reed dive into radical acceptance, why we’re built to remember pain, and how to break the cycle of self-loathing.  If you’ve been struggling; in your body, in your mind, or in your heart, this episode’s for you...

This week on ILYSM, we welcome the incredible Chris Sullivan; Emmy-nominated actor you know from Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2, This Is Us, and Hadestown. Together, we dive into;  selfishness, self-pity, and patience; and what it really takes to grow through pain instead of getting stuck in it. The guys get honest about complaining, perspective, and the possibility that maybe… we never fully “fin...

This week on ILYSM, we’re joined by actor, comedian, and Vine star Manon Mathews! Tyler comes clean about a childhood lie, and Reed admits to ghosting someone. Manon opens up about her experience being cheated on, and Tyler shares his own perspective from the other side; a raw, vulnerable conversation about infidelity, trust, and the messy human side of love. It’s funny, honest, and deeply real......

This week on ILSYM, the legendary Will Sasso (MADtv, The Three Stooges, Happy Gilmore) joins Reed & Tyler to discuss health, self-care, and what it really means to show up as a man. We discuss taking antidepressants, CPAPs, mouth guards, and why taking care of yourself isn’t weak; it’s how you show up for the people who love you. Cheers to the men who inspire us; may we all know them, may we a...

This week on ILYSM, Reed & Tyler welcome Mel Rodriguez to the table. You’ve seen him in Better Call Saul, Getting On, and The Last Man on Earth, but here you’ll meet the man behind the roles. Together, we talk about the hard stuff; battling addiction, weight struggles, and the pressure men feel to stay silent about their emotions. Stay tuned for timeless advice from men on what truly leads to...

Rage, acceptance, and tolerance; we’re diving into it all this week on ILYSM. Steph Barkley joins us to unpack the emotional tug-of-war between doing the work that pays the bills and chasing passion projects that sometimes leave us resentful. There's laughter, there's vulnerability… and yes, we may or may not be booking a rage room by the end of it. Tune in to see how it all unfolds! Sup...

We take a look back at some of our favorite conversations from ILYSM so far.    Did we miss any? Which ones did you like best? Let us know down in the comments! Featuring  Nik Dodani, Fiona Dourif, Ethan Suplee, Mireille Enos, Devon Sawa, Gina Minardi, Will Forte, Eliza Coupe, Judy Greer, and Ian Fidance. Support the show

On this episode of ILYSM, we welcome the incredible Proof of Life author and TED Talk speaker, Jen Pastiloff, for a conversation about resilience, honesty, and belonging. We talk about what it feels like to have your last words to a loved one be the wrong ones, the pressure to hide sobriety, and how self-doubt can take root in our daily lives. Jen shares openly about living with deafness, how aban...

On this week’s ILYSM: Nik Dodani (Tyler’s Escape Room co-star) stops by. We cover why silence in politics is never innocent, the anxiety of raising children, and yes… we admit we’re kinda okay with g*ns. We talk about the optimism we all felt 2016. And Tyler? He leaves us with an extra DEEP confession that further reinforces the safe space that is ILYSM. Support the show

The brilliant comedian Ian Fidance stopped by for a full-on love sesh on ILSYM this week. We laughed! Reed cried! The dudes talked grief, addiction, wild childhood stuff, and coping with those brutal, inescapable moments of self-doubt - the worst.  There are so many reasons to love Ian, but more than anything, it’s his commitment to being unapologetically himself always in all ways <3 . Go list...

We’re breaking the fourth wall this week with Gina Minardi — Tyler’s former EMDR therapist and a licensed mental health professional <3.  We get into imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, the EMDR experience, psych meds, and more. An honest, insightful, and low-key hilarious episode - go watch/listen now!!  Support the show

Judy Greer stopped by the ILYSM studio to talk likability as a superpower, the female urge to punch down with the boys, working the program, and being the ultimate funny girl — all while charming Reed & Tyler into oblivion. Support the show

This week we’re joined by our producer Stella Young to dig deep into daddy issues, depression, the humor in grief, intellectual gender fluidity, and why it always feels like the nice guy finishes last. Let’s. Get. Vulnerable. 🥲🎙️ Support the show

This week, forever heartthrob Devon Sawa joins us for a wholesome (and hilarious) dude sesh 🇨🇦🥊 We get into the big stuff: hockey fights, growing up Canadian, Hollywood’s chaos, and the legendary “I’m proud of you” moment from your pops. Devon’s the best—tune in for a laugh, some feels, and classic bro energy but make it emo🤝 Support the show

This week, the boys get meta — reacting to the podcast’s reactions. From family texts to fears of oversharing, we dive into anxiety, vulnerability, and whether putting ourselves out there was a huge mistake. We said you’re coming on this ride with us… so here 👏🏻we👏🏻go. Support the show

Eliza Coupe (Happy Endings, Future Man) and her wonderful husband Billy visited us from their peaceful life in the desert, and we couldn’t be more grateful. Our conversation with Eliza focuses heavily on body shaming and online criticism—issues she’s recently faced firsthand on the red carpet. We also dive into Tyler’s road rage, Reed’s skepticism about a higher power, and much much more. we love...

Mireille Enos (The Killing, World War Z) is our guest today and charmed us all with her ability to be so tiny yet so powerful like her character Sarah Lindon from the beloved TV Series, The Killing. Tyler, Reed and Mireille discuss the pain of going to the gym, Mireille’s blackbelt, putting your kids in therapy & the devastating but relatable thought every artist has whether true or not —>...

It’s Will Forte day on the ILYSM pod. what a friggen treat. The hilarious actor joins Reed and Tyler to talk about injuries & going to the doctor, kid life & getting older, marriage & Will’s v real addiction to ice cream that’s left us all craving —> chocolate chip. But not chips. Chipped chocolate.  Support the show

Ethan Suplee —best known for My Name Is Earl and Remember the Titans —joins us in the studio this week for a deeply personal and wide-ranging conversation on male body image, diet culture, Ozempic, and the often misunderstood world of fitfluencers. In a space where these topics are still taboo for men, Ethan, Reed, and Tyler open up about growing up as bigger kids, navigating toxic diet trends, an...

Fiona Dourif aka Dr. Cassie McKay from The Pitt is swooping in as ILYSM’s first official guest! While we <3 diving deep into the male experience, it is equally beneficial to learn about the female one. Enter Tyler’s bestie, the hella self actualized & talented— Fiona Dourif. Reed, Tyler, and Fiona talk grief, vulnerability, lying to your therapist, dating in LA, Fiona’s controversial take o...

Welcome to Ilysm’s very first episode! Meet Reed Fish & Tyler Labine 2 divorced Dads from Ojai, California trying to get better. Today the hosts introduce themselves, the thesis of the show & what to expect in the weeks to come.  We’ll introduce a segment called “Confessions” where Tyler & Reed own up to a tough moment they had this week. The guys talk vulnerability! Shame! Infidelity!...