I Love You So Much - ILYSM

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Are we seeing double? We have Tyler's clone, Tanner Zagarino, here! We get into staying grounded while finding success, the importance of finding the right person before deciding to settle down, and they all bond over getting older (Tanner's 27). Plus, Reed updates us from the front lines of single life, and Tanner shares his...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Drew Scott[The Property Brothers] is in the building and he is getting candid about the beautiful and life-changing reality of parenthood, his wife's IVF journey, and opens up about the pressure of maintaining a polished public image while navigating the realities of life behind the brand. Plus, Drew & Tyler take a trip down m...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod We’re clowning around with Courtney Pauroso. We talk about navigating hard seasons, bruised egos, the endless scrolling and numbness of the technology epidemic, AI companionships and the growing number of people using AI as partners and friends. We also get into Clavicular and why young boys deserve better role models who embody empath...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Catherine Reitman (It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Workin' Moms) joins us for a conversation about insecurity, identity, parenting, mental health, and the exhausting pressure to constantly have your life together.  We talk about parenting and how many of Catherine’s biggest anxieties found their way into Workin' Moms....

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod We’re joined by the ultimate 2000s "it girl", Rachael Leigh Cook (She's All That, Josie and the Pussycats). We talk about the strange feeling of being out of the loop as you get older, people-pleasing, sleep habits, and so much more. Rachael opens up about her early career, becoming hyper-independent and her definition o...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  Dave Merheje (Ramy) joins us  joins us to talk CPAPs, aging, and the slow unraveling of masculinity. We get into depression, germophobia, the alcoholism pipeline, and the complicated relationships we have with our fathers.  As we get older, may we all begin to master the art of caring less.  Follow Us On Instagram! https://www.instagr...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod   Today we're joined by the talented and insightful Actress Michaela Watkins!! We discuss how we can normalize kindness, we go over tips for training your brain to deal with angering situations, and how hard it can be to have the bandwidth to keep up with relationships. Plus, Tyler has some new news about his caffeine intake. MORE...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Paul Walter Hauser joins us this week to talk about growth, faith, and becoming better. We get into the quieter addictions and what it really takes to walk away from them. Paul unpacks how faith challenges the rise of the manosphere, offering gentleness, and humility. Redefining strength in a world that gets it wrong. The work isn’t fl...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod We’re welcoming America’s Favorite Stepmom to the ILYSM stage; Ryan Keely! Tune in for an absolute time as we dive into stepmom fetishes (are they even real?!), Ryan’s obsessions with D&D, Magic the Gathering, and so much more!  More Ryan! https://www.instagram.com/ryankeelytm/?hl=en https://americasfavoritestepmom.com/ Follow Us O...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  You know that it’s her time. This week, we welcome comedian and Vanderpump Rules reality star, Billie Lee. From her time on VPR, to navigating mistreatment, Billie gets candid about her journey toward becoming the successful comedian we know her as today.  Follow Us On Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/  https://www.instag...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  Legacy, identity, and purpose take center stage as Clifton Collins Jr. (Star Trek, Capote) joins ILYSM to reflect on honoring your roots and lifting others along the way. Clifton shares the enduring influence of family, offering heartfelt insight into his relationship with his grandfather, Pedro Gonzalez Gonzalez: a pioneer for Latino...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  It’s not every day you meet someone truly magical. Actress Claire Holt (H2O: Just Add Water, The Vampire Diaries) joins us for a heartfelt conversation as we dive into nostalgia, the realities of parenting in 2026, newfound joys in life, and so much more. Follow Us On Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/  https://www.instagr...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Alan Ruck (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Succession, Spin City) joins us to talk about life after the cameras stopped rolling. Scraping by between jobs, raising his kids while his wife pursued her career, reconnecting with Matthew Broderick, surviving a near-death experience, and working with Michael J. Fox.  We learn about patience, sacri...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod This week on ILYSM, we’re joined by Clayton Farris (Weapons, Maxxine)! We’re discussing loving yourself in your 40s, dating, and the vulnerability of hair loss and everything it brings up. Cheers to this generation of men as we strive for deeper connection, accountability, and real friendship. Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod We’re joined by actress, comedian, and writer Natalie Palamides to talk all things Nate, Jackass, voice acting, and clowning with Hillary Clinton. Reed and Tyler step into the women’s shoes for an improv of their own.  Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off! https://thebeardedbrotherhood.co Follow Us On Ins...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  Eric Lange is in the building! You may know him as Sikowitz from Victorious or Lyle from Escape at Dannemora, but today you meet Eric at his most vulnerable. We talk about living with ADHD, avoiding hard conversations, body dysmorphia, and life before sobriety. Eric and Tyler share the uncomfortable work of becoming healthier, learnin...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod We’re joined by the hilarious Maxx Eddy, and things spiral immediately (in the best way). We get into Maxx’s comedic roots, why we’re all secretly desperate for validation, and have a very honest conversation about bisexuality and our evolving relationships with masculinity. Plus A Valentine's Treat, The ILYSM Guide to Online Dati...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Samantha Mack takes the stage for an honest exploration of grief, survival, and identity. She opens up about her life, the reality of paving the way in the adult industry, and how beauty and desire are often dictated by the men in the room.  MORE SAM! https://www.instagram.com/thesamanthamack Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod WE. ARE. SO. BACK. It’s the Tucker & Dale reunion you’ve all been waiting for. We’re welcoming THE Tucker to Tyler’s Dale: Alan Tudyk! We get into it all: impostor syndrome, unforgettable Tucker & Dale vs. Evil stories from set, and behind-the-scenes moments you’ve truly never heard before, and why a sequel never happened. Happ...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Tyler is flying solo again and welcoming Jessica Graham (author of Good S* x: Getting Off Without Checking Out) for an honest, nuanced conversation about s* x, connection, and everything we get wrong.  Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off! https://thebeardedbrotherhood.co Follow Us On Instagram! https://w...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Tyler welcomes Jason Ritter to the ILYSM stage for a heavy, raw, and deeply human conversation. We go deep on Gravity Falls, alcoholism, relationships, and John Ritter. What unfolds is an honest reminder that everyone carries a story we rarely see. Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off! https://thebeardedb...

Support The Show on Patreon!  https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Tyler is BACK & flying solo this week and welcoming the incredible Hana Mae Lee (Pitch Perfect) to the ILYSM stage; and boy, do we get into some sh*t.  Hana and Tyler dive into the emotional, physical, and neurological healing power of music. This episode is a full-on love letter to music and the ways music has helped keep us groun...

Reed goes solo this week with therapist Amber Robinson for a grounded conversation about loneliness, connection, and the complicated ways we seek love. Amber breaks down insecure attachment, love-bombing, and the quiet cruelty of “I’m sorry you feel that way.” They also dive into the emotional burnout of entrepreneurship and why building real connection has to be treated like a job if we want to t...

Reed sits down with Dan Parziale of Mesa Farm and Jeff Gaddess of DignityMoves; two men who do real work at the heart of the homelessness crisis.  Jeff opens up about his journey through mental illness and homelessness, and how it called him to a life of service. Together, he and Dan share what it really means to rebuild: not just homes, but community. Learn More about Mesa! https://www.mesafarm.o...

We're excited to be joined by Logan Miller (I’m in the Band, Ultimate Spider-Man) for a raw talk about identity, recovery, and the unpredictable world of Hollywood. From nicotine to caffeine, we dive into how quickly habits become vices. Logan gets real about his Disney past, carving out a new path, and what it’s really like to hustle as a working actor. The guys also trade stories about comi...