I Can't Even...A Podcast About Borderlines By Borderlines

In this episode, Nicole is joined by Dr. Gregory Serfer and Melanie Jones to discuss the stigmatization of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and its impact on personal identity. They delve into how certain words contribute to the stigmatization of BPD. The conversation expands to explore Dissociative Identity Disorder, BPD-related identity disturbances, and whether there’s a connection between...

In this episode, Nicole interviews Jenn Reddy, a life coach and story transformer, about how to navigate deep trauma and reshape personal narratives. Jenn offers practical tools like self-check-ins, challenging negative thoughts, and using resources to stay grounded. She shares key questions to ask when facing trauma and emphasizes self-compassion in the healing process. Jenn wraps up with a power...

In today’s episode, Nicole has an insightful conversation with author Emi Nietfeld about her journey, mental health advocacy, and her book Acceptance . She shares her experience living with mental health challenges, including having features of BPD, discussing how labels impacted her work and recovery. We also explore her thoughts on mental health tools, societal shame, and the changes needed for...

In today’s episode, we explore and break down idealization and devaluation. Our co-hosts, Melanie Jones and Dr. Gregory Serfer, offer their perspectives on both sides of the coin, followed by insights into how these patterns affect relationships. Dr. Serfer examines their connection, causes, and presence in other mental health conditions. Here is the episode breakdown: Guest: Dr. Gregory Serfer: c...

In this episode, Nicole and Aseelah explore the complex topic of forgiveness, reflecting on personal experiences and discussing why it's so challenging. They also touch on how spirituality and beliefs influence the ability to forgive. Nicole shares her perspective on navigating forgiveness in her own life. Aseelah also shares her professional insights on the role of forgiveness in our lives and it...

Episode Nineteen: [Miik Wells – Inner Equity] In this episode, Miik shares his connection with his work with the audience through Nicole's testimonial, offering a glimpse into his approach to mental wellness. He provides strategies for key areas where individuals with BPD often struggle. The episode also features interactive "Game Time" segments, where he discusses the importance of untangling per...

In this episode, Nicole, Dr. Gregory Serfer, and Melanie Jones explore the fear of abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They discuss how this fear affects relationships and daily life, sharing personal experiences, insights, and strategies for managing this challenging aspect of BPD. Whether you're looking to understand BPD better or seeking practical advice, this episode offers v...

Episode Seventeen: [Movement with Marcia] Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its contents are not intended to in any way promote, encourage, or advocate suicide or any form of self-harm. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide and needs support, please call 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. In today’s episode, Nicole talks with Marcia Jones, a counselor who combines fitn...

Episode Sixteen: Eating Disorders with Tatum Carter In this episode, Nicole is joined by Tatum Carter, a Community Outreach Liaison at the Eating Recovery Center, to explore the intricate connection between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and eating disorders, with a focus on marginalized communities. Tatum offers valuable insights into common myths, challenges, and key triggers related to e...

Episode Fifteen: [Eve’s In-Between Diagnosis] In today’s episode, Nicole sits down with a mental health warrior, Eve to have a conversation about her journey with mental health from adolescence to now. They cover the impacts of mental health, and misdiagnosis, and reflect on their communities and influences on how they perceive their mental health. Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its co...

Episode Fourteen: Mel Jones & Dr. Serfer In this episode, Dr. Gregory Serfer, author of "I Am Still Right Here," and Melanie Jones explore the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through real-life experiences. Dr. Serfer narrates Mel's crisis story - which provides insightful perspective on how people see pwBPD. Mel resides in South Africa and the conversation aptly sets the...

In today’s episode, we introduce our crisis story, Kimbriana’s Story read by herself. Nicole sits down with a mental health warrior, Kim, and her son Ian to reflect on her experience as a person with BPD and how it affects her motherhood and relationship with her son, Ian. They share an insightful first and second perspective of parenting with bpd and look into how their relationship has evolved....

In today's podcast, we dive deep into powerful tools for mental wellness. Join us as we explore the transformative inquiry questions by Byron Katie, understand the concept of Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), and engage in a guided meditation for better time management, productivity, and focus. Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its contents are not intended to in any way promote, encoura...

In today’s enlightening episode, Dr. Stephanie Vaughn discusses various important topics related to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She provides expert insights into BPD criteria and treatments, client advocacy in therapy, Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO-DBT), and therapy's true length and effectiveness. The episode also highlights the power of client autonomy in their menta...

In today’s enlightening episode, we are joined by David Toback, a mentor and trainer in Person-Centered Therapy (PCT). David shares his extensive knowledge and personal journey towards embracing PCT, offering valuable insights into how this therapeutic approach can benefit individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its contents are not intend...

In today's episode, we continue our "Tool Time with Kim Beavers" segment, focusing on reflection and overcoming the stereotypes surrounding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Kim provides insightful tools for self-management, emphasizes clarity over vanity, and encourages listeners to take genuine action toward self-improvement. We also introduce the "Term of the Day," Somatic Experiencing The...

In today's gripping episode, join Nicole and Bella on a coaching session, delving deep into the complexities of emotional turmoil, the quest for validation, grappling with shame, and navigating lingering feelings that affect both self and relationships. They explore the profound interplay between spirituality and holistic approaches and uncover invaluable insights and strategies for personal growt...

In today's podcast, we start with a powerful moment as Isaiah Allen/NXTLVL4L shares a crisis song, delving into his inner emotions, faith, and journey from past struggles to future evolution, striving for the next level of growth. Following this, we delve into an enlightening interview with Zay, also known as NXTLVL4L, uncovering the significance behind his name. Lastly, we explore the fusion of m...

In today's podcast, we carry on with our new segment, "Tool Time with Kim Beavers," delving into the challenges of conversation pressure, whether face-to-face or over the phone. Kim offers valuable tools and tips for those striving for recovery. Additionally, we introduce our "Term Of The Day," DBT (dialectical behavior therapy), and initiate a meditation to foster release and acceptance of change...

In today’s episode, we introduce a crisis story: Josef's personal experience, narrated by himself. Nicole and Bella talked to another mental health warrior, Josef, and they had a healthy and open conversation about his diagnosis, support as a POC and member of the LGBTQIA+ community, and how mental health affects incarceration and relationships. Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its conte...

In today’s deeply insightful and thought-provoking episode, engage in a deeply reflective coaching session where they explore the intricate layers of childhood trauma, the intricate interplay of cultural influences, the complexities of conditional love, and the profound ways in which these elements shape and influence their mental well-being and daily experiences. Disclaimer : The title of this po...

Disclaimer : The title of this podcast and its contents are not intended to in any way promote, encourage, or advocate suicide or any form of self-harm. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide and needs support, please call 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. In today's enlightening episode, we introduce a new segment, Tool Time featuring BPD Warrior Kim Beavers, where we provide...

In today’s episode, we begin with a compelling excerpt from Dr. Gregory Serfer’s book, "I Am Still Right Here". Nicole and Bella sit down with Dr. Serfer to have a healthy conversation about his book and his experience of being in a relationship with a person with BPD (pwBPD). They reflect on ways to destigmatize BPD and provide advice and encouraging words to a pwBPD and their partners, friends,...

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