I Adore the Hell Outta You

Send us Fan Mail MWAH, now get out of here you dirty little biscuit.  We're kissing 2025 goodbye and sharing our approach to entering a new year. We like to claim a bold word for the year, something to hold on to as we move through the inevitable complexities of life. What we know tho: what you think you're setting out to do/be/become/undo will likely take you somewhere totally unexpecte...

Send us Fan Mail All things beloved (and cursed) about the magical time of year we call Christmas. Laughter is a balm,  and we're serving up a nice juicy one to get you relaxed and, in the mood,...  In the mood for what is what we really want to know🤣 Tell us how your holiday goes- send us Fan Mail, shoot us an email iadorethehellouttayou@gmail.com  Tell us all about your marshmallow world ❤...

Send us Fan Mail "Because when you make people laugh, you make people listen" We're thrilled to have Lynn Harris, CEO of Gold Comedy on the pod this week. Our conversation is a lesson in life-hacks because there is power in making people laugh, putting yourself out there over and over again, learning to fail safely, and creating the will to do it again.  This is GOOD shit. Life shit...

Send us Fan Mail We're embracing the dark, not always willingly, but that's how it goes right?!  In this season of darkness, we not editing out pauses on purpose. We're leaving them in because it's the season of slow(er) when it comes to shadow work. This shit doesn't happen fast, it isn't always pretty or pleasant, but it is necessary medicine.  Instead of turning aw...

Send us Fan Mail "I'm good". It rolls off the tongues of many teenagers so easily, so nonchalantly. We're learning from the kids how easy it can be to say no. Gosh they're smart and maybe they're on to something here😉. They usually are.  Instead of being frustrated by the phrase we're going to claim it for our own. It's a pleasant and complete way of saying...

Send us Fan Mail 🦃🥧You can really sink your teeth into this episode. It's juicy, it's salacious, it will get your giggle going.  Please, just let your hair down (all your hair) and ease into the feasting spirit.  Whatever is on your plate will be more palatable with our hot takes on pubic hair, vaginal cream, clunky sex, and queefing like the queen you are👑 Support the show Thanks for...

Send us Fan Mail What would you do if no one was watching? This week, we’re wading into the wild waters of playful inhibition , and the art of not taking ourselves too seriously. What if?? What might happen??  We're dropping truth bombs about what really happens when no one is watching us. Turns out its more like a confessional than a vision board...  And if you don't have the Chani app...

Send us Fan Mail This one really hit home! Is it control, is it fear, is it all an illusion anyway??!!!  We're processing out loud and our inner werewolves are howling (again) as we wrestle with the illusion of control and what's at stake when we surrender. Is it a silver bullet solution or certain death? It can be hard to tell sometimes.  Support the show Thanks for being real with us. ...

Send us Fan Mail ✨ In this episode: We're digging into what it really means to live in alignment with your values. Are you walking your talk? Or drifting a little off course? Think of this episode as a cozy fall check-in for your inner bowling lane — if you're feeling 'in the gutter' maybe your ball is just off course?? We're full of bad analogies but the conversation is...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready to howl and curse.... This week, we dive headfirst into our alter egos , past lives , and the personas that help us explore who we really are. We try on a lot of different "outfits" in this episode, but ultimately, we keep coming back to the most cozy and comfy ones, our tried-and-true selves.  It's that time of year when we have the opportunity to put on...

Send us Fan Mail This is so fun!! Listen in while we deconstruct the competition weekend and reflect on how letting people in on the journey made all the difference. But that can be easier said than done... We talk about all of it in this episode.  We wanna know - how can you let someone in on something that you're up to?  We're sharing lots of pics from the weekend in our newsletter so...

Send us Fan Mail What’s working, what’s not, and how the hell do we decide?? In this episode, Christa and Holly ride the seasonal shift into a conversation about energetic clutter, routine evaluation, and choosing change — with intention. This isn’t your typical fall cleaning advice. It’s a call to pause, reflect, and make space. Whether it’s an overstuffed calendar, cereal bowls full of milk, or...

Send us Fan Mail  Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 16:00–21:00  This episode is just a darn good time. There's not much else to say about that... We're reclaiming TMI and implore you to tell us and each other immediately EVERYTHING you might want to know. Seriously, why hold back?? We're not talking about the weather here people. We're talking about what&ap...

Send us Fan Mail Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 8:00–10:00.  In this episode of I Adore the Hell Outta You , we explore what it means to “white knuckle” through uncertainty — gripping tightly in the face of fear and uncertainty. We're feeling it big time and we're asking our bodies to loosen the grip and chill the hell out.  Come along for the ride if you feel call...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re talking about resistance —not the epic fight-the-fascists kind (though, always), but the subtle, sneaky kind that shows up in the mundane. You know, like avoiding a phone call, ignoring the to-do list, or sigh resenting your houseplants. In this episode, we explore how resistance is a signal. A signal that something feels too heavy, too fast, too much. From missed...

Send us Fan Mail In this bold and honest episode, Christa and Holly dig into a question so many women ask themselves— “Am I too much?” We explore the double binds of expression and shame, the tension between freedom and societal expectation, and the weird space we land in as we age—where we feel more ourselves than ever, but are also met with louder external judgments. We reflect on surrender, pre...

Send us Fan Mail In this juicy episode, we welcome our very first guest—Tara from FMC Books in Missoula, Montana! Tara is the bold, brilliant owner of a romance bookstore that’s so much more than spicy stories (although there’s plenty of that, too). We talk about the power of third spaces, community-building through book clubs, smut as a tool for self-knowledge and pleasure, and how romance novels...

Send us Fan Mail This week's episode is so dang fun. As we wind down Summer and step into our new routines and life adventures, we set this week aside for pure joy. Just a good ol fashioned catch up. Grab a cup of coffee or your diet coke and strap on your favorite listening device as we catch up and crack up.  The astrology reading was AMAZING. Visit Jenny Montgomery to learn more Support th...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re not just raising our eyebrows—we're raising questions about what deserves our energy. Whether it's showering less, fielding social media comments, or thinking less about getting it "right" we’re talking about what it really means to let it go. And if you were unsure before, in this episode we keep landing on direct communication for the win.  ...

Send us Fan Mail A softcore spiral, but make it funny.  In this episode, Christa and Holly tackle all the things that make us go “hmm…” — from thirst traps and algorithmic surprises to camel toe tech and hiding your Pornhub history from your kid. We’re talking about pleasure, shame, playfulness, and how even the most cringe moments are often just… hilarious and human. This one’s NSFW (Not Safe For...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we're diving into the stories we’ve told ourselves — and the ones we’re rewriting. We're talking about the things we thought we couldn’t do, shouldn’t do, or never wanted to do… and how that changed. We're flipping the script of our self-imposed limitations and we invite you to do the same.   💭 What’s something you thought you couldn’t do... but di...

Send us Fan Mail Some smells, songs, and stories can time-travel you straight into your past. In this episode, we dive deep into the bittersweet magic of nostalgia — and how it revisits us when we least expect it.  We explore:  📼 How the past sneaks up on us  🎶 Why a song and a cloud formation can bring you to tears  🌀 The tension between longing and moving on  📚 The stories we tell ourselves...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we're talking about what happens when your best intentions smash face-first into real life. You had the vision, the plan, the map—then… a curveball. In this episode, Christa and Holly talk about the emotional (and physical!) whiplash of planning and attempting to be intentional and having it bite you in the ass 🪰. We adventure for many reasons, and this episode re...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 7 of I Adore the Hell Outta You , we dive headfirst into the delicious disorientation of midlife. From restlessness and unexpected quiet to shedding stale identities and rediscovering long-lost dreams (hello, Peace Corps fantasy), we explore what it means to stand at the edge of what’s next—and jump or not. We read the tarot (Death card, of course), confess our love for...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we're talking growth edges—those thrilling, awkward, sweaty little moments where you stretch into something new. From Christa’s bodybuilding posing clinic to Holly’s solo nude yoga retreat, we’re dishing on what it feels like to say yes to discomfort and expansion. We get vulnerable about trying new things, needing community, and why Facebook feels like the final f...