I Adore the Hell Outta You

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to the Menopause Episode (Or, We’re 13 Again) Holly and I met pregnant in birth class, and we’ve been walking through life’s big changes side by side ever since. Now we’ve landed in a new one together, and we’re bringing you along. Perimenopause has us all feeling like we're 13 again. Pissed off and vulnerable as hell. All of that in the same moment. This is not somet...

Send us Fan Mail Heads up, friends: this episode includes a discussion of sexual misconduct, including a personal story. Please take care of yourself while you listen, and if today isn’t the day, this one will be here whenever you’re ready. It’s just me and the mic this week, and I went deep. On a ten-hour road trip I fell down the rabbit hole of two investigative podcasts, Not Just a Terrible Sto...

Send us Fan Mail We've been having some dark thoughts about our abilities, our bodies, our brains. The darkness seems to be lurking around every corner. We're saying the dark thoughts outloud and we're recapping our annual backpacking adventure where we inevitably push ourselves outside the cozy comfort zone and grow in one way or another. Dammit! Why is growth always uncomfortable....

Send us Fan Mail This week I sat down with Renee Deming, owner of Gathered for Good, a curated thrift and vintage shop in Missoula and Bozeman. Renee stumbled into retail out of necessity and has spent 20 years loving the hunt. We talked about building a business rooted in service, the real challenges of running a shop as a woman on her own, and why none of us can do this alone. Then we got cozy,...

Send us Fan Mail It's not sexy, but its necessary.  This sweet slice of shoulder season between summer and winter rest is a great time for a cleanup of some of the more hidden elements of our lives, the less obvious ones. This is the kind of stuff that can be put off for ages, but when it's finally done you realize there was a weight to it.   This is a like a practical co working session...

Send us Fan Mail Don't miss this episode! Amy Hodler joins me for this conversation about interconnectedness, AI, getting down with your geeky self, and the most wholesome low fi strategy for staying relevant in a high-tech future.  Amy is the founder of GraphGeeks, a global community for data enthusiasts, researchers, and professionals passionate about graph technology. She lives in rural Wa...

Send us Fan Mail One of our favorite episode formats. We each pull a card and go deep with it. It's unplanned, it's a little raw. It's just two girls and a deck of tarot cards❤️ Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we're in this together and others...

Send us Fan Mail Back to school isn't all about the smell of sharpened pencils and a return to routine and structure. For some families it can mean a whole shit storm of complexity and struggle. I sat down with Kristen Dougherty to talk it out. Kristen is a therapist and a mom and is currently working to support other families going through challenges associated with kids, ADHD, school, and t...

Send us Fan Mail Cha Ching! We're talking strategies for investing in the things that matter most - small deposits on a regular basis compound over time. Apply this concept to most anything and it pays off big time. Tell me all about it!  Call for podcast guests- your stories matter, you have seen shit. iadorethehellouttayou@gmail.com send me a message and let's talk about your story ang...

Send us Fan Mail It's that time of year. Pumpkin spice is in the air and we smell sharpened pencils... Transitions are upon us once more and Holly has stepped into the recording studio to tell us all about hers. Evolving together is an art and one of life's pleasures- and is evolution every truly planned or is it best left to nature?  In this episode we're catching up, talking throu...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes you're just in it. But you don't have to be in it alone. This one is for anyone who has ever walked through a dark time or a healing journey with someone you love, where there is no clear path to follow. Resisting the urge to fix it and showing up with love and peace- it sounds lovely, in practice it's pretty f*^ked up. As always, I Adore the Hell Outta Yo...

Send us Fan Mail Hi friends,  I'm so excited to bring you this episode with two people who have impacted my life in a big way. My bodybuilding coach Kelly Jo Reimers and a fellow competitor Katie Maes. I learned so much from these two.  We are rewriting the narrative on female strength and why its important...*hint* there are MANY reasons a strong body are important but now we have a new one....

Send us Fan Mail We're bringing back an episode that aired a year ago. Summer is ripe with nostalgia of all kinds, and this one just feels right for the time. The air is hot and smoky for many of us and slowing down to tune into Summer might be just the antidote to any restless "when is it going to snow?" thoughts you might be having right about now.  Support the show Thanks for bei...

Send us Fan Mail I invited my husband to join me on the pod this week for a real honest conversation about aging in a marriage, aging as a male in society, and cultivating a rich life. This one is special. Let me know if this sparks conversation or questions in your own partnerships and let's keep talking about it!  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter st...

Send us Fan Mail Life continues teaching lessons and we continue doing our best to learn something useful with all that's thrown our way.  Pop in your earbuds and dream big by starting with the small stuff. We got this.  This episode is especially for those of us who like to tackle big things or tend toward a far-off vision. My big picture thinking people unite!!! I'm convinced that visi...

Send us Fan Mail Do you remember the summer you turned 13?  Is it romantic in your mind or do you remember the angst and twirling your fingers around the phone cord while you locked yourself in your bedroom to talk to friends for hours.. Ahhh those were the days.  We're smackdab in the middle of the summer and this is a sweet juicy nugget of an episode for you to slurp up while you twirl your...

Send us Fan Mail We're back with another convo about money- we invited Jessie Nino, a Certified Financial Planner to share what matters most when it comes to money. And not gonna lie, it was a bit surprising.  Let us know what money questions are on your mind. What's weighing heavy and where are you having fun with your money?  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our wee...

Send us Fan Mail money money moneeee money. money money money moneeee. money. That's For the Love of Money by the O'Jays. We're talking about money and we're gonna keep talking about money because its one of those things that many of us were told not to talk about or that it was rude to talk about. And we all know that's how we end up playing the shame game. Cha-ching chin...

Send us Fan Mail All things transition and how we mark the occasion. A ceremony big or small can be just what we need to honor the moment. This one is dedicated to Monica Roscoe and her big full heart💗 Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we're in this together...

Send us Fan Mail Move over either-or thinking. We're talking two truths and this is the kind of mind expansion that could blow your mind. Once you see two truths, you'll likely start to see multiple truths. Once you see them its hard to unsee them. The world feels less sharp when there's room for more than one truth- but beware, there's an amount of surrender and acceptance req...

Send us Fan Mail It's a silly thang, but it's a thang.  It's swimsuit season, fun in the sun season, Mental Health Awareness Month and time for your mammogram my lovelies. Isn't funny where the topic of swimsuits can take us? Straight to your bikini line/butthole hair situation if you aren't careful. We got you per usual. Let's walk and talk (or whatever important thi...

Send us Fan Mail Babe Broth, Simmer Pot- these are endearing terms for the process of the slow build in the company of women. Join us on this episode to talk about Christa's evolving business and the art of simmering.  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we&apos...

Send us Fan Mail All things Mom, Mother, Madre, Mama.  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we're in this together and others might need our silly shit. Share the love and this episode with a friend who’s in the thick of it. We adore the hell outta you.

Send us Fan Mail It's been a minute since we checked in on this essential segment. So, we dedicated a whole episode to reminding ourselves of all the good and all the pleasure in the simple things. What are you adoring right now? Tell us immediately (TMI).  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry?...

Send us Fan Mail The energy you put into your home. It's personal, season, cyclical. Holly is knee deep in a remodel and Christa is tending to the flock inside her home. Each of us (and you) are in different phases of investing energy into our homes, we hope this one meets you where you're at, no matter where that is. xoxo always, H&C Support the show Thanks for being real with us. ...