I Adore the Hell Outta You

Send us Fan Mail This is so fun!! Listen in while we deconstruct the competition weekend and reflect on how letting people in on the journey made all the difference. But that can be easier said than done... We talk about all of it in this episode.  We wanna know - how can you let someone in on something that you're up to?  We're sharing lots of pics from the weekend in our newsletter so...

Send us Fan Mail What’s working, what’s not, and how the hell do we decide?? In this episode, Christa and Holly ride the seasonal shift into a conversation about energetic clutter, routine evaluation, and choosing change — with intention. This isn’t your typical fall cleaning advice. It’s a call to pause, reflect, and make space. Whether it’s an overstuffed calendar, cereal bowls full of milk, or...

Send us Fan Mail  Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 16:00–21:00  This episode is just a darn good time. There's not much else to say about that... We're reclaiming TMI and implore you to tell us and each other immediately EVERYTHING you might want to know. Seriously, why hold back?? We're not talking about the weather here people. We're talking about what&ap...

Send us Fan Mail Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 8:00–10:00.  In this episode of I Adore the Hell Outta You , we explore what it means to “white knuckle” through uncertainty — gripping tightly in the face of fear and uncertainty. We're feeling it big time and we're asking our bodies to loosen the grip and chill the hell out.  Come along for the ride if you feel call...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re talking about resistance —not the epic fight-the-fascists kind (though, always), but the subtle, sneaky kind that shows up in the mundane. You know, like avoiding a phone call, ignoring the to-do list, or sigh resenting your houseplants. In this episode, we explore how resistance is a signal. A signal that something feels too heavy, too fast, too much. From missed...

Send us Fan Mail In this bold and honest episode, Christa and Holly dig into a question so many women ask themselves— “Am I too much?” We explore the double binds of expression and shame, the tension between freedom and societal expectation, and the weird space we land in as we age—where we feel more ourselves than ever, but are also met with louder external judgments. We reflect on surrender, pre...

Send us Fan Mail In this juicy episode, we welcome our very first guest—Tara from FMC Books in Missoula, Montana! Tara is the bold, brilliant owner of a romance bookstore that’s so much more than spicy stories (although there’s plenty of that, too). We talk about the power of third spaces, community-building through book clubs, smut as a tool for self-knowledge and pleasure, and how romance novels...

Send us Fan Mail This week's episode is so dang fun. As we wind down Summer and step into our new routines and life adventures, we set this week aside for pure joy. Just a good ol fashioned catch up. Grab a cup of coffee or your diet coke and strap on your favorite listening device as we catch up and crack up.  The astrology reading was AMAZING. Visit Jenny Montgomery to learn more Support th...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re not just raising our eyebrows—we're raising questions about what deserves our energy. Whether it's showering less, fielding social media comments, or thinking less about getting it "right" we’re talking about what it really means to let it go. And if you were unsure before, in this episode we keep landing on direct communication for the win.  ...

Send us Fan Mail A softcore spiral, but make it funny.  In this episode, Christa and Holly tackle all the things that make us go “hmm…” — from thirst traps and algorithmic surprises to camel toe tech and hiding your Pornhub history from your kid. We’re talking about pleasure, shame, playfulness, and how even the most cringe moments are often just… hilarious and human. This one’s NSFW (Not Safe For...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we're diving into the stories we’ve told ourselves — and the ones we’re rewriting. We're talking about the things we thought we couldn’t do, shouldn’t do, or never wanted to do… and how that changed. We're flipping the script of our self-imposed limitations and we invite you to do the same.   💭 What’s something you thought you couldn’t do... but di...

Send us Fan Mail Some smells, songs, and stories can time-travel you straight into your past. In this episode, we dive deep into the bittersweet magic of nostalgia — and how it revisits us when we least expect it.  We explore:  📼 How the past sneaks up on us  🎶 Why a song and a cloud formation can bring you to tears  🌀 The tension between longing and moving on  📚 The stories we tell ourselves...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we're talking about what happens when your best intentions smash face-first into real life. You had the vision, the plan, the map—then… a curveball. In this episode, Christa and Holly talk about the emotional (and physical!) whiplash of planning and attempting to be intentional and having it bite you in the ass 🪰. We adventure for many reasons, and this episode re...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 7 of I Adore the Hell Outta You , we dive headfirst into the delicious disorientation of midlife. From restlessness and unexpected quiet to shedding stale identities and rediscovering long-lost dreams (hello, Peace Corps fantasy), we explore what it means to stand at the edge of what’s next—and jump or not. We read the tarot (Death card, of course), confess our love for...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we're talking growth edges—those thrilling, awkward, sweaty little moments where you stretch into something new. From Christa’s bodybuilding posing clinic to Holly’s solo nude yoga retreat, we’re dishing on what it feels like to say yes to discomfort and expansion. We get vulnerable about trying new things, needing community, and why Facebook feels like the final f...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to a full-bodied episode where laughter meets your pelvic floor and themes on aging meets pickled cucumber. In this one, we ask: Is this real life?   From the magic of middle-of-the-night colonoscopy prep to unexpected moments of childlike joy and full-grown awkwardness, Christa and Holly weave together the hilarious, the humbling, and the heartfelt. It’s aging, parenting,...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we take affirmation eye rolls and apply this strategy to real life. From post-it notes on the mirror to Flintstone theme songs hummed mid-boulder field, we’re diving deep into the weird, wonderful ways we coach ourselves through fear, risk, and midlife adventures. You’ll hear stories of ski hill tumbles, bear spray mishaps, and the tiny truths we repeat to get out...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to our most salacious episode yet. In this spicy, soulful, and totally real conversation, Christa and Holly dive headfirst into the buzz around Gen X women and midlife sex in the media and in bed. From tarot pulls to fairy porn, new dick to deep love, and spontaneous orgasms to frownies (yes, really), this episode explores what it means to embrace desire, identity, and emb...

Send us Fan Mail 🎙️ Episode 1: Things That Grow (Oops, It Grew Again) Welcome to the very first episode of I Adore the Hell Outta You — the podcast where two longtime friends get real about life, womanhood, growing bodies, growing kids, and the weird, funny, and deeply tender moments in between. In this episode, we kick things off with a tarot pull from our favorite deck — the Spirit of Pentacles...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 Episode 2: Seriously, Why Is This So Hard? Ever been totally paralyzed by a task or decision (big or small!!) Yeah, us too. In this episode, we’re talking about the weird, sneaky kind of hard — the everyday stuff that can sneak in and steal your vibe. From "failed" family vacations and filing government paperwork to marketing ourselves and choosing our pleasures, we e...