How to Get What You Want

Send us Fan Mail Ever walked away from a negotiation with that nagging "Did I get a good deal?" feeling? Say goodbye to those doubts! In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on negotiation mastery. You'll learn how to enter any negotiation armed with crystal-clear objectives and a bulletproof strategy. I'll dive deep into the game-changing concepts of your negotiatio...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever struggled with a difficult boss and wondered how to maintain your professional integrity? In this episode, James Capps joins me to share actionable strategies for shifting your perspective, viewing your boss as a colleague rather than a parental figure. We discuss how this mindset shift can alleviate workplace tension and enhance your productivity. We explore the sig...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how your personality type influences your negotiations? Today we'll dive into the world of personality traits to uncover the unique strengths of extroverts, introverts, and ambiverts. Discover how extroverts' love for social interaction and storytelling, introverts' prowess in thoughtful listening, and ambiverts' perfect blend of both cre...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered if your boss really has the power to help you climb the career ladder? In this episode, I'll equip you with the knowledge to identify decision-makers who genuinely support your professional aspirations. Through real-life examples, we tackle how to recognize if the person you’re negotiating with can truly advocate for you. Avoid the trap of negotiating with yours...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets of power dynamics in negotiation and transform your approach to high-stakes conversations. Today we explore how understanding the four key types of power—relationship, situational, hierarchical, and perceived—can alter your negotiation outcomes. I'll share some examples of how power dynamics impact real-world scenarios, so you can learn how positional power...

Send us Fan Mail Struggling with burnout or feeling like you're constantly at the bottom of your to-do list? You're not alone! Gemma Toner, founder and CEO of Tone Networks is joining us today to open up about her personal experience with burnout and the practical steps she took towards self-care. You'll hear firsthand how mentorship, executive coaching, and navigating limited resou...

Send us Fan Mail What if self-awareness could be your secret weapon for career advancement? Join me to unpack all there is to know about having self-awareness, which isn’t a natural gift but a cultivated practice. Discover how understanding your emotions, values, and behaviors can profoundly impact your leadership and enhance your emotional intelligence and job satisfaction. We’ll delve into the n...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine having the power to shape your professional future by taking proactive steps today. In this episode, I share my journey and the lessons learned from relying solely on others for career advancement, emphasizing the significance of cultivating self-awareness and regularly assessing your growth areas. By clearly defining and communicating your career aspirations to your boss...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why those around you seem to catch things about your behavior that you never notice? In this episode, we unlock the mysteries of blind spots in leadership and negotiation. Inspired by the book "Thanks for the Feedback," I take you through my journey of spotting those hidden facets of ourselves that only others can see and how they've influenced my prof...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how much of your message is conveyed without saying a word? Unlock the secrets of non-verbal communication with Tracy Phillips, a video and visibility expert with over two decades of experience and an Emmy nomination for her documentary work. Tracy reveals that a whopping 93% of communication is non-verbal, emphasizing the immense power of body language and tone in p...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the door to building trust and rapport in your professional interactions! Let's delve into the subtle yet transformative negotiation tactic of mirroring that goes beyond mere imitation. By aligning gestures, language, and energy with those across the table, we can foster a deeper connection that paves the way for successful outcomes. From personal experiences to the wi...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how your mindset affects the outcome of your negotiations? In this episode, we dive into the power of a positive mindset. By examining the contrast between positive and negative outlooks, we uncover how focusing on potential benefits rather than risks can significantly enhance negotiation outcomes. Drawing from research studies and personal anecdotes, I illustrate ho...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself locked in a negotiation, palms sweating, as the fear of walking away empty-handed looms over you? Today, I delve into the transformative power of mindset in both our professional and personal haggles. I'll uncover the crippling effects of the scarcity mindset—a knee-jerk belief in a lack of options that narrows our vision and hampers our success, as oppose...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the leadership prowess that lies within you as Diana Cano, a transformative figure in IT leadership, joins us to distill her vast experience into powerful strategies for your career advancement. From the factory floor to the forefront of tech innovation, Diana's approach intertwines engineering principles with astute business acumen, offering a compelling narrative on...

Send us Fan Mail Dive into the essential world of negotiation with me and discover how to turn preparation into your winning tactic. I'll reveal the strategic game plan that turns high-stakes conversations from nerve-wracking to triumph, sharing personal stories of underpreparation and the euphoria of skillfully negotiated wins. With every anecdote and expert insight, you'll learn how to...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered about the unexpected strength a simple "no" can wield? Join me in unraveling the underestimated power of this two-letter word alongside negotiation experts. This episode is an empowering journey to discover how "no" can define your boundaries and earn you respect. We'll share personal anecdotes, laugh at the ridiculous lengths some go to avoi...

Send us Fan Mail Feeling out of your element when emotions run high during negotiations? You're not alone. I'm here to guide you through the turbulent waters of negotiation emotions. Whether it's the jolt of surprise or the heat of anger, understanding these feelings can mean the difference between retreating and achieving your goals. Throughout my own encounters, I've seen fir...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how the simple act of staying silent could amplify your leadership and negotiation skills? Prepare to be enlightened as Dr. Katie Ervin, CEO of Catalyst Development, joins us to unpack the strategic power of pausing. Together, we dissect how a moment of quiet can not only boost your emotional intelligence but also shape the dynamics of a conversation, ensuring every...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the transformative power of strategic framing in your negotiations. This episode is a deep dive into how setting the right tone and carefully curating your conversation can pave the way to successful outcomes. As we unravel the journey of mutual understanding, you'll learn to invite others to see things from your perspective, fostering a collaborative environment that&...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the potent strategy that can reshape your negotiations and lead you to triumph—mastering the art of the ask. In this episode, I guide you through the transformative journey of asking questions that do more than just solicit answers; they unravel the core interests of your counterparts and pave the way for innovative solutions. I'll share how this technique altered the...

Send us Fan Mail Why is influence such a powerful force in our lives? Today, we'll delve into this captivating topic, challenging us to question our equation with others and the power of influence in our lives. Through stories and insights, I'll unravel the complexities of building influence, emphasizing the importance of genuine connection and trust. From negotiating tactics to leadersh...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the strategies that can turn you into a negotiation powerhouse, as I guide you through the intricacies of BATNA—your secret weapon in any bargaining scenario. Imagine entering every negotiation with the confidence that you hold all the cards. That's the kind of transformation we're talking about here. From career-defining moments to everyday transactions, I'l...

Send us Fan Mail Prepare to anchor your way to success, as we unravel the masterful technique that can make or break your negotiations and accelerate your career growth. Anchoring isn't just about throwing out the first number—it's about setting the tone for all that follows, steering the conversation, and influencing outcomes in your favor. We explore the strategic importance of anchori...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever pondered the strength that resides in the quiet moments between words? This episode peels back the layers of silence in the sphere of negotiation and communication, revealing how this often-overlooked tool can shift the power balance and lead to more favorable outcomes. Through stories from the boardroom and beyond, we walk you through the nuanced art of silence. We...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody's really listening? Join me to peel back the layers of negotiation and reveal how the power of active listening reshapes our interactions and outcomes. This episode is a journey through the heart of communication, where I'll share intimate stories and insights on being truly present—a skill that's transformativ...