How to Get What You Want

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever talked yourself out of an opportunity because you didn’t feel ready? You’re not alone—smart women often hold back, waiting for perfection, while others leap ahead. In this episode, I’ll challenge the myth of needing to be 100% prepared and share why saying 'yes' before you’re ready can transform your career. With real stories and my tips, you'll learn...

Send us Fan Mail Does asking for more make you feel greedy or ungrateful? You’re not alone, but avoiding the ask can devalue your worth and your work. In this episode, I’ll explore why advocating for yourself is essential, not selfish. Learn how to reframe self-advocacy, uncover hidden opportunities, and push past the fear of hearing 'no.' Whether it’s a big promotion or a small win, eve...

Send us Fan Mail Change isn’t just inevitable—it’s negotiable. Whether it’s a team restructure, a new project, or adopting new technology, navigating change requires strategy and influence. In this episode, I’ll share how to adopt a negotiator’s mindset to successfully manage change, build alignment, and turn disruption into opportunity. With real-life examples and my tips, you’ll learn how to emb...

Send us Fan Mail Are you standing in your own way when it comes to negotiating for what you deserve? In this episode, I sit down with Jeff Pelaccio to uncover his tips for overcoming self-doubt, preparing for negotiations, and asking for more with confidence. Jeff shares his insights from his career transitions, advice for job seekers, and the importance of valuing yourself in every professional c...

Send us Fan Mail Do you find yourself saying ‘yes’ too often or conceding without gaining anything in return? I’ve been there. In this episode, I’ll unpack the art of strategic giving—knowing when to concede and when to stand firm. Learn how to spot hidden asks, set boundaries that build respect, and turn concessions into opportunities to strengthen trust and influence. Don’t let silent sacrifices...

Send us Fan Mail Are you feeling anxious about asking for a raise or negotiating your salary? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’ll guide you through practical steps to confidently advocate for yourself—whether you’re preparing for an annual review or navigating a new job offer. Explore common mistakes, hear real-life stories, and learn how mastering timing, framing, and preparation can turn ‘ma...

Send us Fan Mail What is the most critical skill for navigating today’s challenges? Join me as I sit down with Dr Melissa Briggs-Phillips to uncover the power of psychological flexibility. From handling emotional triggers to making confident decisions, we dive into the strategies you can use to thrive both personally and professionally. Are you ready to discover how to flex your mindset for better...

Send us Fan Mail What if your fiercest opponent could become your strongest ally? In this episode, I dive deep into the power of reframing conflicts, adopting a negotiator’s mindset, and building trust for lasting collaboration. Whether it’s a difficult colleague or a high-stakes negotiation, I’ll share stories, research, and actionable tips to help you turn confrontation into partnership. Let’s e...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever thought about how giving something away for free could actually hurt your value? In this episode, I explore the subtle yet powerful ways this principle shows up in our lives—whether it’s in business negotiations, workplace dynamics, or personal relationships. Drawing on real-world examples, we uncover the surprising ways overgiving can backfire and share actionable t...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like your team just doesn’t “get it”? In this episode, I sit down with Gallup-certified strengths coach Charlotte Blair to unravel the secrets of effective leadership communication. Charlotte shares how clarity, curiosity, and strengths-based coaching can transform workplace dynamics and foster trust. From practical delegation frameworks to listening techniques, y...

Send us Fan Mail Do you find it easier to stand up for others than for yourself? Today I'm sharing the reason why advocating for colleagues can feel more natural and how that skill can empower your own negotiation abilities. By shifting perspectives, understanding your own value, and applying practical strategies, you’ll learn to leverage your voice and help amplify others'. Whether you&...

Send us Fan Mail Do you focus on the relationship once the deal is done? If not, you’re missing out on one of the most powerful aspects of negotiation. In this episode I dive into why the most successful deals are built on lasting relationships, not just signed contracts. Learn how a long-term, people-centered mindset strengthens every negotiation and fuels your career growth. I'm sharing rea...

Send us Fan Mail Are you letting gender stereotypes hold you back from advocating for yourself? In this episode, I'm unpacking the research on how men and women negotiate differently and share my tips to help you overcome your own internal biases and confidently ask for what you deserve. Discover how to reframe negotiations as self-advocacy and prepare for potential pushback, so you can negot...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly build strong professional relationships while others struggle? Master negotiator Alana Muller joins me in this episode to explore how authentic connections and trust-building can transform your professional relationships. Alana shares personal stories of how genuine relationship-building helped her navigate challenging client situ...

Send us Fan Mail Are you unknowingly sabotaging your virtual presence? Join me to dive into the often-overlooked aspects of how we show up on screen. From embarrassing faux pas to game-changing techniques, learn how to make a lasting impression in the digital realm. Discover simple yet powerful adjustments that can transform your virtual interactions, boosting your influence and effectiveness in o...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how top executives read a room? Amy Bell, a seasoned telecom executive, joins me in this episode to uncover the secret language of non-verbal communication in the workplace. From state fair demos to virtual boardrooms, Amy shares her insights on how to listen between the lines and adapt your leadership style in an ever-evolving industry. Discover the power of unspoke...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how to get people on board with your ideas? Tune in and discover the science of persuasion and learn powerful techniques to influence outcomes, from understanding the six key principles of persuasion to mastering the delicate balance of logic and emotion. Whether you're negotiating a deal or simply trying to win over a colleague, these insights will transform yo...

Send us Fan Mail Ever felt blindsided by a difficult personality in a high-stakes negotiation? Discover how to stay cool, calm, and in control when facing tough negotiators. Today you'll learn powerful strategies to reframe conversations, manage your emotions, and navigate even the most challenging personalities. Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic boss or a hot-headed client, the...

Send us Fan Mail Are you afraid of getting feedback? Discover how to turn feedback into your secret weapon for professional growth! Trace Beatty, my oldest daughter, joins me today to dive deep into the art of receiving feedback. Learn practical strategies to proactively seek, gracefully receive, and effectively utilize feedback to boost your career. Whether you're a seasoned professional or...

Send us Fan Mail Ever felt overwhelmed during a crucial negotiation? Discover how your past self can be your secret weapon in high-stakes situations. In this episode, learn powerful strategies to harness your preparation and stay true to your goals, even when emotions run high. From setting non-negotiables to managing unexpected curveballs, unlock the key to negotiating with confidence and clarity...

Send us Fan Mail Feeling the heat when it matters most? Join me in this episode to learn how to manage yourself in high-stakes situations like negotiations or leadership challenges. From understanding your emotional triggers to mastering tactical pauses, you'll gain valuable insights into staying composed when the stakes are high. Whether you're dealing with intense deadlines, conflict r...

Send us Fan Mail Can introverts truly excel in leadership and negotiation roles typically dominated by extroverts? My dear friend, Sherisse Hawkins, an extreme introvert, joins me today to uncover surprising truths about how introverts and ambiverts often outperform extroverts in these high-stakes arenas. Through our contrasting experiences—Sharice's mindful approach and my high-energy style—...

Send us Fan Mail Are you frustrated that your boss seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to advocating for your promotion or pay raise? I'm here to share the strategies you need to get what you deserve. I'll show you how to identify if the person you're talking to can actually make the final decision, instead of just collecting information. I'll also reveal my tips,...

Send us Fan Mail Ever hit a brick wall in a negotiation and wondered how to turn things around? In this episode, I'll share practical strategies for breaking through deadlocks. Learn how to anticipate impasses, ask powerful questions, and consider the other party's interests to find creative solutions. Discover the importance of taking breaks and seeking outside perspectives when negotia...

Send us Fan Mail Ever felt the struggle of asserting your self-worth? Mindset coach and team facilitator Maki Moussavi joins me to dive deep into unleashing your true value. We explore how high achievers can break free from self-imposed limitations and embrace their full potential. Discover powerful strategies to boost your self-worth, overcome fear, and make decisions with confidence. Learn how t...