Honeydew Me

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... Blow jobs What to do when you’re working with a small mouth or tired jaw Making things work FOR YOU Why you don’t need to be healed to have sex or be worthy of PLEASURE When the sex is bad Leaving ro...

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... The POWER in being single De-centering romantic relationships Confidence and seduction How to feel sexy Thinking your "better" Letting yourself be WRONG Somehow it always comes back to COMMUNICATION...

In this episode we’re SITTING DOWN (lol) with Laydee Vee and Dee Black and getting a crash course in face sitting. We chat about: What face sitting is Who can be the sitter (HINT: it’s not just vulva owners) Four different face sitting positions How to get INTO the positions (and not feel awkward) What to do once you’re up there How to sit with CONFIDENCE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit po...

We’re talking with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award winning sex educator and coach, about MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES and learning all the ways to love and be loved (because there’s like waaaay more than 5). We cover: What a love language is and WHY they matter The classic 5 love languages and their (very shitty) origin What Modern Love Languages are and how they help us EXPAND our understanding of love How...

We’re feeling CHATTY, so let’s get into it. We’re talking: Labia and labia lumps “Innie vs. outie” labia Labiaplasties Edging during masturbation Letting someone spit in your mouth (and LOVING it) Sexual World Records (including longest masturbation sesh, farthest ejaculation and MORE) Craigslist Missed Connections  Some of our toxic little tendencies (and some of yours) Red Flag or Deal Breaker L...

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOO...

This interview CHANGED OUR LIVES and our relationships because it turns out… we might be a little toxic (yep, that means you too). So let’s talk about it with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks. We’re unpacking and working through a whole lot, including: What it actually means to be “toxic” Common ways that we're toxic but might not realize it Anti-relational and dysf...

Here at Honeydew Me, we came to the realization that our friendships have DEEPLY impacted our sex lives... so let's talk about it. One of our absolute favorite humans, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, is back on the pod and we are DIVING into the relationship between friends and sex. We chat about... How friendship and sex are related Emotional outsourcing Intimacy in relationships Getting your friends'...

This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about: How porn can BENEFIT your relationship Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "...

Halloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about: What role play is Judging your fantasies and desires  Benefits of role play Working through embarrassment, nervousness, or shame Planning and set up Talking with your partner Specific...

It’s time for INITIATION… but like the consensual, fun, sex kind. If you’ve ever wondered how to initiate sex, struggled with a fear of rejection, or are looking for long term initiation tips, this episode is for you! We chat with some of our favorite experts AND share our own struggles to bring you one hell of a guide… We cover: Obstacles to initiating sex Fear of rejection How to take the pressu...

DISCLAIMER: there is NO completely SAFE way to engage in choking/breath play, this episode will discuss safety measures, better practices, and consent, but is only an introduction. We encourage you to take part in further education alongside an expert BEFORE engaging in the practices discussed. Hope you’re ready for an episode that’ll ✨take your breath away✨. Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire a...

We're getting ✨ballsy✨ and chatting all things testicle play with Jake Mossop, a Registered Nurse! We talk about: Why it's enjoyable to play with testicles Types of touch (pressure, squeezing etc.) The importance of lube When to include testicle play and how to combine with other types of play What tea bagging is Positioning Using your mouth Taint play Incorporating toys Learn more about your ad...

Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss: What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here The role of comprehensive sex education Resources for states that have lost access to abortion Getting involved in your community Resources: Three For Freedom Lear...

THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about: Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc) Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues WHY we tend to demonize birth control Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal) Plan B: what it is, how to u...

Emma and Cass thought it high time to break out the video cameras and record something spicy. Now it’s time to share all the dirty deets and unpack how it went. We chat about: Planning for your sex tape (vibes, roleplay, positions etc.) Setting up your physical space (camera angles, lighting, background music etc.) Options for when you are NOT ready to record yourself What went wrong… Finding what...

Lala, creator of Lala’s Bedtime Tales, is here to chat about all things AUDIO EROTICA. We discuss: What audio erotica is and what makes for GOOD audio erotica Why fans of ASMR are going to LOVE audio erotica Improving your dirty talk Using audio erotica alone and with a partner How to discuss audio erotica with a partner Benefits of listening to audio erotica Using audio erotica to explore your fa...

Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is BACK and this time she’s answering YOUR questions about codependency, relationships, and sex. We discuss: Mismatched libidos Having your own back & showing up for your needs What to do if you’re partner isn’t following through People pleasing Understanding what your intuition is telling you Fear of being cheated on Supporting a partner with depression, while supporting...

In this episode we’re chatting with Lisa Welsh, a sex and pleasure educator who’s dedicated to helping you build self-worth and banish boring sex. We discuss: Lisa’s playful approach to sexuality What we’re doing that makes sex feel boring, subpar, or “meh” How to work through shame How to actually check in with yourself during sex Fun sex games to play in the bedroom Body mapping Having sex when...

In this episode we're chatting with Alicia Davon, a relationship and romance expert, about what it takes to build a successful relationship. We discuss: What a "successful" and "unsuccessful" relationship looks like (hint: success doesn't necessarily mean long term or headed towards marriage) How commitment is actually a type of freedom Working through commitment issues Romanticizing the messy par...

Cat is BACK and so are her answers to your UNCENSORED questions. This time we’re getting even spicier and diving into foot fetishes, f*cking your ex, how to pleasure a smaller peen, and SO MUCH MORE. Cat walks us through the “what are we” conversation, the “I need you to get better at fingering” conundrum, and some sure fire ways to keep the heat in your long distance relationship. Tune in now for...

What do you do if the sex is bad? Try and fix it? Let it work itself out? Or walk away and never look back? We’re exploring all these options (and more) with Psychosexual Therapist, Kate Moyle. She breaks down why sex can be bad (even if you really like the person you’re doing it with), how to start a conversation about it, and quick tips for in the moment corrections. We also unpack the shame tha...

ONE HUNDRED EPISODES OF PURE UNADULTERATED PLEASURE... or at the very least, advice to help get you there. We have officially entered the triple digits which means it's high time we check in on the WILD (lol) sex lives of your hosts. We're chatting about our current obsession with dominance, including dirty talk, being told what to do, and letting our submissive sides shine. We also dive into peri...

SURPRISE... we're sensitive AF (lol not a surprise at all). But how do you bang when you're such a sensitive B? Jessie Fresh, a Sexuality & Intimacy Coach, is ready to break it all down for us. We chat about triggers, sensory issues, setting yourself up for success, and using your sensitivity to your advantage. YES, you read that right, TO YOUR DAMN ADVANTAGE, because being sensitive is also a sup...

This week we are reframing relationships AND jealousy with Dr. Joli Hamilton, a psychologist and sex educator who helps people custom build their relationships. We dive into the concept of “creative monogamy” and learn how to build a relationship based on our wants and needs, rather than “shoulds” and “have to’s”. We also explore jealousy and find ways to work with it, learn from it, and even GET...