Holding Space On The Mountain

Send us Fan Mail When someone we love dies, it can feel as though a part of us has been amputated. Not because we are weak, but because attachment changes us. In this episode, we explore the profound connection between attachment and grief, why loss feels so disorienting, and how healing often involves learning how to navigate life in entirely new ways. We'll talk about the nervous system, id...

Send us Fan Mail A gentle conversation about the healing power of continuing our bond with loved ones after death. In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we explore how talking to those we’ve lost can become a meaningful ritual of love, remembrance, and connection. Through personal stories, grief insights, and compassionate reflection, this episode reminds listeners that it’s okay to s...

Send us Fan Mail This episode explores how self-compassion transforms grief and mental health, highlighting the dangers of comparison and offering clinical insights, practical tools, and real-life stories for authentic healing. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space On the Mountain, we journey again into the world of ambiguous loss—a form of grief that arises when closure is impossible, relationships are changed, or loved ones are physically or emotionally absent. Through storytelling, psychoeducation, guided reflection, and practical coping strategies, we explore the emotional impact of ambiguous loss and how...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space On the Mountain , we explore the inner critic—where it comes from, why it develops, and how it shapes the way we see ourselves. Blending psychology, attachment theory, and real-life tools, this conversation offers a compassionate path toward quieting self-judgment and building a healthier, more grounded inner voice. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this reflective episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we explore the emotional impact of social media—how it shapes our mental health, influences our relationships, and quietly pulls us into cycles like doomscrolling. Together, we slow down and notice what’s really happening beneath the surface, while gently unpacking how to recognize when it’s time to step away. This epis...

Send us Fan Mail In therapy, something interesting often happens—the most important truth comes out in the final moments of the session. In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we explore why the things people say right before walking out the door often carry the deepest emotion. Drawing from insights in Emotionally Focused Therapy, we talk about how vulnerability unfolds in layers, why...

Send us Fan Mail Grief isn’t just missing someone — it’s losing the attachment that made the world feel safe. In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we talk about what happens when an attachment is severed, why the nervous system reacts the way it does, and how we slowly learn to feel grounded again. This is a quiet, compassionate conversation for anyone walking through loss. Support t...

Send us Fan Mail That phrase sounds empowering—but is it always healthy? From an Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) lens, this episode unpacks how “you’re only responsible for yourself” is often misunderstood, misused, and sometimes harmful in relationships. We explore where the idea came from, how it’s meant to be used, and what emotional responsibility actually looks like when we’re wired for con...

Send us Fan Mail Drawing parallels between moving and grief, Amber explores how we carry memories with us, honor those we’ve lost, and create spaces that hold both sadness and joy. Tune in for reflection, gentle guidance, and an invitation to hold space for your own memories and emotions. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Christmas is often described as the most wonderful time of the year—but for those who are grieving, it can also be one of the hardest. In this episode, Amber shares vulnerably about her first Christmas without her Grandma and Grandpa Sirstad, who passed away just six days apart in March. This episode explores the year of firsts , how grief shows up in small traditions and everyday...

Send us Fan Mail An informative conversation about Seasonal Affective Disorder—why it happens, how it impacts mood and energy, and practical ways to find light in the darker months. This episode offers compassionate insight, evidence-based strategies, and hope for anyone navigating seasonal depression. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail A gentle Thanksgiving episode exploring the meaning of the empty chair—how grief shows up at the table and how we can honor love, memory, and our own emotional pace today. A soft, reflective space for anyone missing someone this holiday. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Grief changes us. This episode offers a soft place to land as we explore loss, love, and the slow work of finding our footing again. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we explore ambiguous grief — the kind of loss that doesn’t have a clear ending or closure. Whether it’s the fading presence of a loved one through illness, a relationship that ended without answers, or the ache of someone still alive but emotionally gone — ambiguous grief asks us to hold two realities at once: hope and heartbreak....

Send us Fan Mail Caregivers often give endlessly — until there’s nothing left to give. In this episode, Amber explores how chronic caregiving impacts the mind, body, and spirit, and how to find renewal through rest, boundaries, and community. A compassionate conversation for anyone feeling unseen, exhausted, or longing to breathe again. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on The Mountain , Amber explores how to navigate life’s hard days with both perseverance and compassion. She shares practical strategies for moving forward—even when everything feels overwhelming—while emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and gentle persistence. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Explore the complexity of grief in this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain . We discuss the emotional, physical, and non-linear nature of loss, how it intersects with mental health, and practical ways to navigate grief while finding support and growth. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain, Amber starts to explore how the nervous system shapes our emotions, reactions, and healing. Learn how stress, trauma, and grief impact your body’s rhythms — and discover gentle, practical ways to help your mind and body find calm again. A grounding conversation about understanding your body’s signals and returning to safety, one br...

Send us Fan Mail In this moving episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , Amber sits down with her dear friend, Letea, to talk about her journey of losing vision — a diagnosis she received in her early teens after first noticing changes at age 11. Together they explore the physical adjustments, emotional challenges, and the deep resilience that comes with adapting to life in new ways. This is a s...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain, Amber opens the door to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) — a mindful, compassionate approach to emotional healing. Learn how acceptance isn’t giving up, but rather making space for the full human experience while still moving toward what matters most. Through reflection and encouragement discover how to drop the tug-of-war r...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we start to explore what ADHD really is — beyond the stereotypes. From how it affects attention, emotion, and daily life, to how we can show ourselves (and others) more compassion, this short episode brings clarity and hope to a misunderstood diagnosis. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain, we explore the quiet, restorative power of sleep — and why rest is essential for healing both body and mind. When we’re grieving, anxious, or overwhelmed, it can be hard to slow down, but sleep is where our nervous system resets and our heart begins to mend. Join Amber for a gentle reflection on how sleep impacts mental health, emo...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , we explore how early connections shape the way we love, trust, and relate to others through the lens of attachment styles. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail As the seasons shift, so do we. In this episode of Holding Space on the Mountain , I explore how the change of seasons can stir up memories of loss, impact our mental health, and remind us of the rhythms of grief. Together, we’ll lightly reflect on what it means to care for ourselves during times of transition. Support the show