High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail Fear, hurts, hang ups, and old patterns block us from the depth of intimacy in marriage God's way. Self protection is learned behavior and it hinders desire and expression of physical oneness.  Listen as Chelsey dives into how we navigate the challenges of self protection, what to do about it, and how God is using it to reveal areas He wants to heal and exposing areas He want...

Send us Fan Mail "Lord, wreck me over my husband's heart and desire for intimacy in marriage!" Chelsey prayed this prayer and God answered. Dive into intimacy, desire, and tasting God's goodness within marriage His way through physical intimacy! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart accord...

Send us Fan Mail My daughter chose me to be her running buddy for her GOTR 5k coming up Mother's Day weekend. Yay! Except, even though I ran a marathon back in 2022, I haven't done much running at al since then... Panic! Just kidding, but this episode exposes the need for a reality check in marriage so you know where you're actually starting, as well as, the similarities in DAILY in...

Send us Fan Mail Lest you think I'm one of those coaches, these are those client transformations, and this is one of those programs...NOPE. God is doing the work inside HLW! It's His power. His message. His design. And it's all happening inside HLW to the praise of His glory! It's perfectly timed for the 100th episode of this season to sing His praises 🙌 Support the show Chels...

Send us Fan Mail Everything must be by the Spirit, in submission to Christ's authority, otherwise, we will swing the opposite way walking the flesh never fully being free from the desires and passions of the flesh.  Lean in and submit no longer to the heavy yoke of slavery! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be se...

Send us Fan Mail Ride the wave of God's consistent, never-failing goodness to speak WEEK after WEEK without fail inside HLW! Come, taste and see the Lord's goodness!! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step? Grab the 30 Day...

Send us Fan Mail What do you actually need in marriage? This is the wrong question. Rather, the question is Who am I looking to fill me? Where am I satisfied? Do I actually need my husband or did God design something much richer within marriage WHEN we walk as one flesh IN and BY the Spirit?  Let's get to it... Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surre...

Send us Fan Mail When you're growing, the navigational systems that once protected you eventually don't fit the new direction. But the brain prefers the known discomfort rather than the unknown discomfort of what is not familiar to you....yet. In this episode, Chelsey explores the pull of reverting back to old patterns of self-protection and how to steer-clear of returning to your vomit...

Send us Fan Mail Right now, your strongest thoughts are driving the direction of your life. What you're looking for, you're finding. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how all of your thoughts are impacting you and what to do about it. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in...

Send us Fan Mail I didn't know what I didn't know. In this episode, I unpack several things I learned the hard way, things that I needed to unlearn, and things that I now share with you. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First s...

Send us Fan Mail I recently had an onboarding call with a new wife to HLW (her husband was already in HLH for many months). She was very clear that her heart was checked out of her marriage. She wanted to pursue separation and eventually divorce. After listening to her story and knowing the current situation, I spoke the Truth that it would be unbiblical to leave her husband. She pushed for divorc...

Send us Fan Mail "Many a man proclaims his own steadfast love, but a faithful man who can find?" Proverbs 20:6 "I'm a good wife."  "I'm submissive to my husband." "I respect my husband." In this episode, Chelsey teaches you the truth behind fruit as evidence in our lives of how well we abide in the Father or not. Fruit doesn't lie. Bad fruit,...

Send us Fan Mail Problems with physical intimacy got you thinking it's the biggest issue when it's merely an indicator check engine light for lack in the other 2 areas of intimacy.  Chelsey unpacks the 3 types of intimacy in this episode, what they are, how they are superficial right now, and how to increase them by focusing on practical daily disciplines. Support the show Chelsey Holm |...

Send us Fan Mail Is God revealing areas where you need to implement daily discipline? Are there areas He is showing you that your heart posture is wrong? What about areas where He wants you to take discipline even deeper? In this episode, Chelsey dives into discipline of the body and the spiritual act of worship to discipline your body as a command of stewardship. Buckle up! This one is likely to...

Send us Fan Mail The divorce rate among Christians right now is 50% or more- that's out of every 2 marriages, at LEAST 1 will end in marriage. Woof.  In this episode, Chelsey shares with you the ONE daily habit that drops that statistic DRASTICALLY from 1 in 2 couples ending in divorce to 1 in 1,152! It's completely free and you can start right now. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wi...

Send us Fan Mail Intimacy doesn't start in the bedroom. Marriages don't end because of intimacy issues- they are simply early warning lights of deeper problems.  In this episode, Chelsey gives you 4 ways to deepen intimacy (outside of the bedroom that improves intimacy INSIDE the bedroom) that ANYONE can do no matter where you are in marriage right now. These are practical, powerful, and...

Send us Fan Mail Right now your marriage is a liability to God's Kingdom work, a stumbling block to the good works God has predestined you to walk in, a hindrance to the preaching of His gospel. In this episode, you'll find 3 ways to turn your marriage into an asset for the Lord and not the liability it is right now. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian...

Send us Fan Mail You don’t need a perfect plan—you need a daily return to alignment. In this final episode of the Identity series, Chelsey Holm brings everything together and shows you what it actually looks like to live this out in real life. Not in theory.  Not in a perfect environment.  But in the middle of triggers, tension, busy days, and real marriage dynamics. This episode will help you mov...

Send us Fan Mail Most women don’t realize they’ve made this shift… until they feel the distance in their marriage. In this episode, Chelsey Holm confronts one of the most culturally accepted—but quietly destructive—patterns in modern families: putting kids before the marriage. It feels loving. It feels noble. But it slowly erodes connection, creates disunity, and leaves marriages running on leftov...

Send us Fan Mail You keep trying to fix your marriage… but God is trying to restore you. In this episode, Chelsey Holm exposes a hard but freeing truth: your marriage cannot be healthy if you are operating from depletion, dysregulation, and disconnection from God. Many women abandon themselves in the name of being a “good wife”—overgiving, overfunctioning, and losing their peace in the process. Bu...

Send us Fan Mail You say God is first… but does your life actually reflect it? In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks what it truly means to put God first—not just in belief, but in your daily reactions, decisions, and emotional responses. Many women claim God as their foundation, yet still live led by feelings, fear, and control. This misalignment creates instability, anxiety, and disconnection in...

Send us Fan Mail You know what God says… but are you actually living it out? In this episode, Chelsey Holm exposes the gap between knowing truth and obeying it—and why that gap is where frustration, disconnection, and control take root in marriage. Many women have knowledge of Scripture, desire to grow, and a heart for God… but are still reacting, striving, and trying to manage outcomes instead of...

Send us Fan Mail You don’t need a better marriage strategy—you need a right response to a holy God. In this episode, Chelsey Holm reframes identity as a wife through the lens of God’s holiness, obedience, and reverence. Walking from Genesis through the New Testament, she unpacks the difference between knowing what God says and actually living in alignment with it. Many women love God but are unkno...

Send us Fan Mail You are not powerless in your marriage—you’ve just been undertrained. Ep 6 In this final episode of the Spiritual Warfare Within Marriage series, Chelsey Holm brings everything together and equips you to step fully into the authority you’ve been given through the Holy Spirit. This is not about control, manipulation, or position.  This is about alignment, prayer, and walking in Spi...

Send us Fan Mail What do you do when you’re trying… and he’s not? Ep 4 When there’s distance, disconnection, or you feel like you’re the only one carrying the weight of your marriage? In this episode of the Spiritual Warfare Within Marriage series, Chelsey Holm walks you through how to fight for your marriage without controlling your husband—and how to step into spiritual authority even when unity...