High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail Unity in marriage doesn’t just create connection—it creates power. Ep. 4 In this episode of the Spiritual Warfare Within Marriage series, Chelsey Holm reveals why the enemy fights so hard to keep couples divided and what actually happens in the spiritual realm when a husband and wife come into agreement. You’ll learn how the biblical concept of “one flesh” is more than a relationa...

Send us Fan Mail Spiritual Warfare Mini Series Ep 3 Most wives are trying to fight spiritual battles with emotional reactions—and it’s exhausting. In this episode, Chelsey equips you with the biblical weapons you’ve been given as a believer and how to actually use them inside your marriage. You’ll learn how prayer, truth, fasting, praise, and obedience shift the atmosphere of your home and positio...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series Ep 2 On Warring Over Your Marriage With Spiritual Weapons Why do the same arguments, frustrations, and patterns keep showing up in your marriage? Because the enemy is not random—he’s strategic. In this episode, Chelsey exposes the four primary tactics used against marriages: deception, division, distraction, and distortion. When you can recognize the pattern, you stop...

Send us Fan Mail NEW Mini Series starts today: How to War Spiritually Over Your Marriage. Ep. 1 If you feel like you’re constantly fighting in your marriage, this episode will shift how you see everything. Because your husband is not the enemy—but if you treat him like he is, you’ll keep fighting the wrong battle. In this episode, Chelsey Holm breaks down the spiritual reality behind conflict in m...

Send us Fan Mail The real foundation of a strong marriage isn’t compatibility, communication tricks, or finding the right partner. It’s surrender. In this final episode of The Real Purpose of Marriage series, Chelsey explains why every healthy marriage is built on the daily practice of denying self, laying down pride, and choosing humility, forgiveness, and service. Marriage reveals the places whe...

Send us Fan Mail The enemy doesn’t attack marriage randomly. He attacks it because of what a unified marriage can do. When a husband and wife walk in agreement under God’s design, their unity pushes back darkness, strengthens the next generation, and becomes a powerful testimony of God’s restoration. In this episode, Chelsey explores the spiritual reality behind marital conflict, the enemy’s strat...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage was never meant to stop at companionship. It was designed to multiply impact . When a husband and wife align under God’s authority, their marriage becomes more than a relationship—it becomes a Kingdom partnership . In this episode, Chelsey explains how marriage moves from survival to mission, why spiritual alignment multiplies influence, and how couples who understand thi...

Send us Fan Mail God didn’t accidentally pair you with your spouse. Marriage brings together two people with different gifts, strengths, and perspectives —not to compete, but to complement one another. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the biblical design of ezer kenegdo , the powerful role of a wife as a strategic counterpart, and how God uses marriage to develop and refine the spiritual gifts ins...

Send us Fan Mail Most people think marriage is meant to make them happy.  But one of the first things marriage actually does is expose what needs to change in us . Marriage reveals pride, control, fear, insecurity, and patterns we didn’t even know we carried. In this episode, Chelsey explains how God uses marriage as a tool for pruning, refinement, and spiritual growth , and why the friction many...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series:  The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep 6 Many couples believe marriage is about personal happiness or simply “getting along.” But God designed marriage for something much bigger. A husband and wife aligned under God’s order become a powerful force for kingdom impact. In this episode, Chelsey explains how a wife’s influence doesn’t stop inside the home—it multipli...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series:  The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep 5 Prayer is one of the most underestimated weapons a wife has. Many wives try to change their husbands through pressure, correction, or conversation—but God invites us to partner with Him through prayer. In this episode, Chelsey explains why prayer changes what pressure never can and how a praying wife influences her marriag...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series:  The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep 4 Homes have atmospheres—and often a wife’s spirit sets the tone. Peace, tension, criticism, joy, faith… the posture you carry daily shapes the emotional and spiritual environment your family lives in. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how wives build or tear down the atmosphere of their homes and how walking closely with God...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series:  The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep 3 Why did the serpent approach Eve first in the Garden of Eden? This story reveals something powerful about the influence women carry. In this episode, Chelsey explores how a wife’s spiritual posture can shape her marriage and why the enemy understands the power of a woman’s influence—even when she doesn’t. Support the show...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series:  The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep 2 Many wives say they want to influence their husbands—but unknowingly move into control. Influence invites growth. Control pressures it. In this episode, Chelsey explains the critical difference between godly influence and subtle manipulation, and why trying to manage your husband’s growth can actually suffocate the leaders...

Send us Fan Mail Mini Series: The Influence of a Wife in God’s Design Ep. 1 Many women believe their walk with God is personal—but Scripture shows it’s never private. A wife’s obedience, faith, and heart posture shape the spiritual atmosphere of her home in ways she may not even realize. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how a woman’s daily choices influence her husband, her children, and the cultu...

Send us Fan Mail Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect.  👉🏼 Access FREE guide here . Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implemen...

Send us Fan Mail Chelsey shares the story of her Papa—the man who became her grandfather when she was five years old and who faithfully modeled the love, truth, and steadiness of God for decades. After his recent passing, Chelsey reflects on the powerful celebration of his life and the legacy he leaves behind: a life marked by faithfulness to the Lord, a family shaped by the gospel, and a testimon...

Send us Fan Mail What does it really mean when the Bible calls wives the “weaker vessel”? For many women, that phrase has been misunderstood, misused, or rejected altogether. But in this episode, Chelsey reframes the biblical meaning in a way that restores the beauty and dignity of God’s design. Being the “weaker vessel” is not about inferiority—it’s about value. Like fine china, something delicat...

Send us Fan Mail Where did High Level Wife come from? In this deeply personal episode, Chelsey shares the full story behind how the High Level Wife community was born—from a marriage retreat with High Level Husband founder Tommy McAllister to a moment in the back of a taxi where God used Scripture in Haggai to radically redirect her path. What began as a simple message asking Chelsey to create a p...

Send us Fan Mail In this raw and personal episode, Chelsey pauses the current podcast mini-series to share a behind-the-scenes look at a powerful shift happening in her own home—and the conviction the Holy Spirit brought that exposed something deeper. For years Chelsey taught biblical submission while unknowingly walking in a subtle spirit of rebellion rooted in control. It wasn’t loud or obvious....

Send us Fan Mail Heart Posture Mini Series, Ep 5 Why does surrender to God feel difficult for so many women? Often, the issue isn’t behavior—it’s order. In the final episode of The Heart Posture Series , Chelsey explains how right order in your life naturally creates the right heart posture toward God, your husband, and your responsibilities. When God is not truly first, pressure, control, resentm...

Send us Fan Mail Heart Posture Mini Series, Ep 4 You can be doing all the “right things” in your marriage… and still have the wrong heart posture. In Episode 4 of The Heart Posture Series , Chelsey shares a personal story about a season in her marriage when her behavior looked obedient on the outside—but internally her heart was still trying to control the outcome. Through this honest reflection,...

Send us Fan Mail Heart Posture Mini Series, Ep 3 Why do two people experience the same situation but respond completely differently? In Episode 3 of The Heart Posture Series , Chelsey walks through powerful biblical examples showing how God consistently responds to the posture of the heart rather than circumstances or outward behavior. From Judas and Peter, to the two criminals on the cross, to Ki...

Send us Fan Mail Heart Posture Mini Series, Ep 2 You can do all the right things… and still have a heart that is far from God. In Episode 2 of The Heart Posture Series , Chelsey walks through powerful biblical examples that reveal why behavior alone doesn’t impress God—and why heart posture matters far more than outward actions. From the poor widow’s offering to the rich young ruler, Ananias and S...

Send us Fan Mail Heart Posture Mini Series, Ep. 1 You can do all the right things… and still have the wrong heart posture. In this first episode of The Heart Posture Series , Chelsey breaks down what heart posture actually means, why God cares about it so deeply, and how it affects everything from your obedience to your marriage. Through powerful biblical examples—including the Pharisee and the ta...