Her On Top

Welcome back, loves. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing everything you need to know about my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching container . Over the last six mini-episodes, I’ve explored the “why” — why someone would enter this program, what barriers it helps dissolve, and the transformations it opens up. Today, I’m sharing the “how” : the structure, the sessions, and the deep...

So many women quietly carry the weight of painful sex—and with it, the fear, shame, and disconnection that pain can bring. If sex feels uncomfortable, or even unbearable, it makes sense that desire feels far away. In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I explore how pain impacts intimacy and why it’s not your fault if you’ve struggled in this area. While pelvic floor physical therapis...

In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I’m diving into what it means to live “from the neck up”—stuck in our heads, disconnected from our bodies, and unable to fully access pleasure. So many of us have been conditioned to distrust our bodies, to push down emotions, and to operate only from the mind. But true pleasure, presence, and intimacy require embodiment. Together, we’ll exp...

So many women struggle with feeling disconnected from their bodies — carrying shame, anxiety, or even disgust around their appearance or pleasure. From childhood diet culture to the male gaze to trauma and dissociation, we are taught to mistrust, disconnect from, or even reject our own bodies. In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I share why body disconnection is one of the big...

In this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them. We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approa...

So many women come to me feeling like they are broken when it comes to desire, intimacy, or accessing pleasure. Whether it’s a sudden drop in desire, difficulty experiencing pleasure, or a lifelong disconnection from sexuality, society often reinforces the painful belief that something is “wrong” with you. In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I share how my 1:1 coaching contain...

Is sex a chore? You’re not alone. In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving. I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconn...

💧 Our tears are weapons. Our pleasure is liberation. In this special mini-series on the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m opening the doors to my 1:1 coaching container — an intimate 8-week journey designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body. Right now, the world feels heavy. Collectively, we’re grieving, awakening, and shifting into new ways of being...

What happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders , a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience. Camille s...

In this first-ever interview on the Connect to Pleasure podcast, I sit down with Dr. Angie Maxwell — pelvic floor physical therapist, founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA, and fierce advocate for women’s health. We dive into: What pleasure means beyond sex, and how it weaves through every part of life The role of pelvic floor physical therapy in healing pain, postpartum changes, and s...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast with me, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, healer, dreamer, and sacred disruptor of the patriarchy. This is our space to return to the body, to power, to pleasure, and to one another. In this episode, I open my journal and share a vision I cast earlier this year during a new moon ceremony. It’s a vision for a world rooted in safety, laughter...

Hi loves. In this short and sweet transmission, I share a practice that’s been lighting me up lately—inviting the universe to play with me. 🌙 Inspired by my manifestation journey and my love of the sacred feminine, I explore what it looks like to co-create with the moon, the sun, and the earth as partners in our becoming. This is an invitation to bring more joy, curiosity, and sacred play into yo...

The Connected Pleasure Podcast, hosted by Kayla Moore, embarks on a profound exploration of the significance of pleasure as a fundamental aspect of human existence. Within the first segment, Moore articulates her journey as a certified sex therapist and coach, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our authentic selves through pleasure and embodiment. She introduces the concept of ‘soft power,’ wh...

Welcome to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, a sacred space to explore how pleasure can root, restore, and reshape our lives. I’m your host, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and scared disrupter of the patriarchy.  This podcast is an invitation to return: To your pleasure. To your power. To your body—and to the earth that holds you. Together, we’ll explore what it means to lead with...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 13! Delving into the often overlooked dimensions of desire, Kayla Moore presents a thought-provoking episode that challenges conventional wisdom about sexual attraction and intimacy. She opens the discussion by inviting listeners to ponder their own desires and what it might mean to pursue them in a way that is authentic and fulfilling. This epi...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 12! The complexities of consent and personal boundaries take center stage in Kayla Moore's thought-provoking dialogue, where she invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with saying yes when they truly wish to say no. Through insightful questions and guided reflections, Kayla encourages her audience to examine the relationships in t...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 11! A rich tapestry of emotions, experiences, and insights unfolds as Shauna Stewart shares her remarkable journey in the realm of women's sexuality and pleasure. The episode draws listeners into a deep conversation about the societal constructs that have historically marginalized women's desires, framing sexual pleasure as a domain primarily fo...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 10! Kayla explores the importance of healing as a collective group instead of solely on your own. Kayla first announces some events in the works. Kayla and her co-worker Hannah Olivia are facilitating a Women's Circle on Nov. 30th. 2024 in Gig Harbor, WA. Stay tuned for more info. Kayla also put out the idea of doing a women's pop up choir local...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 9! Kayla explores what trauma is and how it might affect you through different definitions of trauma. Kayla then describes what someone who has sexual trauma may be experiencing when they come to see her for healing. Kayla then takes you through the healing journey, starting out with how you can become safe and aware in your own body and then ho...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 8! Kayla discusses body image and how reclaiming your relationship to your body is paramount to having a deeper relationship to yourself and more ease in your sex and intimacy. Kayla deconstructs how society convinces women that you are not enough in order to sell products and keep us in a state of control. Kayla then offers ways to begin to cul...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 7! Kayla tells the sacred feminine story of the Virgin Mary and discusses why our understanding of this story and the word 'virgin' has been so skewed. Kayla poses a different definition of the word 'virgin', meaning a woman unto herself. Kayla asks the question, what would your life be like if you had grown up with this version of the story of...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 6! Kayla discusses the new moon being in the sign of Leo this month and how this lends itself to talking about how women can work on standing in their own spotlight and shedding the things that no longer serve them. Kayla describes the barriers women encounter when they think about whether or not sex is for them and how those keep us in a place...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 5! Kayla discusses the nervous system and how it is an integral part in healing your relationship to sex. Kayla goes over the differences between the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system and how this affects your ability to get into a space of lust. Kayla explains how the nervous system operates on the familiar and anything unfamiliar...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 4! Kayla discusses grief that comes with unlearning the pesky patriarchal narratives we are told about women's bodies, sex, and sexuality. Kayla then leads you on a guided somatic meditative journey to understand for yourself where and how you may be experiencing grief around your unlearning of stories about sex. Kayla asks a series of questions...

Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 3! Kayla discusses the idea of Egg Wisdom and how we can learn from the new and improved narrative of how an egg and sperm meet during the reproductive process. Kayla describes the 4 phases that occur with the egg and sperm and what lessons we can learn from each phase to live out in our own lives. Kayla provides a new lens for women and womb ow...