Her On Top

You don't have to be perfect. And right now, that's the most radical form of self-love. In this episode, Kayla explores deep self-love — not the bath-and-nails kind, but the kind that means loving the parts of yourself you're ashamed of, the shadow parts, the human parts that judge and mess up. We're in a climax moment. Pressure is building. The collective is awakening. Things are crumbling — both...

The feminine is rising. And she's asking men: Are you coming with us or falling behind? In this episode, Kayla explores the massive relationship reckoning happening right now as women step into their power, reclaim their bodies, and refuse to carry emotional labor anymore. She connects this to the global rise of the feminine — and what it means for couples navigating this seismic shift. She's hone...

Your body isn't broken. Your environment is poisoned. And you're being controlled at a cellular level. In this deeply personal episode, Kayla connects autoimmunity, mineral depletion, and patriarchal control — revealing how toxins in our food, water, and air have stripped minerals from our bodies for generations, keeping us sick, depleted, and unable to thrive. She shares her own autoimmune journe...

Your body holds wisdom. You've been taught not to listen to it. Kayla explores muscle testing — a simple practice of holding something and feeling whether your body leans forward (yes) or backward (no). It works. And it's about reclaiming your intuition and sovereignty. We trust experts over ourselves. But your body knows what's true, what aligns with your soul's path, what to say yes or no to. Th...

Resentment builds when we don't say what we need. It destroys relationships, careers, and our ability to be authentic. In this episode, Kayla explores resentment in three contexts: work culture (sacrificing everything), intergenerational trauma (passing down the same suffering), and couples dynamics (building walls through silence instead of honesty). The solution? Play. And speaking your truth. W...

As a mom facing kindergarten choices, Kayla critiques the industrial-age education system designed to create compliant workers — not creative, sovereign beings. Teachers are burnt out. Standardized testing has replaced mastery-based learning. And children are being punished for not fitting into a broken system. But here's the truth: Children are not the problem. Younger generations are arriving wi...

What is power? And how has patriarchy corrupted our understanding of what true power actually means? In this episode, Kayla shares a profound redefinition of power from the Lady of Communion archetype in her priestess training: Power = Energy + Choice. Not power-over. Not control. Not climbing ladders or crushing competition. Real power is the feminine creative energy (life force, eros, potential)...

What does it actually mean to weave the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine back into harmony? And how do we do this sacred union work within ourselves? In this deeply personal episode, Kayla shares her journey working with the Lady of Communion archetype during her priestess training — and the profound blueprint she created for healing the wounded masculine and feminine energies within all of us...

What does success actually mean? And what if everything we've been taught about productivity, hustle, and "staying busy" is the opposite of what we're here to create? In this episode, Kayla reimagines what success looks like in the new Earth we're building together. Spoiler: it's not about productivity, money, or grinding 24/7. It's about community, love, pleasure, rest, and living in harmony with...

What if everything you've been trying to fix, heal, or perfect about yourself is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode, Kayla shares the six things she's DONE with — the patterns, beliefs, and patriarchal conditioning she's ready to burn away after weeks of intense Aries fire energy. From the pressure to be "fully healed" before you're worthy, to believing you have to solve the world's probl...

What does it really mean when someone says they want a "God-fearing" partner? And what harm does that language do to how we show up in relationships? In this episode, Kayla unpacks the phrase "God-fearing" — where it comes from, what it reveals about patriarchal religion, and why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics. She explores how externalizing our connection to the...

The patriarchy isn't just about men versus women — it's a system that's harming everyone. And it's crumbling. In this episode, Kayla breaks down what the patriarchy actually is, where it came from, and why fighting it with love (not more violence) is the only way forward. She explores the difference between patriarchy (hierarchy, domination, extraction) and matriarchy (community, circle, care for...

What if taking your power back isn't selfish — it's sacred? In this episode, Kayla explores a core wound many women carry: the belief that we must put others — especially men — before ourselves. This conditioning shows up everywhere: carrying the mental load, prioritizing partners' rest over our own, believing pleasure is only for them. Kayla shares her own journey of unlearning generational progr...

What if the shift you've been waiting for is already happening — and it starts with choosing love over productivity? Welcome to Liberation Wisdom, a new iteration of this podcast where Kayla steps fully into her path as a Sacred Feminine priestess. This isn't about bypassing the darkness or pretending everything is fine — it's about walking as love in the face of chaos, and bridging galactic wisdo...

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure starts with reclaiming your body? In this episode, Kayla explores how patriarchal systems have weaponized body shame to keep women distracted, disconnected, and disempowered. She traces the cultural programming many of us absorbed growing up — the mall brands, the impossible beauty standards, the male gaze we internalized — back to predatory systems designed...

What if the key to more intimacy isn't asking for more — but showing up differently? In this candid episode, Kayla speaks directly to men (and the partners who want to share this with them). If you're a loving partner who's trying hard but still hearing "I need more from you" — especially around sex and desire — this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for understanding what's really being aske...

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion? In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compass...

In this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world. This epi...

In this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an...

What if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal? In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world. Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism a...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives. Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, famil...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging. We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life,...

In this episode, I begin by pausing. Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective. I speak honestly abou...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure. We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetra...

In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us. I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing,...