Her On Top

In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner , a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine. We explore spinal energetics —how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intu...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine , to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure. We dive into: Discovering your pleasure: How decidi...

In this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container. After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On , the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weeken...

In this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through. I start by sharing an exciting anno...

In this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I start by exp...

In this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest —not as a reward, but as a birthright. I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitali...

In this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now. I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple —a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we a...

In this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island. We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation —how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers...

In this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth. I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk...

In this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure . I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within. Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us r...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life. By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching packa...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program. In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move...

Welcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives. I explore how our society’s obsession...

In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna , the goddess who descended into the underworld. As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn. This story has lived in my bo...

Welcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine. I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes . While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all iden...

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you. I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier. We also dive into the ri...

Welcome back, my loves. In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body. I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety...

Have you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing? In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort. You’ll learn how t...

Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.” Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy. But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment? In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast , I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it. You’ll be in...

In this episode, I’m speaking to one of the most common hesitations I hear when women are considering deep, embodied healing work: “I just don’t have time for this." We live in a world that glorifies busyness — that rewards production and punishes rest. But here’s the truth: your healing requires space. This journey isn’t about adding another thing to your overflowing to-do list. It’s about creati...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is Day 2 of Open Cart Week — where I’m opening six spots for my 1:1 Coaching Container , available from October 6–12 . Today’s episode is about something that comes up for so many of the women I work with: the fear of being vulnerable — especially when it comes to talking about sex. For many of us, sex wa...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is the second episode of day one in our open cart week for my 1:1 Coaching Container — which officially opened today under the Full Moon in Aries (how divine is that?). In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest myths I hear from women: “I need a partner before I can do this kind of work.” The...

The doors are officially open for Connected Pleasure Coaching , my sacred 1:1 container for women ready to reclaim their pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies. In this episode, I address one of the biggest questions that may be on your mind: the investment. I break down the cost, explain the value and transformation of this container, and share why a 1:1 coaching experience...