HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

Barry describes why it’s important to have “More FUN, Less Anxiety In Dating & Relationships”! He gives examples of how attachment and outcomes add stress, and how to create “mini-games” to make meeting, dating and being in a relationship with someone much more fun!

Barry talks about how “Avoiding Uncomfortable Conversations” causes big problems, why you’ll do it anyway, and how to get start getting past this reluctance.

In this quick episode, “The Right Amount Of Time & Space In Dating & Relationships”, Barry covers how we need a balance of individual time and enough space to have healthy dating & relationships. He describes the balance single people and couples must find to meet your needs and create a happy, healthy, empowered relationship!

In “Showing & Receiving Affection” Barry describes the ways we learn to show and receive affection, what affection is, and shares some questions to ask yourself to uncover how you cam get more flow of affection into your lofe and relationships!

Barry talks about how being busy is less about time and more about deep emotional values and identity. He shares examples of how busy people can have healthy, empowered relationships. Also, he gives an action tip that helps whether you are single, in a relationship, busy with work, busy with children, or in a relationship with someone very busy.

Verbs and Actions Create Healthy Relationships

Barry discusses Past, Present and Future Relationships, and what to do about each in order to have a healthy, empowered relationship! Plus he gives you an action to do today!

Barry describes how strong women can hold it all together even while feeling like falling apart — plus why this happens, an example of how it looks, and what to do about it!

In “Conscious Beauty (What Your Style & Appearance Says About Who You Are On The Inside)” Barry explains the relationship between our self identity, self image and beliefs about ourself and out outer style & appearance. He gives an example of how conscious beauty starts inside then is reflected on the outside, and how that attracts and keeps the desire of our soulmate.

Listen To And Trust Your Intuition

Barry describes the three stages of major transitions in our lives and relationships. He walks us through making big changes in a conscious, healthy, empowered way! Which of these three stages are you at?

Barry shares the 3 Main Blocks To Male Commitment & Connection, and gives examples of them.

Barry explains how relationships can leave emotional scars and how these can follow you from relationship to relationship. He discusses how family of origin affects this, how the way you end a relationship determines success or failure of your next relationship, how relationship scars can keep you from meeting the right partner, how to tell if you relationship scars are healed or not, and more in...

Barry goes over the “The 3 Keys To Empowered Relationships” — he discusses the obstacles to each and gives examples. These three elements MUST be there to keep your power when dating and in relationships!

Barry goes through the different situations where we can have challenges knowing what to say: from meeting a new guy, to conversation on dates, or with a long term partner. He reviews the reasons these challenges happen and describes the emotional mechanisms that prevent us from or allow us to easily express ourselves. He offers solutions and actions to more easily know what to say.

In “The Way Into A Man’s Heart (To Be The Only One In It)” Barry shares the biggest mistakes people make when wanting a man to love them, how to avoid those mistakes and how to be the ONLY one in a man’s heart! You cannot miss this episode.

Good Friends & Family, Bad Advice

Barry describes how to assess a partner who deserves you — he shares Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh’s 5 elements of a thriving relationship and how to change your focus from your partner or potential partners traits to whether you and this person have these 5 elements in your dynamic.

Barry describes why Self Awareness determines your chances of a reality-based, healthy relationship. He describes how men are usually raised to have lower self awareness in certain areas, and how to spot it in a man. He then explains how to create your own self awareness, reduce your blindspots and strengthen your relationship with yourself, and others! Don’t miss this one. Without self awareness,...

Barry delves into how our childhood attachment style affects our adult relationships! He also offers a special gift at the end!

Barry covers “How A Man Shows You He Loves You”. He walks through the different ways men express love, the difference between sincere love and him just saying and doing things to get what he wants, and how to tune in to your love radar.

Barry describes how to know if a man will actually change.

Barry gets into detail about ‘Type A’ Personality Men. Why they are attractive to many women. What it’s like to date them and be in relationships with them. What’s really go on inside them, and what’s really going on inside you.

Barry explains how our body environment and it’s health affect our dating and relationships through things like energy level, stress, irritability, appearance, confidence, sexual chemistry, illness and others. He offers a simple, quick action to take today to ensure you are healthier so you can have a healthy, empowered relationship. Listen up!

Barry dissects the different ways your Father figure can impact your current dating & relationships — he gives examples of Fathers who were not present, present but dysfunctional, present and “perfect”, and the current ways your pattern will show up. These include being a rescuer/fixer, have abandonment triggers, safety and control issues, comparing men to an unreal standard, and more.