Help Them Heal-with Carol the Coach

  Hilarie Barry will be talking about her mission to, along with her husband Joe, talk about the courageous decision to share their story of infidelity. She will be talking about the pain of discovery, the emotional rollercoaster of partner betrayal and PTSD. She will also be sharing with Carol the Coach the realization and understanding that her husband wanted to get well, and he needed her help!...

This is a repeat of a show I did in 2018 talking  about what exploitive sexual addiction.d

Sexual addiction afffects marriages and can result in therapeutic separations and divorce. In reality about half of US marriages fail and most of them involve children. One-fourth of those children of divorce are traumatized by the continual acrimony between their parents. Tonight, Carol the coach will be interviewing Dr. Larry Walman Ph. D. who is a clinical, forensic psychologist, consultan and...

Johua Nichols believes that in the early stages or recovery, unfaithful partners experience hostility or aggression from their injured partners primarily because (1) they don’t trust new experiences or behaviors from their partners; and (2) they are tired of hurting.  But, “reflection aggression” isn’t really seen until after the crises have settled down and the addicts are gaining momentum in rec...

Is there a difference between men and women who suffer from sex addiction? Tonight, Carol Sheets is interviewing Amy Smith, the founder of Worth Recovery. She started podcasting about her experiences in sex addiction recovery in January 2016 and has hosted full day workshops for women in recovery in Salt Lake City, Seattle, Atlanta, and Buffalo. She offer supports groups and additional educational...

goCarol the Coach will be interviewing Beronica Valli who is the Creator of the Soberful Program. She believesing to be talking about the Soberful program and The Five Pillars of Sustainable Sobriety. The five pillars hold up our sobriety- they are personal development for sober people.  the five pillars are: Movement, Connection, Balance, Process and Growth. We practice these in our lives as our...

Carol the Coaach will be interviewing Tim Stein who serves the sex addiction population in a myriad of ways. Tim and his business partner created an on line course for Sex Addiction and Partner Betrayal to help this population understand the trauma that typically accompanies this condition. He wanted this community to have a "go to" that would normalize the  process of addiction and help the commu...

  Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dr. Carol Clark who is a Clinical Sexologist and runs a training program for professionals who work in the field of addiction. She wrote a book on skills and tools that people find really helpful in their daily lives called My Pocket Therapist:12 Tools for Living in Connection.  She believes that what gives people hope and strength is to learn to live more fu...

Carol the Coach is interviewing Jennifer Irwin who wrote the novel, A Dress the Color of the Sky. This book reads more like a memoir and shares one woman's battle with sex addiction to cope with childhood trauma. It is a riveting story and it helps the general publiic understand the dynamics behind why a woman would use sex to medicate. Her premise is that for too many years, Prudence Aldrich had...

Tonight Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dr. Stefanie Carnes about her new book entitled, "Courageous Love: A Couples Guide to Conquering Betrayal". Couragious Love is a book for couples who would like to work together to save their relationship, following an experience of betrayal. In the book, Dr. Carnes discusses betrayal trauma, and educates couples about normal responses to betrayal and h...

Covid-19 has created some challenging circumstances for people who need counselling and yet it has also afforded us increased ingenuity. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Samantha Ammann who is going to explain how you can do EMDR virtually. She has a wealth of knowledge and wants to share it with our listening audience so you can continue your trauma work during Covid-19.

Online support and connection are available for those who are struggling with sex and addiction, paired substance/sex addiction, love addiction and other relationship issues on www.sexandrelationshiphealing.com. Addicts and loved ones of these can also get the guidance they need from experts like Dr. Rob Weiss and Dr. David Fawcett.   Listen as Carol the Coach asks Tami VerHelst, Chief Relationshi...

Ross Rosenberg has spent his life helping clients and clinicians understand how trauma attachment causes Self-Love Deficit Disorder. Tonight he will be talking about his theories that represents the most modern and scientifically up-to-date thinking about codependency.  "Codependency,” is re-defined and re-conceptualized into “Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD)™," which is a trauma, core shame, pat...

Recovery resources are fully online and this is great news for many reasons. Whether you’re anxious about leaving the house due to the current pandemic or too shy to walk in the door of a meeting or professional’s office, online help is a convenient option. In this episode, sex addiction specialist Forest Benedict shares from his experience as a fully online therapist and coach. We will discuss th...

Tonight Carol the Coach will be interviewing Ken Wells who has written the book, Dare to Be Average:Finding Brilliaance in the Commonplace. He explains how embracing “average” in life impacts the recovery life of an addict? He will explain how to have an open heart and how that impacts "going deep" to assist SA's in finding their brilliance. He believes that you can transform the experience of sha...

MBATT therapists are helping addicts and partners to reduce trauma triggers that interfere in healthy recovery. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Darrin Ford, Founder and Director of TMAATT has been studying years of research that inspired the Mindfulness Academy for Addiction and Trauma Training. Listen to why he believes that it is crucial to working through the chaos and trauma of addiction.

There are all sorts of ways that addicts experience interpersonal betrayal of trauma. Find out how tonight's guest Michael Crocker suggests therapists need to help addicts through the guilt and stop injuring themselves.

It is important for you to understand that you have an addiction, but who are you really? Carol the Coach interviews Rob, who wants to help people understand that he believes that the only way to surrender to one's true self is to surrender to what God wants him to be and when surrender occurs, he is liberated to follow his true legacy. Listen as Rob talks about the importance of understanding the...

Tonight, Carol the Coach interviews Eddie Capparucci, who has created a process that he has found very successful in treating and sex addiction. He believes the road to recovery from sexual and ography addiction goes through your childhood. It is the various pain points we suffered as children, adolescents and teenagers that impact our sexual and ography addictions today. And the key to unlocking...

There is research that suggests that 1 out of 6 men have been sexually abused before the age of 18. Many men chose not to disclose and my guest tonight, Dr. Kelli Palfy has written a book Men Too. It is a compilation of Kelly's research as a psychologist and a police officer who identified offending patterns and common grooming techniques that added to perpetration. She also wants the public to kn...

Carol the Coach interviews Scott Brassart, who has written Sex and Addiction Healing and Recovery: A Daily Reader for Sex and Addicts. He believes this book will help addicts in recovery, because it shares the daily nuggets of information and wisdom that can guide you towards making healthy choices. He feels that there has been very little written to guide addicts on a daily basis that is relevant...

Tonight, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Alex, whose father was a sex addict. Her discovery occurred when she was contacted by his mistress and given the gory details of their affair. This is a story of the collateral damage that can occur as a result of sex addiction. Alex candidly shares her story of the betrayal and how she had to figure out how to be a child again and to love her dad rega...

Carol the Coach interviews Charlene Benson, who wrote Unstuck Move from Powerless to Empowered in your Relationships. The "Relationship Coach" wants you to understand the hidden reasons that drive your behaviors and ditch old patterns and embrace a healthier way of loving and experencing love. She will talk to you about the powerful pathways to help you avoid giving up in defeat or getting stuck a...

Tonight, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dr. David Fawcett who is a social worker and clinical sexologist. He is Vice President for Clinical Programming at Seeking Integrity and is seen as an expert on gay men. drug use and high rsk sexual behavior. His book Lust, Men and Meth: A Gay Man's Guide to Sex and Recovery is considered a recovery must in working with gay men. Listen as he talks abou...

Sex addiction worsens when trauma goes undetected or untreated. This is a prepeat of a show that helps the SA understand about trauma.