Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

In this episode I explain why TRYING TO BE RIGHT is your biggest source of unrest and unhappiness. Why do we need to convince others they are wrong? Why do we need to be right? Wouldn't you rather be happy than be right?? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mind...

In this episode I explain how to deal with your feelings of disappointment, anger, frustration, resentment and, yes, horniness. The secret is in learning to finally tell the truth. If you're a man faced with feeling unseen, unappreciated or under-sexed, it's time to stop playing game and just be honest. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and con...

Are you calm and confident that you can CREATE all the love, affection and connection you want in your life and relationship? Or are you nervous and unsure around your wife or girlfriend? Is she distant or cold toward you? Are you arguing and disconnected the majority of the time? There are reasons this is happening in your life and we want to help you understand them. In our coaching, we help men...

Want to create more emotional connection and intimacy with your woman? Then you must learn how to handle stupid arguments about stupid things. In this episode I give you some "old guy" wisdom on how to build more confidence and self respect by stopping bad habits and arguments. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because y...

When life sucks and your relationship isn't much better, there's one tool that always makes a difference. In this episode I talk about your ability to change what's happening, to make a new path and start creating the kind of life and relationship you really want to experience. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because y...

I get asked this question all the time: "Steve, what's your success rate in fixing screwed up marriages and wives?" In this episode, find out how you can avoid staying in an unhappy marriage and live to your full potential. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mi...

Often Dan and I are talking to guys who are facing some really tough relationship stuff and experiencing an ongoing, disinterested, icy chill from their partners. When we ask him, Do you know what you want? he answers quickly with a list of things he doesn't want: I'm tired of her ignoring me I'm sick of feeling like her last priority I'm don't want to live another 20 yrs. like a roommate I don't...

Want more affection from your wife or partner? Wonder why she seems so cold and distant with you yet with other people AND THE DOG, she's happy, bubbly and gushing with kindness and affection. This episode describes the secret to attracting more attention, affection and intimacy from your wife. Be more like your dog! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give...

There are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where passion, intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent. You may have read something that says you're in a sexless marriage and you desperately want to fix that. In this episode we discuss a change you can make in how you're showing up in your relationship that can flip a switch and rekindle affection, trust...

There are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent. In this episode we discuss a change you can make in how you're showing up in your relationship that can flip a switch and rekindle affection, trust and respect in your relationship. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to gi...

This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to connect, learn and be accountable to other men. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trus...

Has your wife mentioned divorce or made a threat of divorce recently? Maybe she's saying she needs space or is she talking about wanting to separate? This episode is about the fear every man has when he finds out his marriage might be ending. Just like the Wizard of Oz, there's a truth behind the curtain you need to know - and when you know this - things won't feel so scary. In our coaching, we he...

There are some common sayings that have caused a lot of damage in regards to how men show up and lead in their romantic relationships over the recent decades. Another is "Happy wife happy life." We're not talking about stopping being a decent human being, but it's so important, especially in a romantic relationship to know who and what you stand for. A woman can't trust you and open to intimacy wi...

Many men feel like they have a higher sex drive than their partner does, but the feedback we get is that women are very sexual, so if that's the case, why do many men find themselves in marriages and relationships where the intimacy, affection and sex has waned and sometimes even stopped completely? In this video Dan talks about intention and how important it is in engaging a woman's sex drive and...

Do you feel confident everywhere in your life EXCEPT your romantic relationship? Want to know why you can't bring that confident version of you into your interactions with your wife or lover? In this episode we talk about the difference between competency confidence and spiritual confidence and what you can do to become more confident in your life and relationships. In our coaching, we help men ge...

When your relationship is struggling or another big life event is bearing down on you and threatening to turn everything upside down, it's easy for us to get into an anxious, fearful mindset and try anything and everything to wrestle back control. In this episode I talk about how you can build your emotional strength, confidence and self-respect which will help you to think straight and take actio...

When your marriage is struggling or you want to improve it and create more connection and affection with your wife, knowing who you are and how you see yourself is incredibly important. In this episode we discuss how you currently bring the aspects of that man to your relationship and how some of those aspects, while great in other areas of your life, can cause problems in your relationship. It's...

This episode is about why getting into stupid arguments make YOU feel bad AND makes your wife less attracted to you. It's hard for a woman to feel romantic, sexy and attracted to you when you allow stupid things to cause you to have bad reactions. Here's why you need to try something new and start handling arguments better. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you...

Have you spent the past 10, 20, 30 years devoted to your wife and family and now, suddenly the relationship is struggling and you're feeling lost at sea without a rudder to know which way to go and who to turn to for some honest advice? As guys we can often commit everything to those we love and stop connecting with other men. In this episode we talk about the importance of having other initiated...

Do you struggle to know how to respond to your Wife Criticising you? Happy Wife Happy Life is a common mantra that could well be ruining the connection, passion and intimacy in your marriage. You can't save your marriage simply by being agreeable. When it comes to conflict and criticism , you need to know the difference between constructive input and controlling input. In this episode I explain wh...

This episode gives you the secret to being more calm, confident and attractive in your own skin. You must believe in your own value and your own nature of masculine confidence. Find out more about the men's retreats coming up here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/2022-mens-retreat-schedule/ In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deepl...

Most men are trying to get more affection and sex the wrong way. Fixing a sexless marriage cannot be done if you're going about it with anger, frustration and fighting. This episode explains how to be a man who creates more affection - has less drama - and gets what he wants with a lot less effort. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...

What should you do when your wife wants space is a tricky question to answer - most people will get defensive and start to attack her as if she's doing it to hurt you deliberately. Has YOUR wife or partner told you she wants some space recently? Maybe she's said she's feeling stressed or smothered. That she's not sure what she wants right now or that she needs some time to figure out who she is. D...

In a marriage or long term relationship, affection and sex will fluctuate so How do you be a Confident Man when that happens ? How do you know if you're being too needy? You know...smothering, joined at the hip, invasive, pestering and insecure. I remember those days well. And how do you know if you're being too independent? You know...detached, selfish, distant, inattentive, dismissive, self-abso...

Do you wish there was more sex and intimacy in your relationship? Would you like to know the key to Make Her Want More Sex? Are you nervous or don't feel confident when asking for, or initiating sex with your wife? In this episode I talk about a common problem that affects men in their long-term relationships which means that she can't feel attracted to you. The good news is, you can fix this and...