Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Are you in a relationship with a woman who is distant and unable to engage in anything but short surface or logistical conversations? Does she keep leaving the room when you enter or is she on her phone at lot of the time? Maybe she's spending a lot of time out of the house or in her bedroom and away from you and the kids? Or is she uncomfortable with and backing away from eye contact, hugs, affec...

This episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...those 3 words that make your neck hairs stand up and your gut tighten into nauseous knots - "I need space!" I've talked a lot in other episodes about this issue. Those videos talk about what to think about her request for space and how to know whether it...

This video talks about the value of male friendship and why we must learn to pursue friendships and learn to ask for help. Why? Because it will revolutionize how you feel about yourself, your life AND your relationship with your woman. How do I know? It happened to me - it continues to happen to me and I see it happen to men in our community every damn day. In our coaching, we help men get a power...

The video is about how "chasing" and "pursuing" what you want from women will never work. Getting affection, love and sex all starts with you knowing you're good enough without needing her to confirm that for you. Here's my latest article that relates to this topic. https://goodmenproject.com/marriage-2/shes-49-and-shes-done-with-romance-and-sex-stvhn/ My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Despe...

In this video I describe the most common "attachment style" problems keeping you from having the relationship you really want. If you want to save your marriage or have more affection and intimacy in your relationship you must take the lead in becoming a secure, confident, self-respecting man. Everything changes from that point. This link will take you to the Men's Live Coaching Roundtable informa...

All you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care. You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper her with massages and make sure she has all the money she needs so she can get herself anything she wants. But she's distant and unresponsive. In this video I explain the KEY REASON why nice guys get no loving and why doing LESS instead of MORE is s...

Are you living in a marriage and relationship where your Wife Is Always Unhappy? In this episode I talk about the mistake we make when trying to deal with this situation and the change in perspective that will make the difference for you going forward. Learn how to react less to stress and tension and feel like a calm, confident man again. See the Happily Divorced Man article I mentioned in this e...

Here's the link to the April 2020 UK Retreat I mention in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/ "Every decision you take can either increase your value or decrease it” It's the start of another new year and rather than setting my self worth and self respect on someone else's opinion of me or on how they are attracted to me or like me or how much they're...

Warning, this video may piss you off! But I don't care - you need to hear this. In this video I discuss: What's really happening when someone treats you badly? Are you a healthy adult man who wants to become more emotionally confident, mature and effective in your life by changing how you think and respond to your circumstances? We coach men to help them become very clear about how they can create...

Today's message is simple. Confidence. Pure, unedited, open-hearted, easy going and unapologetic manly confidence! It’s what separates those who “happen to the world” and those who “wonder what happened”. It’s what separates engaged, happy men who live out loud and those who feel stuck in silence and darkness. It’s what you need to take the next big leap in your life and relationship. What would y...

Your wife wants a divorce and you only just found out? Did it send you into a painful spin of emotional turmoil and uncertainty? Just hearing that one word "divorce" come from your wife can be so explosive, it's like a bomb went off right beside you. In this episode I talk about the way that most of us guys react to this situation...arguing, blaming, shaming, trying to logic her back into feeling...

When you're experiencing volatile emotions coming in your direction, or a volatile work place, or volatile markets - whatever the source of the anxiety and fear - there's a super powered tool in your toolbox that can change everything. In this episode I discuss why it's important to learn how to stay calm in times of high stress and how that relates to intimacy, connection and trust in your marria...

Do you get angry or frustrated when your wife or partner is upset and you can't fix it for her? Maybe you've asked her what you can do to help and that's just made her more angry. WTF...? This episode explains why the worst thing you can do when a woman is angry is to make it all about you! Handling anger in a calm and confident way will build trust AND attraction...which leads to respect, affecti...

There is a guaranteed libido killer that us men don't realize we're doing especially in a long term romantic relationship when our partner is being less affectionate, less connected, less open and getting quiet. That behaviour makes us twitchy and nervous. You see the problem is that in every other area of life we are successful and confident, when a problem arises, we knock it out of the park - y...

Do you feel like there's no intimate connection in your marriage anymore? Are you tired of feeling awkward and lonely in your relationship? Do you feel criticised and judged often by your wife? Do you avoid going home because you expect it to be tense and not a fun place to be? In this episode I discuss how you have an ability to create connection wherever and whenever you want it, even when you'r...

How do you make a woman an irresistible offer? How do you STOP chasing affection, attention and approval and become a man who invites women into his already great life? When I say, "Stop Chasing Women" I mean "Learn How to Invite Them". In this episode I explain the difference. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because y...

If you're a tech guy and work in IT or are in some other very logical, rational, process driven professional career like being a engineer, lawyer, doctor or a pilot, and you are in an unhappy marriage or you seem to have a you may understand this episode a little more than others. This episode is about how NOT to use logic and rationale to improve your marriage and love life. Technical men have a...

This episode gives specific advice about reducing pressure and backing away enough to give yourself time to respond like a man. This can slow things down enough to develop more respect and attraction with your wife again. Learn more about the incredible online course How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb at this link: https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/ In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

Ever wonder why your wife doesn't seem interested in you sexually anymore? Have you ever initiated sex and heard, "Maybe later, I don't know, we'll see or I'm tired"? This episode is about how to understand what might really be going on and how you can change your mindset to help her feel more sexy and attracted to you. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to g...

LINK to How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb Online Coaching Course: https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/ Attention: Men Who Are Desperate To Stop The Downward Spiral Of Their Marriages... Do You Want to Know Exactly What to THINK, What to DO, and What to SAY When She Tells You I'm Not IN Love With You Anymore? Do any of these questions sound familiar?? How can a woman just "fall out of love?" What am...

This episode gives you tips and insight to becoming more rejection proof and confident in asking for what you want. If you are having trouble getting the sex, affection or intimacy you want, it may be because you're way too attached to the outcome and to the meaning of the rejection. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply bec...

This episode is about what you need to know about being "happy". The most important thing you can do before making any decision about your unhappy, unfulfilling, sexless marriage is to first address YOUR level of "happiness". I describe exactly what this means here. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finall...

Does it feel like she only sees the mistakes you make and ignores the other stuff you do for her? Do you often argue, explaining and defending your actions? In this episode I discuss how we arrive at this point in our intimate relationships, how defensiveness damages the trust she feels for you and how you can change the way you deal with these situations in the future in a way that will rebuild t...

How do you tell the difference between a normal request to get some downtime alone and something more serious? How can you know if she is just tired or if she's quietly putting her ducks in a row and plotting her departure from the relationship? I address those questions in this episode, so you're going to have to watch my ugly mug for the answers. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new m...

This episode graphically describes how EMOTIONAL SAFETY is one of the most important relationship insights you need with your woman. A secure, confident man can help create a safe environment without handing over his balls. In fact, it takes a very cock-sure man to understand and accept that his partner is different and needs something different than he does. In our coaching, we help men get a pow...