Goes Without Saying

is simply 'acknowledging your privilege' enough, or is this actually just the bare minimum? how do the complexities of race, class and social hierarchies intersect with feelings of shame and guilt around identity? and is social mobility a myth, or a viable reality in our society? in this personal episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing get real about privilege. from the fetishisation of r...

is "toxicity" nothing more than a beloved buzzword for girls that are obsessed with crystals, self-diagnosing, and andy from headspace? is there nuance and worthwhile substance in the "toxic relationship" conversation? are we all inherently "toxic", or just jaded and judgemental? all of these questions (and more!) will likely remain unanswered in this wild and chaotic episode of Goes Without Sayin...

just love urself it's easy!! in this ep of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are discussing whether radical self-love is productive, or just a capitalist scam. we're learning how to rebel against normalised self-hatred and genuinely accept our messy lives. from finding neutrality and balance in our perceptions of ourselves, to deciphering performed self-acceptance from authentic self-love, we'...

are you self-aware, or are you just self-conscious? join sephy & wing for an on-brand convo about whether personal branding is a waste of time, and why your obsession with representing yourself is making you lose yourself in the process. in this ep of Goes Without Saying we're spiralling about our attachments to style and trends, and exploring how the ego intersects with specific aesthetics. f...

(we're not the same). sephy & wing are back with more hot takes and niche references, and this week we're talking about 'shadow work'. from recovering from mental health struggles, to therapy and radical self-care, we're getting serious about choosing ourselves in this ep of Goes Without Saying. we're channeling our inner darkness and getting in touch with the parts of ourselves we don't alway...

overwhelmed and burnt out? same. join your wholesome and exhausted faves (sephy & wing) for this extra relevant episode of Goes Without Saying. from the ongoing battle between anxious productivity and crippling depression, to how we can ~actually~ allow ourselves to rest, we're discussing capitalism and hustle culture's worst enemy: burn out. come and join your burnt out besties as we redefine...

it's not me, it's you. sephy & wing are back again to meddle with your relationships, and this week we're not holding back. in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're diving into your dating drama and giving you the advice you never asked for. why isn't your scrappy boyfriend texting you back? how can you avoid anxiety over the socially imposed time limit on 'virginity'? is clear communicati...

choose your fighter: a nuanced podcast with thoughtful insights and a cohesive narrative, or one that spirals into a mess of unanswerable questions and outdated references? well we're back with another episode of This Doesn't Go Without Saying, where we answer your burning and juicy questions that really can't go unsaid. is it a privilege to resist labelling your sexuality? can we ever move past a...

brb we’ve got growing pains. in this bizarre episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are unpacking personal development, transformation and growth. from flop eras to hot girl summers, we're chatting about self-imposed 'chapters' and why humans crave stability over everything else. can personal growth ever be measurable? is it inevitable to compare yourself with your friends? is the burger...

is it your divine intuition, or is it just anxiety? from bizarre coincidences to undeniable red flags, sephy & wing are back for another stunning episode of Goes Without Saying. is it possible to distinguish fear from gut feelings? can we ever fully trust ourselves? we've been trying to solve the problem of anxiety vs intuition for years, so it's finally time to show our findings. spoiler: we...

it's getting hot in here! in this juicy episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are delving deep into the world of sexual fantasies. from the nuances of sexuality to the complexities of desire, we're daydreaming away our hot girl summer. why are we all falling in love with celebrities and fictional characters? is it possible to fully understand our sexual desires? are our sexual preferenc...

your ~potentially problematic~ internet besties are back with another brutally honest episode of Goes Without Saying. join us (sephy & wing) as we unpack the facade of instagram perfection and ask the question: can anyone be truly authentic online? from virtue signalling to cancel culture, we're discussing whether the aesthetics of wokeness have become more important than actually being a good...

is it manifesting or is it privilege? in this ep of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss manifesting, spirituality, and how we can ~actually~ get what we want. from the gentrification of spiritual practices, to the emphasis on capitalist success and individualism, we're questioning whether manifestation is really as productive as it sounds. we're ditching the desperate ene...

keep our secrets. sephy & wing are coming clean in this honest episode of Goes Without Saying. you asked us everything you want to know, so we're spilling our guts for your entertainment. brace yourself for realness, deepness, and everything that ~doesn't~ go without saying. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord g...

this week we're really ~doing the work~. the internet's wholesome besties (sephy & wing) are back with another wild episode of Goes Without Saying. in this ep, we're discussing productive routes to healing, the issue with codependency, and how to cultivate healthy communication in our relationships. from trusting ourselves to know what's best, to finally acknowledging that our feelings are val...

get in loser we're going to therapy. it's your chaotic faves here and we're ready for another (drunk) episode of Goes Without Saying. come and join sephy & wing as we discuss the problem with personal narratives, male therapists and our weekly breakdowns and breakthroughs. from the search for external validation, to how therapy isn't accessible to everyone, we're giving our mindsets a makeover...

feeling like the main character? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are discussing the ~romanticise your life~ discourse and exploring how we can stop performing the aesthetic of happiness. from toxic ideas about romance, to giving ourselves permission to live fully, we're cutting the cameras and learning to accept the reality of our scrappy lives. join our discord group chat...

not you meeting up with people you don't like just to avoid your own company! sephy & wing (& jim) are back with another stunning episode of Goes Without Saying, and this week we're discussing the fear of missing out. we promised you a fomo episode, so we're not holding back. we're chatting about how to form genuine relationships that aren't built on ego and performance. from anxiety aroun...

your ! feelings !! are !!! valid !!!! we're really taking ~vulnerability~ to the next level with this raw, emotional ep of Goes Without Saying. in this extra honest episode, we're chatting about our personal mental health experiences, and how we can follow our own map to happiness. brace yourself, because sephy & wing are spilling the tea and the tears. join the conversation every monday. spea...

feeling like a fraud? in this stunning episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are here to remind you that you're the authority in your own life. from performing perfection to dealing with anxiety, we're learning how to silence our inner critics and claim our space. we've said it before and we'll say it again: "nobody's coming harry". join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on...

it's the trauma talking. in this week's episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are unpacking childhood trauma, generational imbalances, and the desire to heal from the past. from problematic parenting styles to trauma bonding, we're deep diving into personal traumas for your listening pleasure! the human world is a mess, but that's okay. join the conversation every monday. speak your min...

TW: rape & sexual violence. is he really a 'nice guy', or is he using 'niceness' to coerce you into sex? in this extremely raw and angry episode of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we try our hardest to unpack rape culture, transactional sex, and consent. why do 'nice guys' get angry when they are friendzoned, and why to they feel entitled to women's bodies? come with the fur...

living in chaos? honestly, same. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are here to reassure you that you're not wasting your life! we're talking about ageing anxiety, biological clocks, and the social pressure to have it all figured out in your twenties. we're rejecting perfection and learning to prioritise ourselves. it's time to ~relinquish all control and trust the timing of...

what are you waiting for? this episode of Goes Without Saying sees sephy and wing share their controversial opinions on privilege, the paranormal, and painful life-altering events. tackling your juiciest personal questions (including sexual stories and the ever-elusive chronicles of childhood trauma), nothing gets left unsaid in this episode... although tbh it probably should have. oops. join the...

sephy and wing are over party!! welcome to the episode where we call out cancel culture, and probably cancel ourselves in the process. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy and wing discuss holding celebrities accountable, and the importance of making mistakes as a fallible human being. from reductive ‘instagram catfights’ to performative allyship, we’re not holding back. cancel us already...