Goes Without Saying

i hate it here!! this week we're cancelling #giRLboSs culture and throwing our internalised capitalism in the bin. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are getting vulnerable about productivity, and questioning: why do our lives have to revolve around production? from the pressure to have a side hustle, to society's emphasis on creativity, we're taking the guilt out of relaxati...

waiting for a mediocre boy to text you back? it couldn't be us. in this spicy episode of Goes Without Saying, we're unpacking your sexual situs and dating disasters. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss how to date for fun, not fear. from self-partnership to labelling sexualities, we're getting real about sex, dating and relationships in this (brutally) honest episode. your shitty boyfriend is...

TW: suicide & mental health. we’re 24 going on depressed, anxious and existential in this episode of Goes Without Saying. join us (sephy & wing) for another chaotic conversation. this week we're discussing mental health, social media, and questioning: can happiness ever be sustainable? from toxic positivity to instagram facades to cbt therapy, come join the convo and feel seen. brb calling...

orgasm gap is over party!! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, join your problematic faves (sephy & wing) as we discuss vaginas, vulvas, and clits. from ridiculous sex myths we heard at school to the patriarchal beliefs we still hold about our bodies today, we're unlearning all the bullsh*t they taught us. let's get clitty! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our in...

assimilating to fit in with the people around you? we hate to see it. we literally can't stop going on about authenticity, so in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're exploring how we can live as the truest versions of ourselves. are you being authentic, or are you performing realness and relatability? join us (sephy and wing) as we discuss all things ~authenticity~ and how we can stop being f...

not you creating unrealistic goals and getting upset when you don't reach them! in this episode we're welcoming in 2021 with a chat about setting healthy goals, fighting internalised capitalism, and how to navigate self-help culture. from toxic productivity to balanced goals and aspirations, we're learning to let go of perfectionism and actually do whatever the f*ck we want. new year, same sephy a...

kylie jenner was really onto something. it's our final episode of the year and we couldn't be more ready to get the hell out of 2020 and into 2021. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss how bizarre this entire year has been, and delve into all the things we've all learned and accomplished. from redefining success to living with ~authenticity~, we're seeing out the year in true sephy & wing...

not you fetishising pre-pubescent girls and calling it a 'preference'!! in this episode we're discussing how beauty standards have been informed by paedophile culture, white supremacist ideals & fatphobia. from your mcm's porn history to mainstream media's obsession with youth, we're breaking down how beauty standards are actually pretty ugly. join the conversation every monday. speak your min...

it's your average festive podcast, but make it ~traumatic~. in this episode, we're discussing toxic family dynamics and how they play out during the holiday season. from political arguments to racist uncles to triggering body image comments, we're setting boundaries this year. christmas came early! enjoy x join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on  instagram! Hosted on Acast. See...

*screams in madonna-whore complex* are you really having a 'slut phase', or are you just performing empowerment? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss 'sluts', rape culture, and sexuality. we're questioning whether 'slut phase' discourse is rooted in genuine sexual liberation, or if it's just another fetishised cliché for the male gaze. we really hate to...

brace yourselves for some unnecessarily brutal advice because we're ~triggered~ in this Q&A. we asked for your most juicy and deep questions on instagram, and you came through! from how to get a feminist boyfriend, to imposter syndrome, to living with unapologetic authenticity, we're giving you the all the truths you never knew you needed. join the conversation every monday! speak your mind at...

toxic positivity is over party!! this week we're cancelling fake happiness & questioning why we all feel an intense pressure to perform happiness at all time. is happiness political? (spoiler alert: ofc duh!). is happiness the pinnacle of success, or is there something more important? come spiral with us (sephy & wing) in this episode of Goes Without Saying! join the conversation every mon...

get out of the bathtub and into the boardroom! your self-care isn't working, and we're here to tell you why. forget everything you thought you knew about face masks, bubble baths, and scented candles, because real self-care is hard work. from patriarchal marketing that tells women they're dumb, to why we're obsessed with therapy, this ep is the self-care you ~actually~ needed. join the conversatio...

it's your problematic faves here, sephy and wing! prepare to be screaming at us through your headphones because a lot goes unsaid in this controversial episode! we're discussing "men are trash", and whether it's progressive, productive, or completely pointless. come indulge in some feminist fury with us in this triggering ep of goes without saying. essentially, (and we can't stress this enough) f*...

POV you're listening to this podcast pretending that sephy & wing are your friends. but that's okay because in this ep we're discussing why we're all completely lonely and surrounded by fake friends. in 2020 we've all been confronted with loneliness in new ways, and isolation has become a part of life, but we're here to keep you company during the apocalypse! from friendship breakups to social...

bet you thought you'd seen the last of us? we're back with a ~stunning~ new look, but it's the same sephy and wing that you know and love (hopefully)! we're kicking off this brand new season with an episode all about appearances! are looks everything? why are we so obsessed with performing on social media? from 'imagined audiences' to managing perceptions, we're digging deep into why we're all suc...

our last ever episode?? we're going out with a bang and spilling all the tea in this steamy episode. we asked you for your dating f*ck ups and you came through with your scrappy dappy doo stories. turns out we're all living the same life! we've all been dating the same shitty men, so we're breaking up with bad dates and men who continue to give us the bear minimum. #dumphim2020 is still going stro...

*trigger warning: body image* diet culture is over party!! this episode of Goes Without Saying, we're cancelling patriarchal images of beauty and unlearning all the bullsh*t we were taught about our bodies as teenagers. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss the fact that whilst women get smaller, men get richer. we hate it here (no but really, we hate it here). prepare yourself for feminist ang...

it's the low self-esteem for me. we're back with another ~stunning~ episode, and this week we're talking all about comparisons. whether we compare ourselves to celebrities, influencers, or people in our lives, we're breaking down how women are raised to pit themselves against one another. join us (sephy and wing) as we get vulnerable with you, discussing comparison, self-esteem, and insecurities....

*insecurities have left the chat* if you're searching for validation from random people and irrelevant institutions, this one's for you. this week, we're talking self-esteem and learning how we can validate ourselves, rather than expecting affirmation from money, follows, and popularity. from building confidence to rejecting 'imagined audiences', we're learning to release control and ~go with the...

sick of being choked by boys with no bed-frames and dirty fingernails? in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're breaking up with bad sex and taking you to the mysterious promised land of ~feminist sex~ ! can feminist sex exist in a patriarchal society? is there room for genuine female empowerment in heteronormative relationships? why do men benefit from sex more than women? join us (sephy &amp...

miscommunication? never heard of her. let’s normalise healthy communication. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are setting boundaries, communicating clearly, and discussing how all relationships can be improved by just… talking! doesn’t sound so scary, right? this week we’re learning that silence breeds resentment, so we’re cancelling fake shower arguments, and breaking...

eat !! the !! rich !!! this week we're discussing why capitalism sucks and how we've all been tricked into pursuing a false idea of success. it turns out that our childhood dreams were never ours, and karl marx was really onto something. ready to spiral and quit your job? join us (sephy & wing) as we deep dive into capitalism, success, and why humans are addicted to misery. just girly things....

disney movies walked so br*ck tu*ner could run. join us in this heated episode of Goes Without Saying as we (sephy & wing) break down rape culture, and how ALL men (yes, all men) benefit from it. from 'boys will be boys' comments to everyday sexism, we go IN on the patriarchy once again with a few twilight references. speak your mind on  our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priva...

plato walked so we could run! spiral with us in this chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying where we (sephy & wing) ask: is there a meaning of life? join our existential crisis as we discuss what happens after we die, how capitalism ruins lives, and whether humans truly have autonomy. get ready to discover that life is pointless and that's why it's iconic. speak your mind on our instagram...