Get Real With Dakota

In this episode, my wonderful spouse, Sven and I, answer questions from The Pride Pack made by Paired. Paired is an app that helps couples improve their relationships through the use of daily questions, quizzes, games and more! Sven and I navigate coming out, what we're proud of, open relationships (wtf) and then some.  ~Dakota

In this episode, I'll share how my first Sex Expo experience was and wtf to say when you're setting boundaries. Come with me for a stroll around NYC and learn a bit about what you can expect at the Sex Expo and some helpful tips on setting boundaries like a #boss. ~Dakota

In this episode, I'll be discussing: why making #relationshipgoals matter regardless of the relationship dynamic you want how boundaries play into your #relationshipgoals what happens when you set #relationshipgoals and what happens when you don't... Follow me on IG @getrealwithdakota for future episode updates and access to my Make Boundaries Your B*tch (Yes, it's free!) ~Dakota

She's bacckkkk with season 2 of my podcast but we've made some big changes. So bye bye to Dick Nerd (for now!) and hello to Get Real With Dakota! Last season was all about being a happy, healthy hoe. This season is not just about sex but all things love, sex, and relationships.  In this episode, I'll be discussing: what I was doing before what this new season is all about my personal journey and w...

Join Dick Nerd for their lastest episode all about fisting with @honeyleavittalone! Get to know this bad ass comedian and fellow sex lover as we talk through some helpful tips for those who wants to try fisting. Lots of laughs here! Tune in next week for my episode all about catching feelings with @mystkue on Insta! This one got real, no doubt.  Follow @dick.nerd on Instagram to get more updates o...

Join Dick Nerd for their last episode to their poly hoe sub series featuring the wonderful drag qween Mary Jane Monroe and happy, healthy hoe Silver Surfer.  Threesomes, tears, love, sex clubs and moreee.  Tune in next week for my episode all about fisting! with @honeyleavittshow on Insta! We had a great time talking sh*t and learning some new thangs.  Follow @dick.nerd on Instagram to get more up...

Join  Dick Nerd for their 7th episode alllll about poly hoes. It's a big  crowd this time but there's a whole lotta love for this 3 part episode!  Special guests, Silver Surfer (queer poly queen) and Mary Jane Monroe ( gender f*ck open hoe) continue sharing their experiences in regards to being poly and I get more emotional and share some shit about myself, if I'm being real! Tune in for Part 3 ne...

Join Dick Nerd for their 6th episode alllll about poly hoes. It's a big crowd this time but there's a whole lotta love for this 3 part episode! Special guests, Silver Surfer (queer poly queen) and Mary Jane Monroe ( gender f*ck open hoe) share their experiences being sexually open in their relationships!  Part 1 is mostly about Silver Surfer and her partners experience meeting. Tune in for Part 2...

Join Dick Nerd for their 5th episode where they chat with their bestie, Kwame or DJ  Ohene Tigre, about hoein' during a pandemic! I share my journey navigating a new relationship a week before quarantine happened and Kwame talks about a bunch of things, including trying to get head through a window to cope with the pandemic sexual blues.  TW: COVID, sexual assault, rape and stealthing  You can che...

Join Dick Nerd for their 4th episode where they chat with their besties, DJ Ohene Tigre and Badluck Brit, along with their lover Sven Fresca, about what to do when someone crosses a boundary. We discuss fuck boys, Brit calling the shots, paying for dates, infidelity, and the secret to living your best (sex) life over some seafood broil. So yes, this is also for my ASMR babes who love hearing peopl...

Join Dick Nerd for their 3rd episode to their series, A Guide to Being a Happy, Healthy Hoe. Dear friend, Maddy a.k.a @divinelyaligned (on Insta), chat about different types of boundaries and our own struggles setting them. This episode is allll about exploring the different types of boundaries that you may have so you KNOW when a mofo crosses them. They cover everything from paying on dates, butt...

Join Dick Nerd and their partner, @svenfresca, to chat about how to identify what type of relationship dynamic you want and why you want it. Here to help you make sure you're hoe-ing is coming from an honest, healthy place, Dick Nerd and Sven Fresca discuss how they first met and how their own expectations shifting as they grew to know one another. Just another wholesome....and very gay chit c...

Join Dick Nerd and special guests, Magic Dyke and DJ Ohene Tigre for the very first episode of A Guide to Being a Happy, Healthy Hoe. In this episode, they take to Dick Nerd's Instagram followers for some insight on what they think a hoe is. From defining the word with the word to some salty responses, these best friends laugh, dissect, and keep it real when reading the people's thoughts, okkkkk....