Gaydars for Gaysians

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empat...

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eati...

We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, a...

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight fuckboy-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians , our personals @asterhwang and...

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the mi...

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex libe...

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California , a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles.  R...

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like da...

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn...

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which...

Aster has his first legit interview with Anthony Hand, the creator of Maxxie LaWow: Drag Super-Shero, a feature-length animated film anticipated to be released in Spring 2024. Introducing pop culture's very first drag heroine, our super-shero’s first silver screen adventure pits her against her archnemesis Dana Bolical. With a nefarious scheme tucked-up and ready for every situation, Dana wil...

TW: Eating disorder, Suicidality, Transphobia, Transmisogyny I'm late because I moved across the ocean, but here's another insightful episode. This week, we're back with another straight girl, Jackie, to talk about how rough her life has been being the "objectively beautiful" one. Can you imagine having every single guy fall for you the moment he lays eyes on you? Every ga...

TW: Extremely dark humor regarding mental health and disorders,  self-harm, & self-worth This episode, we're with aromantic heterosexual Haidy who opens up everything about being bipolar and having ADHD. Currently in her manic stage, she owes up to her God complex and irresponsible sexual decisions. BTW, we're using very dark humor in this episode, so don't take us so seriously....

Pride Month Event is over, but the studio is ever more flowing with the gays. Your fav gay guests,  Rowan (ep 17 , 22 ) & Aiden ( ep 35 ), are back to discuss all about marriage. What do we think about marriage? Do we even wanna get married? Do we want kids, if we can ever have them? What about our ideal honeymoon? Tune in to hear about Rowan's nude cliff wedding fantasy and Aiden's...

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**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screensho...

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, ple...

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, ple...

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, ple...

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, ple...

From the title, you know that you have our shortest episode coming up hot. Joined by our dear host Ken again, we paint rainbows of joy regarding our amazing, wonderful lives as Gaysians. Hurry, because it's gonna rain pretty soon ;)  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians , our personals @aste...

You don't want to skip the intro music this episode because this week we're not G4G, but Heteros for Peperos . With Aster's friend, Master, as the judge, three brave contestants of the H.E.T.E.R.O. community compete ferociously in the Heterosexual Olympics, to win the title of SSapterosaurus  of 2021. How do these people survive as cisgender straight individuals in today's oppr...

TW: Bodily discussions of trans people, AIDS This week, get ready to get educated by two medical students from Korea & America respectively to discuss medical perspectives on queer identities and experiences. Topics include education about LGBT health care (or the complete lack thereof), transgender health care, blood transfusion & AIDS, etc. Wait till the end to hear their ~professional~...

We tried our best to address the elephant in the room, racism in Asian communities. We ask for your gracious understanding as we uncover delicate and sensitive topics such as Asian friend groups, internalized racism, Yellow Fever,  and racism/ colorism in Korea.  DISCLAIMER: We address the topic with our perspectives as Koreans. While we're only able to speak on our own behalf, we acknowledge...

This week, Aster snatches Dom Daddy Angela away from her vacation to talk about what needs to be addressed: Asian racism. We start unpacking this heavy load by going over some traumatic childhood stories tainted by racist classmates and the pressure to have "English" names . Oh a PSA by the way, WE ALSO SPEAK ENGLISH if you hadn't noticed yet. Next, we delve deeper into more serious...