Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

sometimes you wanting the best for yourself and others, triggers the worst in people you actually care about........... SURPRISE!!!! it definitely surprised me... 1. any relationship context 2. nothing can prepare you 3. keep slaying 4. focus on the incompatibility rather than assigning blame 5. not everyone wants to slay 6. beware of selfish ass hoes 7. their behaviour is a projection 8. internal...

slive slaugh slove slearn and slay ! let me know your thoughts, feelings and lessons on friendship in the comments!! 1. better to have no friends than bad friends 2. define your inner and outer circle 3. drifting isn’t a bad thing 4. your friends are not your therapist, you are not your friends’ therapist 5. your friends are your cheerleaders 6. you can’t save other people from their bad decisions...

2025 only hit me up about the situationships you've ended, not the situationships you're in please & thank you xoxo 1. situationship defined 2. committment from a man is not a prize 3. you’re putting the vibes in jeopardy 4. this is incompatibility not a challenge 5. compatibility is not this hard 6. take yourself seriously 7. your trauma response is not your fault, but it is your responsibility 8...

some thoughts and suggestions on habits that worked for me in my darkest most flop hour... lay the foundation for your next slay, today!!!!!! downloadable / printable trackers here: https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle 1. 1% rule 2. visualise your brain garden 3. habit replacement 4. gaslight into a slay 5. give yourself a treat 6. rewrite your inner narrative 7. habit...

a list of practices and considerations i have used for digital distancing and to manage a healthier relationship with the internet and social media. its really use or be used, so make sure you set boundaries and protect your peace!!! subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https:/...

part two of my 30 things i realised before 30!!! let me know what you thought of this video and if you have any specific topic requests~~ ⁠ subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla ☆ https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@ambera...

sliving my slife ☆ subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla 1. an...

hope this helps ^_^ 1. you are bored 1.1 get a life 1.2 find purpose 1.3 80/20 rule 1.4 exercise free will 1.5 get a hobby 1.6 enjoy your life 2. you are a hater 2.1 judgement others & yourself 2.2 work with what you got 2.3 managing insecurity 2.3.1 journalling 2.3.2 personal jokes 2.3.3 #BEREAL 2.4 encourage others 2.5 redefine success 2.6 limit exposure to negativity bonus: people pleasing fina...

guys my video didnt record, please forgive me. we will do better next time :~) anyways lets talk about the importance of doing what you enjoy for self empowerment and understanding. building awareness around how we feel and what we think in order to be hot and have fun yay!! subscribe to my podcast for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ f...

recent thoughts on closure and the illusion that an another person can give it to you. how can we think about overwhelming emotional experiences and 'closure' in a way that allows us to move forward in healthy and productive ways that facilitate a life of being hot and having fun?? subscribe to the podcast for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subs...

*life when you realize that conventional wisdom does kinda have value* hopefully this video makes some of these habits more appealing to you if you've ever been skeptical about what it might take to help you build the foundation to being hot and having fun!! i was a hater but ... i ran out of excuses and honestly integrating these practices consistently have really changed my life in ways unhealth...

In this episode, we're diving deeper into the world of haters and exploring strategies to fight back and reclaim our power. Building upon last week's discussion on the general vibe of haters (rancid), we're now delving into actionable steps to address their negativity head-on. Is it worth fighting back against haters, or should our energy be focused elsewhere? How can we maintain our peace of mind...

In this podcast episode, we delve into the intriguing topic of dealing with haters – those individuals who seem to go out of their way to criticize and spread negativity. But wait, this isn't your typical discussion on handling constructive criticism; we're focusing specifically on those who are just plain rude and judgmental for no apparent reason. Ever felt like someone made their problem your p...

!!! Serious Trigger Warning for SA in this Episode !!! WATCH VIDEO EPISODE : https://youtu.be/_GydjUIgPAM In this episode of "Girl Confessions," our guest Seven bravely shares her deeply personal journey, starting from running away from home in China to embarking on a tumultuous adventure that led her to Canada. She opens up about her experience of entering into a visa marriage, navigating the com...

In this episode, I delve into the personal journey of leaving my hometown, Perth, and the social challenges I faced during that transition. While my departure wasn't the smoothest, I navigated the change as best as I could at the time, and I've come to terms with my actions since then. Leaving one's hometown, especially from a smaller or more isolated place like Perth, can come with a unique set o...

WATCH VIDEO EPISODE: https://youtu.be/grzVGKHibVE Welcome back to another episode of "Girl Confessions"! Today, we've got another juicy installment for you. Miss Lisa spills the tea on her whirlwind romance with a creative director, complete with unexpected twists and turns. Get ready to hear all about the rollercoaster ride of lovebombing, flaky boys, and dating app adventures in Tokyo. But that'...

In this week's episode, we delve into the ever-relevant topic of "Full-Time vs Freelance" work arrangements. Join us as we unravel the romanticized notions surrounding freelance work and explore nuance in the pros and cons of both career paths. With careful consideration, we navigate the myriad factors that individuals must weigh when making the leap from full-time employment to freelance. From fi...

Welcome to Episode 93! In this week's episode, we dive deep into the intriguing topic of "Nice Guys" and "Pick-Me Girls". Join me as we explore the similarities and differences between these two personas, and dissect the confusing connection between seeking validation and genuine connection. We'll unravel the complexities of gender expectations in modern dating and interrogate the roots of insecur...

WATCH VIDEO EPISODE: https://youtu.be/B6HvIXEyL2c Welcome to this week's episode of "Girl Confessions"! Join us as we dive deep into the world of relationships and self-discovery with our special guest, Sandy. In this candid conversation, Sandy shares her experiences of being a 'crazy' girlfriend, navigating toxic patterns with boys, and the unexpected benefits of having an unhinged crush. Get rea...

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ Welcome to "Go Where You're Appreciated: Finding Value and Self-Worth in the Right Places." In this episode, we delve into the pivotal question: What is our discomfort in service of? We'll explore when we should allow things to be easy instead of assuming success and happiness require suffering. Discover how to nurture genuine appreciat...

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ In this week's "De-Center Everything: Men, Women, Beauty, Feminism & More – Focus on Yourself for True Empowerment" episode we consider how in the process of #realizingthings, we often get caught up in binaries and believe that if one thing doesn't work for us, we must swing to the opposite extreme. This podcast is about de-centering an...

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 https://www.friendcrush.club/ This week we dip into the intriguing world of Shera Seven and the complex dynamics of 'dating for money.' From fleeting thoughts to evolving perspectives, we'll explore how my understanding of this phenomenon has evolved over time. Can clownery pay the bills? Probably not. But let's unpack the realities and nuances of 'dating for money'...

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ WELCOME TO SEASON SIX OF FRIEND CRUSHHHHH WOOO Join us as we delve into the transformative concept of emotional accountability/responsibility. Ever experienced a moment where a term perfectly encapsulates a significant aspect of your life? That's precisely how I felt when I began reflecting on emotional accountability. It goes beyond me...

special treat for friend crush listeners ~ i've received a few messages like this one so i felt the wheels turning in my brain and generated this response. i definitely missed out a few things but i hope that this provides helpful perspective for anyone that relates to the situation described.  if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be...

more thoughts on how our relationship to our own age can affect our experience of life. there are so many amazing sides to getting older than i have only been able to appreciate as a result of embracing age rather than living in fear! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://i...