FREAK’N SEE Podcast

This week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose. Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack: 🔥 Dating with intentiona...

This week we’re diving deep into the world of flogging with special guest Master Sango (@1sangorh) 🖤⛓️ This isn’t just a conversation about impact play it’s about technique, trust, consent, power, history, and what it means to navigate BDSM as Black and POC kinksters. We unpack the art of flogging, the difference between pain and pleasure, safety, aftercare, and the emotional realities that come...

The wave is here and it’s not asking for permission. In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with MXTER XERO RULZ (@mxter_xero) to talk about the rise of the femboy and what it really means beyond the aesthetic. From internet visibility to real-life kink spaces, we unpack how femininity in men is being redefined, desired, challenged and sometimes misunderstood. We get into: 🔥 Why femboys are...

“How much is TOO much?” 😏 This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the comments… and whew, y’all had A LOT to say 👀 After Jamel (@kxng_jayy97) shared his weekend experience, the internet did what it does best—judge, project, and get all up in somebody else’s business. So we had to talk about it. Was it really “too much”… or just too honest? 🤔 Why does sexual freedom make people uncomfortabl...

Guest: Lamb (@lookdeeper | @wearefrolic) This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting real about the POC experience in gay nightlife the highs, the shadows, and everything in between. From navigating spaces where you feel invisible… to being hyper-visible in ways that don’t feel human we’re unpacking the truths a lot of people don’t say out loud. 🔥 We talk about: • The emotional toll of code-switching...

Integrated Play Spaces   What happens when kink spaces stop separating us… and start integrating us? This episode gets deep into multi-gender, multi-sexuality play spaces where boundaries, power, identity, and desire all collide in real time. We’re unpacking what it really means to share erotic space across differences… and what it takes to do it safely, consciously, and respectfully. 🎙️ Featuring...

🖤 CHEMSEX 🖤 This week on FREAK’N SEE, we get REAL with special guest David Brandyn (@davidbrandyn), host of Butch Queen After Dark, as we dive deep into the unspoken rules, racial dynamics, and raw realities of dark rooms and chemsex culture. From navigating consent in the dark… to the pressure to “keep up”… to the ways Black & Brown bodies are desired, dismissed, and fetishized—nothing is o...

In this episode, we dive deep into the furry community with our amazing guests Kyle (@mojomadness5) and Basco (@spicydin0). Together we unpack what the furry fandom actually looks like beyond the stereotypes. We talk about everything from fursonas, creativity, and chosen family to the reality of meets, conventions, and the overlap between furries, kink, leather, and pup play. We also get honest ab...

Daddy/Boy Dynamics  In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, Dominus sits down with special guest King David Lyncoln to talk about the realities of Daddy/Boy dynamics within the POC kink community. We dive into what this relationship dynamic really looks like beyond the stereotypes exploring power, care, emotional connection, structure, and accountability. Together we discuss how Black and POC kinksters na...

FISTING 101👊🏾🔥 This week we sat down with Emmett Frost for a real, unfiltered, and educational conversation about fisting — without shame, without myths, and without fear. 🎬 In this episode we cover: 🖤 How curiosity begins & first experiences 🖤 Misconceptions people get wrong 🖤 Mental vs. physical preparation 🖤 Patience, pacing & beginner mistakes 🖤 Safety, body awareness & af...

Dom & Sub Dynamics Step into an unapologetic, real, and deeply insightful conversation on Dom/Sub Dynamics with Master Mufasa Ali. In this episode, we explore power exchange, negotiation, consent, safety, cultural perspectives, and the lived experiences of navigating kink and leather spaces as a person of color. From breaking down the fundamentals of Dominant/submissive relationships to discus...

Non-Hierarchical Poly 101: Navigating Love, Jealousy & Community as POC What does polyamory really look like when you’re navigating love, sex, jealousy, and community as a Person of Color? In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with Miguel (@ipapamigz) and Dale (@drob1980) for an honest, layered, and necessary conversation about polyamory through a POC lens. From Poly 101 foundations to r...

🔥 FREAK’N SEE – Leather Mentorship 101 (Season Premiere) 🔥 Guest: J. Tebias Perry (Sir Tebias) What does real leather mentorship look like beyond titles, hierarchy, and control? In this season premiere of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with J. Tebias Perry (Sir Tebias) to unpack leather mentorship through an intentional, ethical, and POC-centered lens. Drawing from his books Leather Mentorship and Pri...

🔥 Season Finale of FREAK’N SEE 🔥 We made it to the end of an unforgettable season, y’all — and we’re closing it out with a full recap of the kinks, fetishes, wild moments, and real lessons we’ve explored along the way. This episode, we’re pulling back the curtain and introducing Daddy Baldwin, the co-producer of Freak’N See — the man behind the lens, behind the magic, and behind so much of what...

Creating Space for POCs in the Leather Community w/ Domion of ONYX | FREAK’N SEE Podcast In this episode, we sit down with Domion of ONYX — one of the most powerful brotherhoods for Black and brown men in the leather and kink community. We’re diving deep into the roots, the history, and the radical need for spaces created by us and for us. From the origins of ONYX to the evolution of Blackout, we...

This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re talking all things SEXUAL FREEDOM with our guest star Lamb (@lookdeeper) — the brilliant mind and CEO behind @wearefrolic and @frolicweekend. 🌈🔥 Lamb opened up about his personal journey toward liberation and how Frolic has grown into a movement a safe, educational, and experimental space where people of color can come together to explore their kinks, express thei...

This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the color-coded, leather-scented, and unapologetically kinky world of the Hanky Code with my guest Kaleidoscope Onyx (@kittykalei).   Once a secret language used in underground queer spaces, the hanky code told you everything you needed to know about someone’s desires—who they were, what they wanted, and how they liked it. But what happens when we look...

In this powerful episode, Dominus sits down with Alnabil Onyx to explore what it truly means to heal through BDSM.Together, they dive deep into how kink, power exchange, and intentional touch can become tools for reclaiming agency, processing trauma, and reconnecting with the body—especially for Black folks navigating generational pain and personal healing. From building trust and safety to redefi...

🥊💥 Step into the ring, freaks it’s time for another round of FREAK’N SEE! Today I’m joined by the powerhouse himself, Boxer Daddy Doc, and we’re diving deep into the sweaty, bruised, and beautiful world of Heavy Impact Play. We’re not just talking paddles and floggers—this time, the gloves are on. 🧤 Daddy Doc shares his journey into boxing as both a sport and a kink, breaking down how he combin...

😈✨ A brand new episode of Freak’N See is live! ✨😈 This week we’re joined by the one and only That Damn George, and baby… this convo is JUICY. We’re unpacking what it means to embrace fem dom inside a hyper-masculine leather culture that’s shifting, evolving, and making space for new ways to play. 👀 We get into what it means to be a switch—tapping into the psychological thrill of both giving a...

This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re joined by the incredible Lightbeam Onyx as we dive deep into the art of rope & wax play 🪢🕯️. He opens up about his kink journey and gives us a raw POV of exploring sex, pleasure, and BDSM while living as a paraplegic. 💥 Disability doesn’t stop him from chasing gratification, connection, and living his best freaky life—and his story will leave you inspired AND...

💦✨ This week on FREAK’N SEE we’re not holding back—we’re sliding headfirst into the soaked, messy, and golden world of Urophilia (watersports) with our guest star Aphrodite Onyx (@aphro_tesh). From that first curious drip to the full-on flood, we’re spilling every detail about how we found ourselves in this kink, how Aphrodite got pulled into the stream, and what it means to embrace a fetish tha...

👀 Who’s watching who? This week on FREAK’N SEE we’re spilling all the tea on Voyeurism & Exhibitionism with the amazing Mx. Dee! 🌈🔥 Ever wondered what makes watching (or being watched) such a turn-on? We got you! PLUS—we’re getting real about what it’s like for Black queer folks & POC to explore these kinks, the challenges we face, and how to keep it safe, consensual, and sexy. 💦✨ 🎧...

✨ Episode 3 of FREAK’N SEE is live! ✨ This week we sit down with our special guest Indigo to dive deep into the world and culture of gogo dancing. We open up about the challenges of being Black men in the gay entertainment industry, where acceptance isn’t always guaranteed. 💭🔥 This was such an engaging and necessary conversation, and we’re so grateful to Indigo for sharing his truth and experi...

🐾 FREAK’N SEE – Pup Play Through a Black Lens 🐾 Join us for an unfiltered conversation with Pup Finn as we dive into the world of pup play from the perspective of a Black man in the kink community. 🐶💬 From his personal journey to navigating identity, race, and kink spaces, Finn shares raw truths, challenges, and the joy he’s found in embracing his pup self. 🎧 Listen in, learn, and explore as...