Fit Girl Magic | Healthy Living For Women Over 40

No phone. No podcast. No folding laundry while pretending you're relaxing. Just sit. If you immediately thought, Girl, please. I have things to do, this episode might be for you. Today, I'm introducing you to another woman I've met again and again over my nearly 20 years of coaching. Her name is Burnt-Out Brenda. And I know her very well because I spent decades being her. What happens when the thi...

Have you ever caught yourself saying, "That's just who I am," or "I've always been this way"? What if that story is the very thing keeping you stuck? This week, I'm joined by business psychologist Ryann Gillen for a conversation about identity, mindset, and why lasting change has so much less to do with willpower than we've been led to believe. While Ryann works with entrepreneurs, the ideas we di...

You know her. Hell, you might be her. You've got a husband, a group chat, 800 Facebook friends, and somehow you can't remember the last time someone asked about your actual life instead of your Instagram grid. This week I'm talking about my third persona, Faye — the one who looks the least lonely and might be the loneliest of all. I get into the stats (loneliness is worse for you than obesity, yes...

Everyone is talking about GLP-1s right now. Some women swear they've changed their lives. Others are side eyeing them from across the internet. And most are somewhere in the middle at 11pm Googling "should I just get the shot" or just diet harder. No judgment. That's why we're here. I brought on Shenelle Green, bariatric coach, surgery patient and honestly one of the most no-BS guests I've ever ha...

Who decided health only counts if you do all of it? Somewhere along the way, many of ladies of over 40 bought into the idea that being healthy means meal prepping every bite, never missing a workout, tracking everything, and starting over the second life gets messy. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I'm calling BS on that whole approach. I share how years of fitness competition prep turned m...

If your doctor has ever told you, "Everything looks normal," while you sat there knowing something felt completely off, this episode is for you. This week, I'm joined by Elizabeth Gaines, FDN Practitioner and Director of Education at FDN Training, to talk about what happens when stress, burnout, and years of pushing through finally catch up with you. After years working in a high-pressure nonprofi...

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If you think heat exhaustion only happens to hikers in Death Valley or people running ultramarathons in the desert… think again. This week on the Fit Girl Magic Podcast, I'm sitting down with Shannon from the American Red Cross to talk about something a lot of us completely underestimate: HEAT. And listen… as women over 40, our bodies don't always regulate temperature the same way they used to. Ad...

Ever feel like your old routine just… stopped fitting your life? Yeah. Same. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I'm coming to you from my new home in Jupiter, Florida after leaving behind 30 years of life in Boston. My gym. My people. My routines. My favorite grocery stores. My 20 pair of perfectly organized black leggings. And somewhere between packing tape, moving boxes, and wondering why strangers...

If white knuckling my way through a meal plan actually worked, I wouldn't have felt like I was starting over at least 1million times. But here we are… blaming willpower for a cycle that clearly isn't working. This week on Fit Girl Magic, I'm sitting down with coach and author Nicole Zapoli to bust the myth that discipline is the missing piece. Spoiler: it's not. What's actually driving (or tanking...

You haven't hit rock bottom. You're not in crisis. But somewhere along the way… you stopped choosing you. And lately? It's getting loud. This week I'm sitting down with Angela Burke on what she calls radical self-possession, the moment you stop managing everyone else's life so well… you forget you have one. It's not woo woo nonsense. It's not journaling your way to "inner peace". It's deciding you...

I spent 30 years in Boston surviving winters that would break a lesser human. I scraped my car, wore 500 layers, and never once looked outside during a snowstorm and thought magical. So yeah… I'm out. Florida-bound. While packing up my house, I cracked open a closet I hadn't touched in a decade and found a box of Old Kim I'd been dragging around for 20+ years. That moment sent me down a rabbit hol...

Over 40? It's Time to Ditch the Complicated Skincare Routine Have you ever looked at your skin and thought… Why is it suddenly so dry? Why does it react to everything? Why did the routine that used to work completely stop working? Friend… it may not be your skin. It may be your overcomplicated skincare routine. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast drepisode, I sit down with Dr. Mimi Vega, biotech scient...

You're already walking… but somehow, you've convinced yourself it's "not enough." So now you're side-eyeing a weighted vest… thinking this is the thing that's finally going to make it work. Because this is exactly how women end up with a closet full of "I should be using this" fitness equipment. I brought in Kayla Girgen to cut through the nonsense, and we cover: rucking vs. weighted vests (spoile...

I'm literally sitting in my closet right now, surrounded by moving boxes, recording this episode. Because life is lifing. And midlife doesn't wait for perfect conditions. But I had to hit record, because I keep seeing way too many smart, capable women beating themselves up over plans that stopped working years ago. Let me paint you a picture. A few months ago, a woman told me she asked ChatGPT for...

Most people treat LinkedIn like that old gym membership… You know it's there. You just haven't used it in years. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I'm talking with LinkedIn strategist Katie Corliss about how to stop treating LinkedIn like a dusty online résumé and start using it as a tool that actually works for you. Because whether you love your job, hate it, or are thinking about your next...

Think your problem is consistency? A lot of women over 40 believe that if they could just be more disciplined, more motivated, or more consistent… everything would finally click. But what if the problem isn't you? What if the real issue is that your life is full and your bandwidth has changed? Between work, family schedules, travel, stress, sleep changes, and hormones doing their own thing, many w...

Magic makers, if you've been feeling "off" even though you're doing ALL the things, this Fit Girl Magic episode is for you. I sit down with Dr. Nayan Patel to talk about glutathione, the antioxidant your doctor probably never mentioned, but should have. Dr. Patel calls it the third most crucial element your body needs, right after air and water. Yeah, it's THAT important. Think of it as your body'...

Before you jump into another fat loss phase… I want us to pause for a second. Because if dieting has "almost worked" for you the last five years… why do you feel like you need to start over again? In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I'm calling out one of the biggest midlife mistakes I see on repeat: Most women don't have a fat loss problem. They have a readiness problem. You might be sitting...

Alright, Magic Makers… we are going there today. Intermittent fasting. Some people swear by it. Some people swear at it. And most midlife women are stuck in the middle wondering: 👉 Should I be skipping breakfast?👉 Is fasting helping my metabolism… or quietly stressing my body out?👉 And why does everything feel harder after 40? In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I'm joined by registered dietitian a...

For years, you did what you were told. Eat less. Move more. More cardio. Smaller portions. Be disciplined. And for a while? It worked. Until it didn't. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I'm sharing my own story as a former fitness competitor who spent nine years controlling every bite, every rep, every inch of my body… and what happened when menopause knocked me flat and the old strategies stopped w...

Okay, let's be honest. You missed a day and your brain immediately went to "welp, guess I blew it" and now you're starting over for the 47th time this year. Yeah, we're stopping that today. This is bonus episode #1 supporting the Doable 26 - a 26-day habit experiment where you test one simple habit per day to find the 1-3 that actually fit YOUR life (not your trainer's, not your coworker's who lov...

If you're over 40 and thinking, "Why does nothing work the way it used to?" this Fit Girl Magic episode is going to hit. Today I'm joined by Emily Kaplan, co-founder of MetFix and the Broken Science Initiative, and we're pulling back the curtain on what's actually going on with midlife health, metabolism, hormones, and why the old advice is failing so many women. We talk about why trainers often k...

Ever notice how the more rules you add… the faster everything falls apart? Yeah. Same. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I'm continuing the Doable 26 conversation and calling out the real reason most women over 40 feel "stuck" with their health. Psst.... it's not lack of discipline. It's doing too damn much. This isn't a how-to episode. It's a permission slip. We're talking about why: Checking all t...

This is Part 2 of Doable 26, where we go deeper into why doing less actually works. If you want the backstory, Part 1 pairs perfectly with this episode. In this one, we're getting real about why "good habits" don't stick. It's not because you're lazy or inconsistent. It's because you're trying to do too much. We're talking about: Why checking all the boxes keeps you stuck How intensity pretends to...