Find Your Feminine Fire

What if nourishment wasn't just about food… but about vitality, pleasure, devotion, and the way we love ourselves? In this deeply nourishing conversation, Amanda is joined by Leigh Senna , founder of KitchenWise, Appalachian homesteader, former women's coach, and creator of  The Cook Along: Rebel Home Ec for Grown-Ass Women. Together, they explore why the kitchen , a place so many women experience...

What's in it for him when it comes to relationship work? In this episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast , Amanda is joined by her husband, Dr. Mark Testa, for an honest conversation about why many men feel hesitant, resistant, or uninterested in "working on the relationship",  and why it may be one of the most impactful choices they can make. Together, they explore: Why relationship work o...

Have you ever looked at your partner and thought: We're fine… but I don't feel in love the way I used to. In this episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast , Amanda Testa shares why so many loving, committed couples slowly drift apart, and what  actually brings desire, closeness, and joy back online. This episode is for you if: You miss feeling butterflies, tingles, or desire You love your pa...

Is menopause a breakdown or a breakthrough? In this paradigm-shifting conversation, Amanda sits down with Red School founders Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer to explore menopause as a sacred rite of passage, not a crisis. Drawing from their book, Wise Power, they offer a radical reframing of the menopausal journey—one rooted in purpose, sovereignty, and deep inner leadership. What you'll...

If you've ever felt like pleasure isn't accessible to you anymore—or maybe never truly was—this episode will change how you see everything. In this inspiring and unfiltered conversation, Amanda is joined by somatic wellness educator and retreat leader Pamela Madsen to explore the true power of erotic reawakening at every age. Pamela shares the realities of helping thousands of women reclaim desire...

Are you navigating perimenopause, menopause, or other midlife transitions and feeling disconnected from your sexuality?  In this illuminating episode, Amanda speaks with world-renowned sexologist Dr. Juliana Hauser about experiencing this chapter not as a decline, but as one of your most sexually sovereign yet. Dr. Hauser shares her personal journey through a hysterectomy, introduces the concept o...

What happens when you climb the ladder of success, check all the boxes, and still feel completely disconnected from yourself? In this raw and hilarious conversation, Amanda sits down with Erin Keating—creator of the Hotter Than Ever podcast—to talk midlife reinvention, sexual reclamation, and what it really takes to stop abandoning yourself. Erin shares her unfiltered story of awakening after a se...

What does it really feel like to navigate midlife when everything around—and inside—you is changing? In this honest, unfiltered solo episode, Amanda shares what's been real in her world lately. From the physical and emotional shifts of perimenopause to the grief of disconnection and the power of reclaiming pleasure, this conversation is both confessional and comforting. Amanda explores what it mea...

Could your pelvic floor be the hidden key to better sex, less pain, and more energy? In this empowering episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm joined by pelvic health expert and creator of the Cooch Ball, Jana Danielson, to explore how reconnecting with your pelvic bowl can help you reclaim your vitality, confidence, and turn-on. We talk about what's really going on with pelvic floor dysfunction—...

What if your body was not just your personal compass—but a radical force for collective healing and change?   In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm joined by the incredible Nadia Munla—master embodiment teacher, speaker, and creator of Embody by Nadia™. With nearly two decades of experience guiding women into deeper sensuality, sovereignty, and self-expression, Nadia is a true p...

In this special Best Of episode, we're returning to one of the most foundational and powerful topics Amanda has ever covered—what it really means to find your Feminine Fire. 🔥 What is Feminine Fire, and why is it essential for every woman? 🔥 How burnout, people-pleasing, and disconnection dull our inner spark 🔥 The truth about sexuality as a sacred life force (and not a shameful taboo) 🔥 Amand...

I'm beyond thrilled to welcome back to the pod, the brilliant Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of the groundbreaking books "Come As You Are" and her newest release "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections." In this intimate and enlightening episode, Emily breaks down what it really takes to maintain a vibrant sexual connection in long-term relationships – and it might...

What if the key to a thriving relationship isn't better communication—but better agreements? In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm joined by relationship guide and executive coach Krista Van Derveer to explore how creating soul-aligned, explicit agreements can bring more clarity, connection, and purpose into your partnership. Krista and her partner turned their 24 agreements int...

Ever find yourself in a cycle of nitpicking and low-grade arguments with your partner? You're not alone. In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, Amanda Testa shares why couples fall into the bickering trap—and how to break free. With real-life stories, expert insights, and somatic wisdom, you'll learn:  ✨ The nervous system's role in repetitive arguments ✨ How to interrupt the "fight loop" w...

Feeling more like roommates than lovers? You're not alone—and you're not stuck. This week on the pod, Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm sharing 3 simple but powerful shifts to help you and your partner regain the spark, fun, and desire you've been missing. ✨ How to create a summer vision for your relationship ✨ Why protecting your time is a radical act of love ✨ Why you must reconnect outside the be...

What if there's nothing wrong with loving how you look—and everything wrong with a culture that shames you for it? In this fiery and empowering episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I sit down with feminist author, speaker, and expert witness Leora Tanenbaum to unpack the truth behind slut shaming, sexual self-expression, and how we can raise the next generation with more freedom and less fear. Leor...

What if the key to more joy, connection, and beauty in your life isn't doing more—but doing it differently? In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm joined by award-winning author, poet, and spiritual teacher Judith Valente for a conversation that feels like a deep exhale. We explore what it means to live with intention, reverence, and presence in a culture that glorifies speed and p...

What if betrayal didn't have to be the end of your relationship? In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I sit down with therapist and bestselling author Dr. Monique Thompson to talk about what it really takes to rebuild emotional safety and connection after trust has been broken. Whether you're recovering from infidelity, navigating emotional betrayal, or just feeling distant in your relation...

How to Choose Yourself and Live Your Yes with Megan Walrod What if everything you've been searching for starts with choosing yourself? In this week's Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode, I'm joined by author and coach Megan Walrod for a conversation that's both deeply inspiring and refreshingly real. Megan's new book, It's Always Been Me, is part beach read, part soul retrieval—and it's sparki...

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by all the advice about what you "should" be doing to keep your relationship hot and healthy as you age, you're not alone. In this fiery and refreshingly real episode, Amanda Testa shares why you actually can "half-ass" your way into better intimacy—and why tiny, consistent shifts often create far more connection than trying to Type-A your way into a perfect sex lif...

What if your lack of desire has nothing to do with hormones… and everything to do with swallowed rage? In this week's Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode, I'm diving deep into a truth I see over and over again with my clients: it's not that you're broken—it's that you've been holding everything inside. That unspoken "no" becomes disconnection. That silenced scream becomes numbness. And all of...

In this week's pod we are diving into a topic that so many of my listeners are navigating right now—what happens to your relationship after the kids leave the house? If you've been feeling like your partner is more like a roommate than a lover lately… if there's emotional distance, low desire, or just a lack of spark… This episode is your invitation to shift from empty nest mode into a full-blown...

Midlife is a wild ride. One minute I feel grounded and radiant, the next I'm wondering what the hell I'm doing with my life (usually while wiping dog puke off the couch at 5am). Sound familiar? In this solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it really means to feel sexy in the midst of changing hormones, shifting identities, and those "WTF is happening?" moments. If you've been feeling...

Do you ever feel like you have it all together—until life throws a curveball and suddenly, an unexpected part of you takes over? Maybe it's the part that gets overwhelmed, lashes out, or shrinks down. What if instead of fighting these parts of yourself, you could work with them, integrate them, and reclaim your full power? In this episode, I'm thrilled to welcome Brittany Hopkins Switlick, a seaso...

What if you could build a wildly successful business, stay deeply resourced, and fully embrace your magic without sacrificing your values or burning out? If you've ever felt like success and sustainability are at odds, this week's Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode is for you. I sat down with one of my fave mentors, Rachael Maddox, Oracle Business Witch, bestselling author, and guide for visi...