Find Your Feminine Fire

Do you struggle to talk to your partner about sex without feeling awkward or afraid of rejection? You're not alone. Even the most confident, high-achieving women can freeze up when it comes to expressing their desires. In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire , I'm sharing practical tools and word-for-word scripts to help you navigate these conversations with confidence, clarity, and ease—withou...

In this intimate and powerful episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, host Amanda Testa brings you inside a special conversation with accomplished VITA Sex, Love and Relationship coaches as they explore how sacred sexuality can transform partnerships and personal growth. 🌟 Episode Highlights: What sacred sexuality really means and how it differs from conventional views of intimacy How sac...

Are you a high-achieving woman who feels like you're hustling hard but still feeling drained? Maybe you're crushing it in corporate, running your own business, or juggling life as a busy mom - but something still feels off? Today's episode is going to completely transform how you think about success, love, and making decisions. I'm sitting down with the incredible Allie Kuhland, a certified life c...

What if reclaiming your pleasure was the key to unlocking your deepest confidence, your most powerful leadership, and your greatest success? In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire , host Amanda Testa dives into a conversation that is more urgent than ever— why reclaiming your sexuality isn't just about feeling good, but about reclaiming your power. For centuries, women have been conditioned to...

Want to know the secret to avoiding petty fights and deepening intimacy i n your relationship? In this week's Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast I'm joined by my husband Dr. Mark Testa, and we explore two powerful relationship tools that have been creating more harmony in our relationship: grace and mercy. Learn the true definitions of these transformative concepts (beyond their religious context) an...

Ever feel like the world is spinning out of control and you just can't get your footing? This raw and real conversation with business mentor Carrie Koh dives into exactly what to do in those moments when you feel powerless, stuck, or just plain overwhelmed. In this intimate and unfiltered episode, we explore: • Why having multiple support people (not just your partner!) is crucial for staying empo...

Have you ever noticed those couples who seem to radiate passion and connection, even after years together? Meanwhile, others slowly drift into roommate status, wondering where their spark disappeared to. As a Sex and Relationship Coach for over a decade, I've discovered something surprising: the smallest shifts often create the biggest transformations in relationships. And the best part? These shi...

In this episode, I dive deep into how connecting with your pleasure and sexual energy can become your most powerful tool for manifesting wealth and abundance. I share: • My personal journey from burnout and hustle to discovering the power of pleasure-led manifestation • Why traditional "push harder" business strategies often lead to overwhelm • The science behind why pleasure makes us more magneti...

In this week's powerful episode, we dive deep into manifestation - but not in the way you might expect. Whether you're tired of doing all the "right" manifesting things without results, or you're a high achiever who's mastered external success but still feels something missing, this episode will transform your approach to creating what you desire. Listen in to discover: Why traditional manifestati...

What if the key to a more fulfilling relationship isn't about changing your man, but understanding a hidden dynamic that most women miss? In this transformative episode, MIT scientist turned relationship expert Dr. Jessica Gold shares her groundbreaking approach to creating lasting connection with the men in our lives. Drawing from both scientific research and real-world experience, Dr. Gold revea...

In this deeply inspiring episode, I sit down with the magnetic Linda Prystawska to explore what it truly means to age with Eros - and it's so much more than you might think! Linda shares her remarkable journey from theater actor to embodiment coach, catalyzed by a pandemic-era "f*ck yes" moment that changed everything. Her story proves it's never too late to reinvent yourself and step into your fu...

Feeling overwhelmed by the endless holiday to-do lists? Craving more connection and joy, but barely have time to breathe? Here's the truth: The magic of the season isn't in perfect decorations or Pinterest-worthy gatherings. It's in those small, delicious moments that are already woven into your days – if you know how to access them. In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm sharing 5...

Are you ready to transform your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner? In this intimate episode, I'm joined by my husband Mark to discuss how sacred sexuality practices have revolutionized our marriage and can do the same for you. In this episode, we explore: Why sacred sexuality isn't about marathon tantric sessions, but rather about deepening authentic connection How to move...

Ever feel like you're the only one struggling to keep it all together? Like everyone else has their life perfectly curated while you're just trying to make it through another day of anxiety, overthinking, and that nagging feeling that you should be "doing better"? I have a gift for you. This week on the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, I sat down with accidental poet JK Kennedy, who turned her dar...

In this soul-nourishing episode, I sit down with my dear friend Casey Aksoy to explore how something as simple as our breath can transform our relationship with pleasure, presence, and power. As busy women and mothers, we often find ourselves running on empty, disconnected from our bodies and our desires. Casey shares how conscious breathwork can be our pathway back to embodied wisdom and sensual...

Are you ready to finally break free from the patterns holding you back from authentic pleasure and confidence? In this episode, I'm unpacking the often-hidden role of "Good Girl" conditioning—the messages telling us to stay small, to please others, and to suppress our true desires. You'll discover how this conditioning not only impacts our relationships and self-worth but deeply affects our experi...

I'm beyond thrilled to welcome back to the pod, the brilliant Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of the groundbreaking books " Come As You Are " and her newest release " Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections ." In this intimate and enlightening episode, Emily breaks down what it really takes to maintain a vibrant sexual connection in long-term relationships – and it m...

In this episode, I'm diving into something we all need to be talking about: workaholism and how it's blocking your sensuality and joy . Overworking doesn't just take a toll on your schedule; it sneaks into your personal life, dims your pleasure, and even messes with your creativity and sex life . As high-achieving women, we're often juggling so many creative projects, a business that we're passion...

If you're aching to feel madly alive, deeply empowered and wildly magnetic, but you've been too afraid to explore your "dark" desires - or too damn busy - then you need to devour the latest Find Your Feminine Fire episode stat. This week I'm talking kink, pleasure and power with my friend and somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Faith Laux, a former "good girl" turned pioneering thought leader on a...

In this episode, I'm talking with Kelly Noble, a quantum business coach and wealth activator, about helping women claim the wealth they deserve. Kelly opens up about her journey from the high-pressure corporate world, how she overcame personal challenges, and now helps women activate wealth on all levels.  We dive into the idea of "getting paid just for being you," using personal stories, visualiz...

In this episode of the *Find Your Feminine Fire* podcast, Amanda talks about how important it is to find moments of pleasure, even when the world or your personal life feels tough. She explains that pleasure isn't just a nice thing to have, but actually helps with healing from trauma by building resilience.  Amanda shares simple, body-based practices that can calm the nervous system, focusing on s...

Are you approaching or experiencing menopause and feeling confused, overwhelmed, or even a bit scared? This episode is your beacon of hope and empowerment. Prepare to have your perspective completely revolutionized as we explore menopause not as a crisis, but as a sacred rite of passage into leadership, power, and profound transformation. In this episode, I'm thrilled to introduce you to two visio...

In this week's powerful conclusion to our six-part pod series on sex, creativity, and power, we're diving deep into the profound connection between sexuality, creativity, and spirituality. As women who've achieved so much in our careers, it's easy to neglect our intimate lives and creative expression. But I'm here to tell you - rekindling that fire is not just possible, it's essential for your ove...

In this episode, Amanda talks about the importance of deeper self-care that really taps into your sexual energy, creativity, and personal power. She explores how taking care of yourself in a more sensual way can help you connect better with yourself, your loved ones, and your community. Amanda also touches on the need to create supportive spaces and rituals for expressing your sexuality and creati...

In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, we dive deep into the critical topic of shame resilience and its impact on our sexual and creative expression.  Listen in as we explore how to create safe spaces for authentic self-expression and build unshakeable self-trust in the 4th episode of our 6 part series on Sex, Creativity and Power.  Episode Highlights: How to create a physical space fo...