Find Love With Emily

Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men&nb...

Dating apps can really suck 😝 Especially if you’ve been swiping away for years … and all they’ve got you are men who disappoint you, average dates that go nowhere and conversations that feel like hard work. I get why you’d hate dating apps. I used to feel the same way.  But what if they’re not the actual problem?! ...it's how we're using them!?!? 💡 There was a point I got to when I was sing...

Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available me...

Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks... While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later? You're wondering what happened. What you did "wrong". Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said. Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been 💔 Whether you're struggling to move on...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

For sure, dating can royally suck 😫 It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak. You get your hopes up. Put yourself out there. Try to say positive. And then you always end up back at “square one”. It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is. That finding love is HARD. The struggle is just part of the process. …but what if that isn’t actually true?...

You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single?? Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣 And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your in...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

When you want love but you’ve been single for years … You’ve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice… It can feel like you’re “doomed to be single”. For real 💔😔 All you want is to know if love it’s meant for you. If it’s still possible. So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going. Often the hardest part of being single,...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

Dating can feel scary. Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions. But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 🫣 Let your guard down. Believe they're who they say they are. And hope you've got it right 🤞 What if you miss the red flags? What if you trust the wrong man? What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishing you'd list...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

How do you find love when you absolutely hate or just don’t want to use dating apps? When they make you feel judged, exhausted, hopeless or like finding love has somehow turned into one giant meat market?? Maybe you deleted and redownloaded the apps 100 times. Maybe you force yourself back on them because you feel like you “should.” Or because you’re scared if you don’t, you’ll never meet your per...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

It’s not like you haven’t tried… You’ve followed all the dating advice. You’ve tried healing your “anxious attachment”. You’ve been more in your feminine energy. You’ve swiped on the apps. You’ve treated dating like a “numbers game”. You’ve done your best to stay position. You’ve even tried to stop caring. …so WHY THE F🤬 does love still feel so hard to find?!?! These are the BIG question this epi...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

If you’re a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you… This episode is for you. There’s a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place... Your friends are married. Having babies. Established lives with their partners. Meanwhile you’re trying your best to hold onto the hope of lo...

Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing… 👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do: Swipe on apps Play “hard to get” Be less anxiously attac...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing… 👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do: Swipe on apps Play “hard to get” Be less anxiously attac...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

This is one of the most frustrating dating patterns for single women over 30… You meet a man you actually like... There’s chemistry. You see potential. But it never actually becomes something real 😔 He seems into you when you’re together… But when you’re not? It’s no plans. Minimal effort. Just enough to keep you interested. And so without really realizing, you pick up the slack. You reach out. P...

There’s a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel… That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much. You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you. Easily, naturally, because he wants to. Because he wants you. And when you still don’t have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave. Most women think that...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note , I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding lov...

There are women who find love easily… And then there’s your experience 💔 ✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice. ✔️ You’re swiping on apps. ✔️ In your “feminine energy”. ✔️ Playing hard to get. ✔️ Trying really hard. And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend. This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will. Because the rea...