Find Love With Emily

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If you’re thinking about taking a break from dating because you cannot face swiping on another dating app, forcing yourself through another boring talking stage or dealing with the aftermath of another first date that goes nowhere... I get it. You’re tired of getting your hopes up, putting in the effort, and never getting any closer to finding love. Dating can really suck! And so if you want to ta...

If you’re exhausted by dating, doing everything you’re told to do and STILL not getting any closer to finding a real relationship, this episode is for you. Because there’s a huge difference between being busy dating and actually creating momentum towards love. Swiping more. Changing dating apps. Rewriting your profile. Trying another dating strategy. Working on your attachment style. Trying to say...

If you’re single and desperately want a relationship, being told to “just be happy being single” can feel pretty freaking annoying. Because you might already have an incredible life... Amazing friends and family, a career you love, a cozy home, plenty of things you genuinely enjoy doing. And yet underneath all of that, there’s still this relationship-sized hole in your life with a whole lotta sadn...

If you’ve been dating for years and love still hasn’t happened, there are ways you could be holding yourself back from love without having any idea you’re doing it. And this is happening all the bloody time. Because there are certain things you say about yourself when it comes to men, dating and love that might seem completely true based on your experience so far. “I never get past a first date.”...

If you’re a single woman dating in your 30s, 40s or 50s, you’ve probably noticed just how much negativity there is around dating, men and finding love. Dating apps are awful. Men only want sex. Romance is dead. Finding a good man after 30 is impossible. It's EVERYWHERE. And if you want to find love, you need to start noticing how much of it you’re letting into your world. In this episode of Find L...

Finding love can feel like one, exhausting long fight you never win. It can feel so unfair when you think about how much love you have to give. And that you're not asking for anything ridiculous, or what other people don't have. You just want a loving, committed relationship with a man who actually shows up for you. A relationship where you can just relax. But for some reason, who you are and what...

If you’ve spent years trying to figure out how to find love, there’s a good chance you’ve also consumed a LOT of dating advice. Which dating app should you use? Should you message first? How do you get past the talking stage? How do you get a man to actually ask you out? Should you be more in your feminine energy, less anxiously attached, play it cool, stop trying so hard? How do you "put yourself...

Are you trying too hard to find love… or are you actually not doing enough? Both can leave you in exactly the same place... Still single, still exhausted and frustrated by dating, unsure why you never get any closer to love and having absolutely no idea what you're meant to do differently. Are you supposed to "put yourself" out there more, meet more men, get on more dates?! Or is love simply going...

If you’re single in your 30s or 40s, it probably feels like love's only getting harder for you to find. The dating pool is smaller. All the decent men are already taken. Men want younger women. It's harder to meet people. And after years of being single, dating the wrong men or watching seemingly everyone else find their person, it can start to feel less like a fear and more like a FACT... That fi...

Does it feel like finding love is hard because you're over 30, over 40? That there were more decent men to date when you were in your 20s? Dating was easier? You chances of finding love were better then? And now that you're in your 30s or 40s, it feels like you chance of meeting the right man and finding love are getting slimmer by the second? And 100%, you've got PLENTY of evidence that says yes,...

If you've got a crush on a man and you're wondering… Does he like me? Is he actually interested? Is there something here… or am I imagining it? Maybe it's the guy at the gym. Someone you work with. A friend. The man you see every morning getting coffee. There are glances. Smiles. Conversations that feel like something. And meanwhile, you've already imagined approximately 47 different versions of y...

If you're meeting men, getting matches, having conversations and going on 1st, 2nd maybe even 3rd dates but... It ends there and you NEVER the actual relationship 🤯 Hit play on this episode now! Because the answer isn’t getting better at dating. It’s not about learning what to say, how to act, when to text, how to keep him interested or how to finally get a man to commit. In this episode, I give...

If you just want to meet the right man, but in the back of your mind you're constantly thinking about: How, where and when you're going to meet him. And what else you could be doing to to finally find him... Hit play on this episode now! Because you know, that even if you focus on yourself, build a life you love, take up all kinds of new hobbies, say yes to every opportunity, even take a break fro...

If you’ve been trying to find love for YEARS , there comes a point where you genuinely don’t know what else you’re supposed to do. You’ve worked on yourself. You’ve used the dating apps. You’ve put yourself "out there". You’ve followed the advice, healed the patterns, tried to stay positive and kept going even after yet another promising man disappeared. And still… you’re single. So what the actua...

You can meet men. You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential … But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship. So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong. Do you need to choose better men? Be less available? Play it cooler? Change your profile? Be more in your feminine energy? Finally fix...

If you've been trying to find love for YEARS ... You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want... You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible. It's still worth holding onto hope for. When finding love hasn't happe...

Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love? Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps. You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere. Tried of disappointing dates. Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't. It feels like you've tried everything already to find love. All the dating strat...

Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for... ✅ He's kind ✅ Emotionally available ✅ You feel safe around him ✅ He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet. But there's just no spark? No chemisty. 0 physical attraction 😐 So now what??! Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows? Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person? This exact question c...

If you've ever called yourself anxiously attached, chances are you've also spent MANY months trying to heal it. You’ve read the books. Followed all the experts. Tried distracting yourself. Keeping yourself busy with new hobbies and friends. Hid your phone. Worked on becoming more “secure”. And yet somehow… You’re still caught up in the same exhausting cycle of overthinking, waiting, worrying, cons...

If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance… You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. It’s a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why the...

What doesn’t dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship you’ve always wanted? Why does it always end at date 2 or 3… if that?! If you’re stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential. The first date goes well. The second date feels even better. You get kinda excited! 🥳 And then… He pulls away. Says he isn’t looking for anything serious. Ghosts you. Or things simply fiz...

I’ve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly? Not every woman who joins finds love 🫣 I’ve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers. But this doesn't happen for everyone. And so I’ve spent the last year asking… WHY?   It's not because what I teach in AYM doesn’t work. It's not because there’s a lack of the right men. It's not because dating’s chan...

Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men&nb...

If the fact that you’re still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love. As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice… While it makes logical sense, it...