F*ck Your High Vibes

Everybody’s in a rush to wrap it up, move on, and call it done. But what if we’re coming too soon, leaving the moment before it’s fully ripe, before it’s even had the dignity of completion? In this finale, we’re calling b******t on forced endings, rushed timelines, and the disrespect of moving on from something that’s still very much alive. Summer isn’t over, your process isn’t over, and you damn...

So you feel like the world’s against you and you’re looking for someone to blame? Cool, start with this episode. We’re talking about what that discomfort’s really trying to tell you. No sugarcoating, just truth. Let’s get into it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

In this quick hit, we break down a hard truth most folks skip when it comes to the "secret" of manifestation. No fluff, just facts. Let’s get into it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Let go of what summer made you carry. Let go of the pressure. Let go of the noise. Let go of whatever’s been weighing on you since June. This season is closing. Do it with intention—not exhaustion. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Growth isn’t clean. Transformation isn’t cute. And the version of you who’s falling apart might actually be the one who’s finally coming home. This summer, let it all unravel. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Somewhere along the way, healing became a checklist. This summer break edition is your permission slip to pause. To stop checking boxes. To stop fixing sh*t that was never broken. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

We’re cutting through the spiritual glitter to ask what’s underneath your need to stay light, bright, and unfazed. Feel it. Sit with it. Let that s**t surface. No affirmations required. Just truth, tension, and your full humanity. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

There’s a myth that’s f*cking people up—and it’s dressed in white sage and love & light. The idea that you can out-vibe your pain, out-manifest your trauma, or bypass your way to bliss? That’s not healing. That’s hiding. This episode calls bullsh*t on the spiritual escape hatch. You’re not here to transcend your humanity—you’re here to  live it.   All of it. The mess, the magic, the ache, the...

This summer, we’re not dodging the discomfort—we’re sitting in it. One question, straight to the soul.  No fixing. No rushing. Just space to feel, breathe, and get brutally honest. Because you don’t heal by avoiding the mirror. You ready to face the part of you you’ve been trying to outrun? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episod...

What if your biggest block isn’t your shadow—it’s your scroll? This week, we’re unplugging from all the spiritual noise and tuning back into our own frequency. No memes, no mantras, no one else’s medicine. Just you. Raw, real, and finally clear. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

We’ve been tricked into thinking rest is lazy. It’s not. In this quick summer drop-in, we unpack the guilt, the grind, and why doing nothing might be the most healing thing you do all season. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

This episode breaks the spell. We’re naming the burnout, calling out the performance, and dragging the glittery trap of “doing the work” into the light. Less fixing. More truth. Let’s f*ck up the loop! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Let’s cut the crap: your beauty routine might be more self-abandonment than self-love. Layering on serums to avoid your sadness. Obsessing over anti-aging like getting older is a disease. Drowning your energy field in “clean” products while your spirit’s screaming for rest. In this episode, we’re burning down the beauty BS. This is where skincare meets soul work. Where you stop hiding behind your...

There’s a lot of hollow healing out here—pretty words, big vibes, and zero depth. So down the f*cking rabbit hole we go…In this episode, we’re stripping it all back to explore what a  true  healing moment actually looks like—the what, the how, and the why. From performative empowerment to embodied truth, this is where soul repair begins. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with...

What the hell does  healing  even mean? Seriously. It’s all healing this, healing that—until you ask someone what it really means, and suddenly it’s crickets. So in this episode, I’m answering the question most folks are too afraid to ask—but absolutely thinking. We’re getting real about how the word has been hijacked, sold back to us in pretty packaging, and why the real work isn’t about a vibe—i...

In this episode, we break free from the illusion of “high vibes only” spirituality and challenge the toxic positivity that keeps us trapped in emotional suppression. We explore how the pressure to constantly maintain a positive frequency can create a false sense of security, leaving us exhausted, disconnected, and spiritually disillusioned. By dismantling the fear of "low vibes" and the shame arou...

In this episode of  Fck Your High Vibes , we’re confronting the guilt trap of protecting your space. If you’ve ever been called “negative” for setting boundaries or been guilted into overextending yourself in the name of spirituality, this episode is for you. We break down why protecting your energy isn’t selfish—it’s an act of power and self-respect. From the manipulation of “being available” 24/...

In this unfiltered episode of  Fck Your High Vibes , we’re shattering the myth that awakening is all love and light—because it’s not. True awakening is a chaotic, disruptive process that forces you to confront your conditioning, illusions, and uncomfortable truths. We dive into the spiritual industry's gatekeeping, exposing how it profits from keeping you in the cycle of endless certifications and...

Some spiritual trends are enlightening… and some? Pure chaos. In this  Spiritual Shenanigans  episode, we’re diving into extreme detoxes gone wrong, TikTok witchcraft fails, and the Vibration Olympics—where spiritual flexing reaches new heights. It’s all fun and games until someone hexes the moon (again). This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access...

If your spirituality is only making you feel good but never challenging you, are you really growing—or just bypassing? In this follow-up to  What the F ck is Spiritual Bypassing?* , we’re diving deeper into what spirituality  should be about: accountability, integration, and real transformation. We’ll break down the difference between true spiritual growth and avoidance, explore why facing your sh...

Ever been told to “just stay positive” while your world was falling apart? Yeah, that’s spiritual bypassing—and it’s toxic as hell. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, we’re calling out the fake love-and-light BS, from the manifestation grind to the healing hustle. We’re digging into where it started, how it’s been hijacked by self-help culture, and why it’s time to stop sugarcoating real pai...

The so-called "spiritual community" isn’t always what it seems. In this episode, we expose the  Mainstream Mafia —the system designed to keep you seeking instead of sovereign. From pay-to-play enlightenment to fear-based spiritual hustles, we’re breaking down how this industry profits off your doubt. We also dive into the  Human-Being Divide —the difference between living in survival mode vs. embo...

Welcome to the first episode of  F* ck Your High Vibes! If you’re tired of the “just think positive” crowd and the spiritual hustle that keeps people stuck in emotional avoidance, you’re in the right place. In this episode, we’re breaking down why this podcast exists, why the high-vibe-only mindset is a lie, and what it really takes to do the deep work. I’ll share my personal journey through toxic...

You’ve been sold a lie. The high-vibe-only, love-and-light illusion that tells you healing means never feeling the hard stuff.  F*ck that.  Welcome to  F ck Your High Vibes*—where we burn the bullsh*t and get into the real work. If you’re tired of spiritual bypassing, toxic positivity, and people pretending shadow work is just another aesthetic, you’re in the right place. This is your wake-up call...