F*ck Your High Vibes

Not everything that feels strong is guidance. This episode breaks down how emotional activation, urgency, and intensity can be mistaken for intuition, and how to return to grounded discernment. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Fear distorts perception and makes everything feel urgent and true. In this episode of FYHV Summer School, we explore how fear filters reality through the nervous system and how to begin separating fear from actual truth. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

In this month's Cutting Through the BS episode, Nicole explores the beliefs, expectations, and invisible rules that quietly shape our choices without us ever questioning where they came from. Together, we'll examine the stories we've inherited about success, healing, worth, love, and who we're supposed to become. Because once you see a pattern clearly, you don't have to keep obeying it. And that a...

What do you actually want—and is that desire truly yours? In this episode of FYHV, Nicole explores the uncomfortable but honest space between what was and what comes next, where old motivations fade and deeper truths begin to surface. Together, we examine why clarity often starts not with knowing what you want, but with recognizing what no longer fits. If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or d...

We’ve been through something…the question is: what do we do with it now? In this collective vibe check, Nicole explores the energy that has brought us to this moment, the lessons hidden within recent challenges, and how to move forward with greater awareness, honesty, and intention. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visi...

Summer is approaching, the energy is intensifying, and the world feels louder than ever. This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect on the transition from spring into summer, and reconnect with yourself before the noise of the season fully arrives. FYHV Summer School officially begins June 27th with new episodes dropping Saturdays at 11:11 AM EST throughout the summer. Learn how to stay c...

In this Love Chat episode, Nicole Love explores the space between trigger and reaction and how chronic chaos conditions the nervous system to live in urgency, overstimulation, and emotional reactivity. This episode unpacks survival-based responses, conscious awareness, and why calm can feel uncomfortable when chaos has become the baseline. Together we talk about pause, discernment, nervous system...

In this Cutting Through the BS episode, we unpack how chronic chaos, overstimulation, emotional activation, and survival mode quietly begin rewiring your nervous system, perception, and frequency. This truth session explores how chaos becomes a setpoint the body adapts to over time, impacting emotional regulation, intuition, relationships, creativity, and the way we interpret reality itself. We al...

In this episode, we take a deeper look at what a chaos setpoint actually is and how it quietly becomes the baseline your system learns to function within. This conversation explores the mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns that can keep you stuck in cycles of overthinking, reacting, fixing, and constantly feeling activated, even when nothing is technically wrong. I also share a vulnerable re...

In this episode, we pause for a real-time vibe check using an intuitive card pull to reflect on what we’ve just experienced. What came through clearly is this: we’re still operating from a chaos setpoin t , not just externally, but in how we process and respond. This conversation invites honesty about your emotional reactions, the patterns being revealed, and where you may still be participating i...

In this Season 2 opener of  F* ck Your High Vibes, Nicole shares a moment she had to face the truth - she caused harm. This episode explores the deeper reality that self-hate doesn’t stay internal; it spills onto others in ways we don’t always want to admit. Through real reflection and accountability, you’re invited to look at a time you hurt someone and uncover what within you was out of balance....

As part of the  Calling Out the BS   monthly call out, this episode cuts through nervous system regulation culture and reframes dysregulation as information, not failure. If you’re tired of forcing calm and ready to actually listen to your body, this one’s for you. Regulation isn’t about staying calm, it’s about staying connected. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other...

In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love breaks down the stress loop in healing culture , where you’re constantly processing, releasing, and chasing the next breakthrough without real resolution. This conversation challenges the idea that more healing always equals growth and calls out how the cycle can keep you stuck in activation. Because sometimes it’s not healing… it’s looping. And...

In this episode of  F* ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love explores the tension between stillness and the constant pressure to do more in spirituality. This conversation invites you to question whether your practices are actually supporting your life or if they’ve quietly turned into another way of staying busy. Because sometimes growth doesn’t come from adding another ritual. Sometimes the real pract...

What if you stopped trying to fix yourself? In this episode of  F* ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love cuts through the bullsh*t of the self-help and spiritual growth industry to explore our attachment to constant healing, personal development, and “doing the work.” When the rituals, modalities, and practices fall away, one question remains:  Who are you without the fix? This is a public episode. If y...

If this month felt heavy, tangled, or confronting, this grounded tarot-style energy forecast helps you release what’s done and move forward with clarity, forgiveness, and intention. In this monthly energy reading + vibe check, we pull cards to uncover the dominant emotional pattern, what kept repeating, and why it hit the way it did. This isn’t about prediction. It’s about pattern recognition, emo...

In this episode of  Cut Through the BS , Nicole unpacks the nervous system dynamics behind aesthetic routines, soft living culture, and performative healing. If you’ve confused alignment with aesthetics, calm with safety, or gratitude with bypassing grief, this conversation brings you back to embodiment, emotional honesty, and real nervous system regulation, towards greater love of life. This is a...

Heartbreak doesn’t always look like grief. Sometimes it looks like independence, guardedness, high standards, or emotional distance. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what happens when heartbreak isn’t finished, how the nervous system adapts, how protection becomes personality, and how unresolved pain quietly shapes the way we love, withdraw, and relate. This is a public...

Heartbreak doesn’t just hurt emotionally, it hits the body first. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what’s actually happening in your nervous system during heartbreak: why your chest tightens, your mind loops, and “just moving on” feels impossible. This isn’t about fixing your feelings or forcing a lesson, it’s about understanding emotional loss as a safety response and w...

Nicole guides you through reconnecting with the wisdom beyond the mind, helping you stop overthinking, stop forcing clarity, and access the inner authority already held within you, without hype or pressure. This episode includes a January energy reading, breaking down the energetic shifts beneath the noise, why distractions pull at your focus, and how the mind processes change when the new shows u...

This episode launches the  Cutting Through the BS  series by breaking down why New Year’s resolutions fall apart, how motivation gets mistaken for readiness, and why giving up early is often a sign the system wasn’t built for real life. Nicole cuts through resolution culture to help you stop internalizing failure, stop restarting from scratch, and build change that actually fits your life, without...

The world is loud and chaotic, and this episode isn’t about escaping it. It’s about coming back home to yourself inside it. Nicole explores why waiting for calm is a trap, how joy and presence still exist in uncertain times, and what it means to reconnect without bypassing reality or forcing positivity. This is an invitation to stop outsourcing your permission to live and remember that meeting you...

This episode breaks down your  personal year in numerology , how it interacts with the global reset, and why you may be feeling changes you can’t quite name. Nicole gives you  hands-on clarity, accountability, and tools to step into the year with intention , so you stop guessing, stop repeating old patterns, and actually walk your energy. 2026 is here, and your energy is already shifting. This is...

2026 isn’t easing us in, it’s calling us up. In this episode, Nicole breaks down why discernment is the defining skill of a Universal Year 1, how the Fool’s Journey mirrors the collective leap humanity is being asked to take, and why clarity, not comfort, sets the tone for the next nine years. This is a real-time initiation into conscious choice, energetic responsibility, and learning how to tell...

This hands-on episode guides you through identifying the patterns, beliefs, and survival strategies you’re ready to unlearn from 2025. You’ll pull your own truths, feel what no longer serves you, and step into a guided visualization to release these old patterns for good. By the end, you’ll walk away lighter, clearer, and fully ready to step into 2026 without dragging the past behind you. This is...