F*ck Your High Vibes

As part of the  Calling Out the BS   monthly call out, this episode cuts through nervous system regulation culture and reframes dysregulation as information, not failure. If you’re tired of forcing calm and ready to actually listen to your body, this one’s for you. Regulation isn’t about staying calm, it’s about staying connected. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other...

In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love breaks down the stress loop in healing culture , where you’re constantly processing, releasing, and chasing the next breakthrough without real resolution. This conversation challenges the idea that more healing always equals growth and calls out how the cycle can keep you stuck in activation. Because sometimes it’s not healing… it’s looping. And...

In this episode of  F* ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love explores the tension between stillness and the constant pressure to do more in spirituality. This conversation invites you to question whether your practices are actually supporting your life or if they’ve quietly turned into another way of staying busy. Because sometimes growth doesn’t come from adding another ritual. Sometimes the real pract...

What if you stopped trying to fix yourself? In this episode of  F* ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love cuts through the bullsh*t of the self-help and spiritual growth industry to explore our attachment to constant healing, personal development, and “doing the work.” When the rituals, modalities, and practices fall away, one question remains:  Who are you without the fix? This is a public episode. If y...

If this month felt heavy, tangled, or confronting, this grounded tarot-style energy forecast helps you release what’s done and move forward with clarity, forgiveness, and intention. In this monthly energy reading + vibe check, we pull cards to uncover the dominant emotional pattern, what kept repeating, and why it hit the way it did. This isn’t about prediction. It’s about pattern recognition, emo...

In this episode of  Cut Through the BS , Nicole unpacks the nervous system dynamics behind aesthetic routines, soft living culture, and performative healing. If you’ve confused alignment with aesthetics, calm with safety, or gratitude with bypassing grief, this conversation brings you back to embodiment, emotional honesty, and real nervous system regulation, towards greater love of life. This is a...

Heartbreak doesn’t always look like grief. Sometimes it looks like independence, guardedness, high standards, or emotional distance. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what happens when heartbreak isn’t finished, how the nervous system adapts, how protection becomes personality, and how unresolved pain quietly shapes the way we love, withdraw, and relate. This is a public...

Heartbreak doesn’t just hurt emotionally, it hits the body first. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what’s actually happening in your nervous system during heartbreak: why your chest tightens, your mind loops, and “just moving on” feels impossible. This isn’t about fixing your feelings or forcing a lesson, it’s about understanding emotional loss as a safety response and w...

Nicole guides you through reconnecting with the wisdom beyond the mind, helping you stop overthinking, stop forcing clarity, and access the inner authority already held within you, without hype or pressure. This episode includes a January energy reading, breaking down the energetic shifts beneath the noise, why distractions pull at your focus, and how the mind processes change when the new shows u...

This episode launches the  Cutting Through the BS  series by breaking down why New Year’s resolutions fall apart, how motivation gets mistaken for readiness, and why giving up early is often a sign the system wasn’t built for real life. Nicole cuts through resolution culture to help you stop internalizing failure, stop restarting from scratch, and build change that actually fits your life, without...

The world is loud and chaotic, and this episode isn’t about escaping it. It’s about coming back home to yourself inside it. Nicole explores why waiting for calm is a trap, how joy and presence still exist in uncertain times, and what it means to reconnect without bypassing reality or forcing positivity. This is an invitation to stop outsourcing your permission to live and remember that meeting you...

This episode breaks down your  personal year in numerology , how it interacts with the global reset, and why you may be feeling changes you can’t quite name. Nicole gives you  hands-on clarity, accountability, and tools to step into the year with intention , so you stop guessing, stop repeating old patterns, and actually walk your energy. 2026 is here, and your energy is already shifting. This is...

2026 isn’t easing us in, it’s calling us up. In this episode, Nicole breaks down why discernment is the defining skill of a Universal Year 1, how the Fool’s Journey mirrors the collective leap humanity is being asked to take, and why clarity, not comfort, sets the tone for the next nine years. This is a real-time initiation into conscious choice, energetic responsibility, and learning how to tell...

This hands-on episode guides you through identifying the patterns, beliefs, and survival strategies you’re ready to unlearn from 2025. You’ll pull your own truths, feel what no longer serves you, and step into a guided visualization to release these old patterns for good. By the end, you’ll walk away lighter, clearer, and fully ready to step into 2026 without dragging the past behind you. This is...

Trauma-informed care is being tossed around like a buzzword, but most people don’t really get it, and that can hurt you. In this episode, we break down the  real meaning, red flags, and nervous system truths  behind trauma-informed practice. Learn why  discernment is self-love  and how to protect your energy, story, and healing in a culture that often confuses trend with truth. This is a public ep...

The world feels chaotic, but the real battle is inside your own mind. I break down Emmet Fox’s concept of mental war, show how it shows up in your life, and unveil the four warriors answering the call. Which one is awakening within you? Only you can decide. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com...

Healing is sold like a glow-up, but the truth is: it gets messier, louder, and more uncomfortable before anything actually shifts. In this episode, Nicole shares a raw story of having a night terror  because  her body finally felt safe enough to release what it had been holding. If you’ve ever wondered why things feel harder the moment you start healing, this conversation breaks down the biology,...

When your body stops agreeing with your mind, it’s not breaking down, it’s protecting you. Every ache, pause, and “I can’t” is your system saying, “we’re out of sync.” In this episode, Nicole gets real about what happens when you stop pushing through and start listening to the truth your body’s been trying to tell you all along. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other su...

You’re doing all the “right” things, but still feel flat, numb, or disconnected? That’s spiritual dehydration. Nicole shows how to recognize energy leaks, hydrate your spirit, and restore your nervous system so you can show up fully, without forcing high vibes or pretending everything’s fine. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus epis...

We weren’t taught boundaries, but it’s time we learn. Your energy depends on it. In this episode, Nicole explores how missing boundaries drain your vibe, tax your nervous system, and keep you out of alignment. She gets real about teaching ourselves what we were never taught, why awareness changes everything, and how to set boundaries without guilt, shame, or fear. This is a public episode. If you'...

Your shadow isn’t the enemy, it’s the part of you waiting to be seen. Nicole gets real about facing those parts shoved in the dark of yourself without shame, fear, or high-vibe performance, and shows why messy honesty beats polished spirituality every time. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com...

Nicole gets real by showing up on this days episode. It was indeed a day that she was dragging. managed to hit record, showing what that can look like and how important it is to show up in a way that is honest and 100% good enough no matter if your energy is at 5%. In this episode, she unpacks why realness beats polish, and why your energy as it is, is always enough. This is a public episode. If y...

Fall is here, or at least, it’s trying to be. Between pumpkin spice everything, cozy sweaters, and aesthetically alluring photos, the season can feel more like performance than presence. In this episode, we explore uncommon spiritual practices for fall, grounded, messy, woo, hybrid, or even embracing nothing at all. Learn how to meet the season where you are, honor your energy, and let your vibe d...

Romanticizing fall feels good… until it doesn’t. The aesthetics, the cozy-core pressure, the sweaty sweaters, it’s a lot. This week, FYHV unpacks the frauds of fall, the freedom of f*ck-ups, and why your season is valid whether it’s iced coffee, crunchy chaos, or doing nothing at all. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, vi...

We’re unpacking the chaos, the wins, the fails, and the hidden gems of summer 2025. From personal burnout to global fires, slow smolders to dumpster blazes, this episode is all about honoring your season and integrating before moving forward, FYHV style. Pour something iced and let’s recover from vacation mode. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get a...