Fashionably Late

In this episode we answer a FAQ. “How are you two pulling off the move when there’s kids and exes involved?” We talk about the sacrifices we’re both making, and the fights we have fought to make this relocation actually happen.

So many updates, friends! In this episode we fill you in on all the exciting (and time consuming) things that have been goin’ down behind closed doors. The move, the remodel, jobs, etc. There are so many changes happening and each little thing is inching us closer to the finish line. Buckle up, the LD marathon is finally coming to a close.

In this episode we go back to the start-ish of our journey together and talk more intimately about the details surrounding the turning pointing of officially coming out. How we knew that this was no longer a situation that we could pretend or pull a double life about- but instead just say our truth out loud to everyone.. mainly Jeff & Tommy, and what that looked like behind the scenes.

In this episode we chat all about Em’s birthday celebration and the special things Kirby did to make it the best one yet. We give some recent updates regarding the big move & just simply “shoot the shit” on our last day together.

In this episode we go back to the very beginning of it all- 48 episodes ago- and reminisce. Remembering and talking through all the topics, guests, hurdles, growth, trips, etc. It’s been a wild year, and we cannot thank you enough for still being here and sticking with us on this journey. We cannot wait to see what the next year of episodes brings.

In this episode we go back to the very beginning of it all- 48 episodes ago- and reminisce. Remembering and talking through all the topics, guests, hurdles, growth, trips, etc. It’s been a wild year, and we cannot thank you enough for still being here and sticking with us on this journey. We cannot wait to see what the next year of episodes brings.

In this episode we open up about the current struggles we are experiencing behind closed doors. As our marathon inches closer to an end things have been heating up and we have been under a lot of pressure. This last week there were some cracks and we broke just a little. We talk therapy, family/friend support and Kirby opens up more than ever allowing themselves to be vulnerable and raw. **Trigger...

While we were together for our latest trip we played a little game and thought it would be fun to share it with you all- A game of topics. From admitting our fears, places we want to go, sharing some top bucket list items, etc. the conversation ranges from adoption to black widows to the northern lights.. it’s really just never boring with us, friends.

Part 2: Today we chat with a very special friend of ours- Leo! A queer, non-binary spiritual guru of all things- and trust us when we say, the conversation never runs less than DEEP with them. Grateful to have such a solid and educational conversation with this unique and beautiful human.

Today we chat with a very special friend of ours- Leo! A queer, non-binary spiritual guru of all things- and trust us when we say, the conversation never runs less than DEEP with them. Grateful to have such a solid and educational conversation with this unique and beautiful human. Stay tuned for Part 2.

Happy New Year! We brought a special guest on this episode- our top listener, favorite person, best friend... Kirby's brother Jacob. We talk about long distance relationships and how listening to our podcast has helped him in his current LD relationship, we discuss importance of boundaries, creating a queer community and all things surrounding healthy communication in relationships.

Winding down after a long year- what an adventure it has been! Sharing our first year in real time with all of you and showing up every Monday has been a wild ride but we wouldn’t change a single thing! Tune in to hear all about our big trips & updates that we are looking forward to in 2024- it’s going to be the biggest and best year yet! We wish you all the happiest holidays and New Year!

Welcome to episode 42! With recent big events going down we thought it was fitting to open up and talk about how we have both found our voice more and more throughout our coming out journey- how we have allowed ourselves to set boundaries and taught ourselves and each other that healthy boundaries are not only helpful but sometimes necessary in our healing journey.

In this episode we talk all about our 2024 goals, both together and separately. How our lives will merge and what steps we will be taking to (hopefully) make that happen. We discuss Ember’s divorce date, travel plans, fitness goals, etc.

Welcome to our 40th episode! WOW! It’s been quite the year, friends. Today we chat about how we support each other in our coming out journey, both hand in hand and while walking our own paths. We share how as we both go through our own evolutions we continue to find new ways to show each other love & support.

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In this episode we answer a frequently asked question and jump into the topic of obvious signs that we should have picked up on, but never did. What were some things that screamed “YOU’RE NOT STRAIGHT” that we overlooked and how does it feel looking back now, realizing how it was always right there waiting for us to pick up on it.

Part 2: In this episode we dive into non-binary talk. Kirby opens up about where it all started for them. Ember asks unscripted questions, allowing Kirby to open up about what their journey has looked like - the reactions, feelings and changes surrounding it - even discussing how the conversation came up between the two of them.

In this episode we dive into non-binary talk. Kirby opens up about where it all started for them. Ember asks unscripted questions, allowing Kirby to open up about what their journey has looked like - the reactions, feelings and changes surrounding it - even discussing how the conversation came up between the two of them. (Stay tuned for Pt. 2 next Monday!)

Tune is to our Sunday morning coffee chat as we catch up on the latest news and share some of the newest changes we‘ve been going through in our own separate lives & life together.

In this episode we chat with a good friend of ours, Leah, who shares their insight and experience surrounding ENM, ethical non-monogamy. They teach us lots of things we didn’t know and share their experience as to how they realized they prefer it over monogamous relationships. Tune in to hear our reactions, questions, insight & more surrounding this style of relationship choice that is becomin...

In this episode we talk all things intimacy after trauma, a request that we got through instagram! We instantly knew that this would be a therapeutic and informative topic! Tune is as we open up about how we navigate healthy conversation, boundaries and communication as a WLW couple with past trauma.

In this episode we speak on our transitions from identifying as bisexual for as long as we could remember into identifying as lesbians that no longer find themselves attracted to men. We talk about staying true to ourselves despite the noises and opinions around us & offer some advice to people who may be new to being openly out. Hope you enjoy. Okay biiiii.

As most of you know- we spent the weekend in Toledo, OH, visiting Kirby’s family for their brother’s wedding! Ember met a TON of Kirby’s family on this trip, got to see their old stompin’ grounds, and much more! In this episode we open up about how that experience went for the two of us and how we were feeling in real time!

What better way to go to roll into our 30th episode than to welcome our first guest in quite some time! In this episode we were lucky enough to chat with TikTok creator, Blaine (@thenamesblaine), who took time to open up to us about transitioning later in life and what that journey looked like and still looks like for him. How it affected his relationships, public interactions, etc. We chat non-bi...