Fashionably Late

There were lots of questions flood in through TikTok surrounding coming out late in life- so we spent an episode answering those questions! From how we came out to our ex-partners, to the status of our divorces and more. If you have questions of your own DM us on Instagram @ fashionably_late_lesbians . We appreciate each and every one of you! Oh, and happy 100k on TT to Kirby!

Em is finally back home and being away from each other this past weekend brought some old feelings to surface. Tune in to hear about some of the realizations we both had while apart from each other and why we thrive so much when together. We also spill all the deets surrounding Em's new exercise program and her plan to get Kirby yolked!

In this episode we read about the three types of anxious attachment in lesbian relationships from the book Lesbian Love Addiction written by Lauren D. Costine. We discuss what type of attachment style we categorize ourselves and each other in our relationship and dive in to our strengths vs. our weaknesses.

Brighid! She's more than just a friend.. she's family, as well as one of our biggest supporters and top listeners! In this episode we play a fun game where Brighid asks Kirby & Em questions about their relationship and each other. We recap the weekend we had together (Em and B met for the first time!) including karaoke and good laughs! Such a fun episode! We love you, Brighid!

Lesbian TT drama, therapy, 2 year anniversaries, new ventures and so much more! Come catch up with us.

Em made it back to Wisconsin in one piece and after taking a week off we have lots to catch you all up on! Things are settling into place and now that summer break is coming to an end we are finding our new routine all over again. As soon as you get used to something, it changes, right?

We're back in a hotel - in Colorado, showing up for you in real time, after a 20 hour drive across the country... and we are EXHAUSTED. Tune in to hear how the roadtrip went, how the kid are adjusting to the changes, and what our next moves are when it comes to our brand, our travels, and our relationship in general.

We are down to our last week of summer break, and the next three weeks are going to be chaotic to the least. Tune in to hear whats coming next for us- and the kids. Life is wild. Keep riding the wave- and keep loving unconditionally.

As the summer comes to an end, the kiddos will head back to Colorado soon so Em opens up about motherhood and her personal custody situation (we know, you're all dying to know)... we give some updates on where we are at with the house remodel and toss out the idea of a new app for lesbian hands.

Phew, what a weekend! We spent our time diving into more house projects and spending quality family time together! In this episode we give our weekly update but more importantly we discuss a deeper side of being openly "out" in public and how that has affected our children and our family as a blended unit.

It's date night, and it's our ONE MONTH anniversary of living together! Holy smokes! What a whirlwind! In this episode we catch you up on the newest deets, discuss a deeper softer part of how we love each other, touch on new found levels of relationships with our boys, give our opinions on PDA and show off our date night fits.

In this episode we vented some of the more frustrating and emotional moments we have been experiencing, while sharing some of the more vulnerable details of how we have been navigating life in general right now, separately and together.

In this episode Em and Kirby talk openly about the hardest struggle they've come across when it comes to living together vs. favorite parts of living together. A proper compliment sandwich, budget lesbian style.

This is a big moment! This is our first episode recorded and uploaded to YouTube! That's exciting, but also, bear with us as we figure out and fine tune the specs when it comes to audio/video. In the meantime- we spend this episode catching you all up on the process of blending our families and some of the more intimate details of what that looks like for us. Thanks for stickin' with us through ou...

Holy. CRAP! We did it. Em's relocation across the country has officially HAPPENED and we are all under one roof- doing the damn thing! What a whirlwind. We are exhausted, and have a million things going in a hundred different directions but most of all- we are thankful. So incredibly thankful- for each other, for our kids, for our supporters and friends, for our home, our family, the love we share...

We are in THE FINAL COUNTDOWN... and boy do we feel it. There are exactly 7 days until we drive across the country and Em officially relocates. The excitement, anxiety, stress, and so much more is overflowing but it's pretty cool that we're ridin' the wave WE created and doin' BIG things, together. This week's episode is a catch-up on all the details surrounding our beautifully blended and wild li...

  In this episode we meet Kaylee, who we found on TikTok after discovering her videos titled "Mormonism to Lesbianism", where she talks about what  went down through the journey of coming out after marriage their marriage to a  man. What that looked like for her, her religion and her relationships. It was an absolute delight having Kaylee on the show with us. To find more of her content follow the...

We've gone a little crazy before, right? In this episode we share some more vulnerable moments of "psycho" that we went through over the last wee. We dive into how we've been holding up through the long distance and things feeling so... chaotic! We share all the recent updates about the move and where we're at with the progress. Little over TWO WEEKS LEFT! Who's ready?!

We’re… tired. But we’re still kickin’. In this episode we give recent updates and discuss what’s been going on behind the scenes. 3 weeks left! It’s crunch time, and it shows! Thanks for sticking with us. ❤️

We went on a roadtrip vacation! From Chicago, to Nashville to Surfside Beach & back! In this episode we talk all about roadtripping together, sharing advice on things we learned along the way, and highlighting all of the most exciting parts of our vacation! We even gave the inside scoop on what it's like to shower at a Pilot Truck Stop! Let the good times roll!

In today’s episode we chat about the 5 stages of relationships. 
From the Honeymoon stage to the Power Struggle stage to the final stage; ONENESS (and everything in-between). We share the statistics of how far the average couple makes it and talk about our opinions surrounding hetero relationships vs. queer relationships regarding these stages, also diving into what stage we feel we are in, oursel...

It’s been quite some time since we have welcomed a guest on the show- so we couldn’t be happier to say that we had the opportunity to interview an inspiring person and author and new friend, Ben V. Greene. As an openly transgender man Ben educates and advocates in Inclusion spaces through the transgender, LGBTQ+, religious, inter-generational and data analytics lenses. Ben’s book, “My Child is Tra...

Just a short lil’ episode to catch you all up on why we have been so MIA- and some updates on exciting things to come. The end of LD is great, yes, but it comes with MANY hurdles and as always- we’re the open book that will tell the good, bad and everything in between throughout the process. Thanks for sticking with us friends.

Em opens up about her kids a little more and how they’re currently handling some of the bigger changes in their lives. We give current updates and talk about how as lesbians that came out after having children there are unseen hurdles we deal with, often, just like any other parent.

“You two are so lucky”. “I wish I was lucky enough to find my person.” These are comments we hear/see often when it comes to our relationship and while, yes, luck might have played a small part of us stumbling into each other’s existence, putting the work into our relationship triumphs any luck there could be floating around. Tune is as we talk more openly about our relationship and how we keep it...