Fashionably Late

In this conversation we explore our experiences and misconceptions surrounding foreplay, highlighting the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy - as well as the differences we've personally experienced in heterosexual relationships vs. a queer relationship. We dive deeper into the journey of foreplay, the role of expectations, and the importance of communication and authenticity in relationsh...

Kirby and Ember return after a two-month hiatus to share their journey of engagement, elopement, and the challenges of planning a wedding. They discuss the intricacies of the proposal, the magical moments of their engagement, and the fun-filled bachelorette party in Vegas. The couple reflects on their wedding day, the importance of communication in their relationship, and their commitment to livin...

We're back! 3 weeks post top surgery, and falling back into a normalcy. We've missed you all. As always, thanks for hangin' with us through all the adventures of life. Xo.

We are just days away from Kirby getting top surgery and the emotions are HIGH. As the day approaches, feelings are coming to surface - and while this is an extremely exciting time, it is also a very vulnerable time. In this episode we both open up about where our heads are at and how we have learned new ways to lean on each other and love one another more deeply. Thank you for sticking with us th...

Join us for a quick catch-up as we share our weekend events with you and touch on some of the most recent things we have learned as not only a couple but as two mothers raising sons together as well.

National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter what stage of the process you’re in - keep going - and remember, coming out has no timeline.

Time for an intimate Q+A! As Kirby's surgery date inches closer, so do the big feelings and a good healthy check-in can be so beneficial.

The idea of using our sexuality, as lesbians, for the male "gaze" is no longer something we can stand behind - and in this episode we talk about our "graduation" process through understanding that the only person we need acceptance from is ourselves. When you can truly live a life for you - and let go of society's expectations - you'll fall in love with yourself all over again.

Join us for a game of THIS or THAT, queer edition, obviously.

Where do you see yourself in one year? Three years? Or 5? What type of picture would you paint for yourself and your relationship? In this episode we share all of our dreams, goals, aspirations and plans not only for ourselves but for and within our relationship as well because in the type of world we are living in - sometimes you have to find a happy to focus on to get you through. How many do yo...

Allow us to re-introduce ourselves. HI! We're back and better than ever. The month of August was just what we needed to fuel us back up after reaching a point that we were running on "E". Spend some time with us as we catch you up on what we've been up to! From chasing waterfalls and crossing bridges... to an official top surgery DATE and even a visit from Em's mom... there are lots of things we a...

This will be our last episode for a while. Tune in to hear us discuss on ongoing struggles with mental health, the importance of communication in our relationship, and the complexities of blending our families. In this episode we share our personal insights on navigating chaos, the need for self-care, and the significance of recognizing when to take a break, emphasizing on vulnerability, growth, a...

Being a parent is hard, no matter what. It's one of the hardest things someone will do- and summertime can be draining. As we are approaching the end of summer break we are here to check in and vent it out - all at once because there is no guide to being a parent, and sometimes we have to pave our own path of what works for us and our children.

We finished The Queer Ultimatum - and we have opinions. Tune in to hear all the things we have to say regarding how our community has been represented and what we thought of the show. Plus! Find out about our newest exciting endeavors.. If you know us, you know we're always up to something. ;)

Who's watching #theultimatum queer love edition? In this episode we talk about our personal opinions towards the show - and how it really misses the mark on healthy representation of queer love. Tune in to hear about our volunteering experience at the Pride Picnic as well and how we are striving to create a healthier example of what it's like being a part of the #lgbtcommunity.

Can trans men be lesbians? That's the "hot" topic all over social right now, and today we openly discussed where we are at surrounding the topic. We talk about how labels can be helpful and hurtful at the same time, and how we continue to learn more and more as we make our way deeper into this community as late in life lesbians. https://www.sheboyganpress.com/story/opinion/readers/2025/06/15/shebo...

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember share their recent experiences, including rescuing baby bunnies, navigating a name change, and managing family dynamics with their children. They reflect on the significance of Father's Day, discuss the differences in how men and women approach planning for special occasions, and engage in political conversations about community involvement. The discussion als...

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss their experiences and thoughts surrounding Pride Month, personal updates, and the complexities of celebrity identities, particularly focusing on the recent news about Fletcher and Jojo Siwa. They explore themes of representation, the fluidity of sexuality, and the societal pressures surrounding public figures. The conversation emphasizes the importance...

The summer has arrived. Full force. & so has Pride month! In this episode we talk about the transition into having all of the kids under one roof again and the chaos that comes with it. We're tired... but we're pushin' through! Like we always do.

In this engaging conversation, Kirby and Ember reflect on their journey over the past year, celebrating personal growth and the challenges they faced. They delve into a trending TikTok controversy involving a creator who shifted her identity from a lesbian to a religious perspective, sparking backlash from the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion explores themes of acceptance, personal journeys, and t...

** APOLOGIES FOR THE SOUND DISRUPTIONS** Most importantly - In this episode, we share Kirby's biopsy results before diving into a discussion surrounding intimacy as a lesbian couple, and how it compares to our history of dating men. We discuss PDA, the honeymoon stage and so much more.

We're burnt out, to say the least, but wanted to take the time to share some updates surrounding Kirby's current health updates, the importance of using our voices in the healthcare system and the need for open communication throughout the journey. We share our plans for a special (and much needed) getaway, other upcoming summer adventures, and overall, the challenges of navigating life's emotiona...

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss personal updates, including health concerns and the complexities of relationships. They delve into themes of jealousy, bisexuality, and the challenges faced by individuals in straight relationships who identify as bisexual. The discussion highlights the importance of open communication and understanding in relationships, as well as the fluidity of iden...

In this conversation, we discuss the challenges of balancing mental health, learning how to let thoughts and feelings float by without holding onto them, and the importance of knowing the difference between the end of the road and a bump in the road. We share the most recent update on Kirby's top surgery, and dive into the feelings that have come to surface as the journey continues to unfolds.

In this episode we share all the details of our weekend getaway where we shut down and disconnected from all socials. We intentionally focused on each other, our individual selves, our relationship and found our peace again. We talk about how important it is for couples to step away from the chaos of everyday life and give one another their undivided attention and love.