Fashionably Late

In this episode we talk about the changes we have experienced within our inner circles whether it’s our close friends, distant relatives or someone in-between. We discuss how we deal with judgement or disagreements and even dive into Kirby’s first big family event since officially coming out, that they have chosen to show up to with Ember as their plus one and their feelings surrounding that big s...

In this episode we talk about how The Covid Pandemic played a part in our coming out journey and how being quarantined helped us dig deeper into ourselves and understanding/processing some of the feelings we were having in 2020/2021 when we first started discovering our truths. Tune in as we discuss what that looked like for us at a time when TikTok was brand new and we didn’t even know each other...

In this episode we open up about our feelings surrounding being in our first lesbian relationship. We go into how long distance affects that for us and how our WLW relationship differs from our previous relationships with men. We also share the exciting news of our new Patreon ONLY "Kirby & Ember UnderCovers" subscription podcast where we dive deep into the sheets sharing very "adult" conversa...

In this episode we answer a commonly asked question: how do we deal with jealousy in our relationship.. whether it’s TT videos/comments, FOMO, etc.. we open up and share how we feel towards it and how we navigate it in our LD relationship.

In this episode we take a look back at the one year mark of Ember's TikTok video that brought us together as friends and soon to be lovers. We share our feelings around dating for the first time as lesbians, and how we've evolved as being out in public as lesbians/queers.

In this episode Ember finally spills the details surrounding her first career, that she starts today, and the scary yet exciting steps it took to get her to this point, we share some new ideas for our brand/Etsy shop and give details about some exciting podcasts we were guests on. Tune in to get caught up on updates and details surrounding our relationship… all in real time.

Dating long distance can be very challenging when it comes to staying connected. In this episode we talk about the little things that make us feel extra close even through all the miles apart. As we strive to continue to grow and learn together we share a few things that help us stay in the moment. Tune in to hear our advice and experiences.

The recap you’ve all asked so much about! In this episode we share highlights from our first family vacation spent together in Wisconsin. We talk about the dynamic of being in “mom mode” together, how all the kids got along with each other, the fun and exciting places we explored, and so much more.

Tune into pt. 2 of episode 21 where Kirby & Ember talk all things GOALS & GROWTH (per request)! Everything from their future goals as a couple, to the changes they’ve experienced regarding their identity to their growth and goals in their own individual lives. Tune in as they open up about monumental moments throughout this journey and what they’re looking forward to in the days to come!

In this episode Kirby & Ember talk all things GOALS & GROWTH (per request)! Everything from their future goals as a couple, to the changes they’ve experienced regarding their identity to their growth and goals in their own individual lives. Tune in as they open up about monumental moments throughout this journey and what they’re looking forward to in the days to come!

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In this episode we talk more about PRIDE and what that was like in Colorado. How our LGBTQ+ community is becoming our family and support system. What our current situations look like with our partners and how we continue to push forward with all the emotions and feelings of coming out late, taking on a long distance relationship and all the things that are happening everyday on our journey.

It's been a common question we receive over and over again... "Ember, what's going on with you and Jeff?!” In this episode Ember shares where she’s currently at in her relationship with Jeff and how she is finally reaching for her independence. We talk about struggles, fears and how to keep pushing forward despite all the uncertainty.

Ember and Kirby welcome Tommy (Kirby's co-parenting partner) to the show. Tommy shares his perspective on Kirby coming out and how he was able to get to the place he is today. Tommy dives into how he realized Ember was Kirby's girlfriend before they even realized. He opens up about how he grieved his relationship with Kirby. And shares how he is doing today with Ember visiting and staying at their...

Join Kirby and Ember while they talk about their very first PrideFest experience together. Out and open and feeling free with all the fun that Milwaukee Pridefest has to offer. Get the latest on the next BIG podcast guest recording. And Kirby prepares for her trip to Colorado Springs this week to finally meet Embers kids, friends and some family members.

Welcome back Heather, Our very first guest on Fashionably Late, as she returns to share all the exciting updates that have happened in the past few months. We discuss content strategy, exciting big moments, boss moves, mental health, and so much more!

Ember visits Kirby again in Wisconsin. Four full days together making memories, creating content, podcasting, going live, and way too many belly laughs to count. Ember shares her thoughts after meeting Kirby's older boys. Kirby talks about how it feels being completely open with coming out and having a girlfriend around her family. Exciting details about their next trip for a meet & greet at P...

Join Kirby and Ember in part 2 of their interview with Courtney, where the conversation shifts from discussions surrounding Courtney's recent U-haul across the country to deeper conversation surrounding long distance itself. What that looked like for her and her girlfriend, how they made it work, what has changed for her since the big move and even what type of future plans they're looking forward...

Kirby and Ember welcome Courtney to the show & dive into the topic of lesbian u-hauling. Discussing how long distance only works for so long before someone considers packing up their bags and relocating. Courtney shares all her advice from living in her RV, making the big drive, adjusting to colder climates, and all the new exciting moments she can now share with her partner.

Ember makes a solid list of straight vs lesbian relationship topics and we dive into our discoveries on the levels of gayness that we ignored throughout our life. We talk about things we now realize after coming out and really appreciate our awareness and openness of being full-blown women loving women. If you might be questioning your level of gayness this episode might help reveal some major tur...

In part two we discuss topics on the importance of community in the LGBTQ+ space. We learn more about how Dr. Lynda started her practice working strictly with lesbian couples. Both Dr. Lynda and Lisa share what types of therapy they offer and how to work towards goals of having a healthy safe lesbian relationship. Dr. Lynda Spann is the founder of Lesbian Couples Institute, located in Denver, Colo...

Dr. Lynda Spann and Lisa Yaeger join the show to discuss real life lesbian couples topics. In this episode we talk about topics like; is lesbian bed death a real thing, 3-5 Key habits to help lesbian couples keep their relationship growing, and much more. Dr. Lynda Spann is the founder of Lesbian Couples Institute, located in Denver, Colorado. Both Dr. Lynda and her wife Lisa offer personal in per...

Kirby heads to Colorado to visit Ember. They stay in the perfect Airbnb tucked away in the mountains. They share all the details about the weekend getaway, and how incredibly necessary it is to slow down and take time to relax and be in the moment.

We share our darker moments on pulling ourselves out of the harder parts of coming out. How we broke the traditional conditioning which allows us to feel completely comfortable in our own skin. Dylan shares her advice on how to dig deeper when searching for your truest identity while learning to love yourself.

Kirby and Ember welcome Dylan to the show. Dylan brings a level of comfort and safeness as we dive deeper into the layers of coming out as late in life lesbians. We discuss topics about our family members reactions and support, and how we adapt to our ever changing world.