Evan Swings

Eva joins me in the episode to discuss her sexual orientation. We have had trouble finding a term that accurately describes it. Then, we share a hotel takeover story about how she was cock blocked...quite literally.

What is the fizzle? In this episode I will explain as well as discuss how I answered a question someone asked me regarding jealousy.

If you were having trouble listening to this week's episode due to the low volume, please try this alternate version. I have increased the volume a bit. Hope that helped! Still a novice with podcasting audio tech! Episode description: Yup. I screwed up. I tried to do something very nice and very sexy for Eva. But I botched it. This is the tale of that screw up.

Episode 19: The lifestyle can be cyclical. Eva and I have experienced times when we had lots of interest and options for potential dates...and other times (like now) where we are not able to find couples we match with. There are highs and lows. In this episode I talk about why it is sometimes so tough to find new potential matches.

Cue the Etta James music. After 3 years in the lifestyle, Evan finally fulfills his two biggest fantasies.

Eva and I would love to meet more local lifestyle couples. A few just haven't worked out. In this episode I talk about an interesting experience we had with a local couple. Before that story, I touch again on my desire to tell some vanilla friends about our involvement in the lifestyle...and also the perils of doing so.

In this episode I share a quick story from my college days which prove I never lived life to the fullest. I then discuss an experience involving an insult that ended a friendship we had with a lifestyle couple. *Note: Eva does NOT have a gigantic ass. Listen to this episode and you'll understand what I mean by that.

So happy to welcome back my sexy wife Eva to the show! We'll discuss the differences between parallel play, soft swaps, and full swaps. We learned that we are definitely not into soft swaps...but we share our only experience(s) with soft swapping. *Note: Eva's audio is a little low. Sorry for the inconvenience. We are still novices at this whole podcasting thing and hope to upgrade to bett...

Thankfully Eva and I have had very few regrettable experiences since joining the lifestyle. Looking back, of those few, there was one where I probably should have pulled the plug. This is the story of that experience.

Ever run into annoying single guys in the lifestyle? Or just plain ol' stupid guys? Or a combination of both? Eva and I have. These are some of those stories!

Prior to lifestyle dates, Eva and I go overboard with preparation. We don't expect the same from our dates...but we do have some expectations when it comes to grooming. What happens when a couple fails to meet these expectations? Find out in this episode! *Gross out warning!

Eva said I sound like a whiny bitch in this episode! You be the judge! In this episode I discuss the advantage women have in the lifestyle when it comes to fulfilling fantasies.

The lifestyle certainly has its ups and downs. My wife Eva joins me for this episode as we tell you about a not-so-amazing experience we had with a couple whom we call (and they call themselves) "the sensitive nurses."

What happens when you think you are going to someone's house to watch a football game and it turns out to be a sex party in disguise? Listen to find out! I'll also discuss a very sensitive, but very important lifestyle topic: STI's/STD's. *Note: upon listening to the episode myself, I made a stupid mistake. Eva has an IUD. I, for some reason, call it a UTI. -Evan

I am so excited to welcome my wife Eva as a guest on the show! We have a lifestyle tale for you that just works better coming from the both of us! Our lifestyle journey has been mostly good experiences...this one was not so good. But it is quite a story! Sit back and enjoy! *Apologies: my mic's volume is a bit lower than Eva's in this episode so she sounds louder and clearer than me.

In this episode I'll talk about what booty-blinded means. Eva and I were booty-blinded (and blinded by convenience) by a local couple we started playing with. Having local lifestyle friends (and "regular" playmates) is amazing...until things start going sour.

The lifestyle can be quite EXPENSIVE! Just getting into the lifestyle? I'll break down some of the expected and unexpected costs of being in the lifestyle. It adds up quickly! I'll also share the story of our first ever play date at a couple's house. Finding a good host (or hosting yourself) is a great way to not only save money, but create a very comfortable, relaxed atmospher.

This is a doozy of an episode. I discuss our first real rough patch in the lifestyle due to an experience that didn't work out as anticipated. This was a very significant experience for Evan and me. Additionally, I'll comment on how it's important to find a balance when a husband and wife have slightly different desires or expectations from the lifestyle.

Welcome to Episode 4. Continuing our journey chronologically (for now), I'll talk about our experience at our second hotel takeover. Spoiler alert: we learn that size actually DOES matter. I'll also comment on not being concerned about the (daily) time spent on the lifestyle. It's ok that it is a big part of my life!

In this episode I'll talk briefly about how our society sees swinging in a negative light. Then I'll talk about our second and third full swaps...which happened to be with the same couple, 2 weeks apart. We learned a lot from these two experiences. A LOT. So join me as I talk about our journey and what we learned!

In this episode I talk about our first ever lifestyle experience: a hotel takeover in Indianapolis where my wife Eva and I have our first full swap.

Welcome to Evan Swings! This is my introductory episode where I will tell the story of how my wife Eva and I decide to enter the lifestyle.