Evan Swings

AUDIO APOLOGIES! Recording in a different location and with only one mic, this episode's audio did not come out well. We are learning and plan to upgrade to a better system. Very sorry that my volume is low. Eva joins me for today's episode and we talk about a recent trip to the club, just the two of us, where some noteworthy things occurred. We discuss: 1. Etiquette when approached by som...

I was thinking the other day about what my biggest lifestyle pet peeve is. It is bad communication. I'll talk about that in this episode as well as share a sexy experience we had recently at a club.

Recognize the obscure Schitt's Creek reference? In this episode, I discuss: 1. What I would love our (Eva and myself) condom rule to be. 2. Sperm competition 3. A play date that reminds me there are still things to experience for the first time in the lifestyle, even after 5 years.

What happens when you have a strict condom rule but find yourself in a hot tub with a woman begging you to break that rule? This is the second time in the last year that I have found myself in this sort of situation. In this episode I'll talk about having will power and staying honest to the rules established by you and your partner. *I also briefly defend my podcast from a negative review. If...

After I recorded this episode, I listened to it and realized my allergies affected my voice more than I thought! Apologies for my grogginess! In this episode, I respond to a listener question about breaking the ice. Then, I talk about how several factors are making it seem like our time in the lifestyle is winding down.

What happens when there are two couples you want to play with at the club? How do you choose? Instead, how about you just play with both? That's exactly what happened when Eva and I attended a St. Patrick's Day event at a club. We had a great time and I'll tell you all about it in this episode!

I have learned that going into an event with no expectations is often the best way to ensure I'll have fun. It was no exception on Valentines Day when Eva and I attended a club event, knowing full well ahead of time that we would not be playing with anyone that evening.

Something that continues to be an absolute favorite of both Eva and myself: reclaim sex. In this episode, I'll discuss why it has become such an enjoyable and dare I say necessary part of our lifestyle adventures.

In this episode you'll hear about a solo adventure that was not only enjoyable, but unusual...at least for me. I'll tell you all about it and reinforce how respecting the dynamics of other couples is important in the lifestyle.

There are plenty of pet peeves I have but one related to the lifestyle is flaky couples. In this episode, I answer a few listener questions and then discuss a baffling situation involving a couple that suddenly changed their minds about meeting Eva and me for a play date.

I often do this podcast with the hope that my stories, rantings, ramblings, and ravings are relatable to others and help them navigate the lifestyle. But the two topics I discuss today left me with more questions than answers. - Are Eva and I at fault for a miscommunication involving a couple we hoped to see again? - What should a guy do if he's playing with a woman and he is suddenly met with...

Our New Years celebration was "neutral." A very enjoyable evening with plenty of disappointment. Also: how something as simple as wearing a fedora could be a catalyst for fun with another couple. Plus: Evan Swings gets a not-so-great review!

I have some brief updates from previous episodes and then I dive in to what money can't buy in the lifestyle. Spoiler alert: it's confidence.

My fourth episode in a seemingly endless series! Eva and I are kind of shy when it comes to in-person meetings. While some prefer going to clubs and events to meet new couples, we prefer to stick to lifestyle sites and apps to initiate conversations with potential matches. That unfortunately leads to a great deal of unexpected (or maybe I should say expected) interesting and infuriating interactio...

We have had a lot of good luck meeting awesome, compatible couples in the lifestyle. But lately, our luck has been awful. Today's episode is a story about a couple who seemed so perfect for us it was almost too good to be true. We hadn't met any new couples in almost a year so this was a breath of fresh air...that quickly went to crap. This is kind of a sequel to my club story from Episode...

Discretion seems to be a very important part of a couple's involvement in the lifestyle. Most couples say their vanilla friends and family are unaware (based on my experience of course). But what happens what happens when a family member discovers the secret...and tells others? In this episode I'll talk about a wild situation involving our son and how we handled it.

Going to a lifestyle club is something Eva and I love to do. It's a judgement-free environment where we can dance, drink, and be ourselves. We never go with the expectation that we will be hooking up with a couple. We have found that if you go with no expectations (except to enjoy the company of your significant other), there won't be any disappointment! This episode's story proves my...

There are some lifestyle topics that some people (not all) find uncomfortable to talk about. I feel it is important to address topics like these. It helps to "tear down the walls" and erase negative stigmas. That's what this episode is all about. In this episode I tackle some topics that some would shy away from. Included are: 1. Erectile Disfunction 2. STI's/STD's 3. Butthol...

What happens when Eva and I meet a sexy couple who don't speak our language? Find out in this episode. I'll tell the story of how we met a couple from "Colombia" at a club and how, although language was a barrier, we eventually met them for a very fun play date. Some other updates as well.

I keep notes regarding topics I wish to discuss on this podcast. Well, sometimes the things I wish to talk about do not warrant an entire episode's time. So in this episode, I will talk about a few different topics about which I had been hoping to dedicate some time to. I call them "quick bits." They include discussion about: 1. Etiquette when planning to attend a club event with ano...

There are several factors that can cause what I call "selective ED." In this episode I discuss those factors and how my brain is often my worst enemy when it comes to play dates.

If you did not listen to Episode 50, please do so before listening to this episode. It is part 2 of my story of Ivy and our hotel adventure...as well as Eva's adventure at the same hotel that very night. Eva joins me in the second part of this episode to tell you all about it! Apologies if Eva's voice is low at times. We don't record together often and haven't quite figured out the...

After many, many experiences with fakes, flakes, scammers, and sextortionists, this episode is all about an experience with a single lady...who was actually REAL. Fair warning: this episode is part 1 of 2. I have never ended an episode on a cliffhanger before...until now. But I had a lot to say about this adventure with many different moving parts, twists, turns, and interesting components. So I d...

In this episode I'll talk about something of which I just learned the meaning: wife poaching. I did not learn from experience, thankfully! So even though Eva and I have not been victims of wife poaching, I wanted to discuss it and give my take on it. I also share a couple of short annoying stories regarding couples with whom I have interacted online.

*Back after an extra week hiatus due to a family vacation. In this episode I discuss taking chances and trying something new in the lifestyle. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.