Dimming The Gaslight: Our Healing Journey From Narcissistic Abuse

A self aware narcissist named Tessa is back for Part 2 of an interview about how a narcissist operates in the world. We cover specifically about my present situation. We talk about what happens when you mess with a narcissist’s ego. And even her boyfriend joins the show to talk about things from his perspective! If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmai...

This is Part I of a two part series of an interview I did with a self aware Narcissist named Tessa. She breaks down for us how she was diagnosed with NPD, some of her actions and feelings that she has in particular scenarios, and even answers some questions from the listeners from an Instagram post I did. If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com D...

Episode 37 welcomes in my guest Kevin, who has a great story to tell. Kevin breaks down for us his relationship with a narcissist who introduced him to her daughter after only three weeks, picked a fight with him in his driveway at 4 in the morning, and a shocking revelation he had regarding his own family!  If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.co...

I thought the end of my divorce was approaching, but instead, my NEx has filed a brand new restraining order on me. Now, I'm back at the start. I go over the events that took place prior to the TRO, both of our versions of events, and the first court hearing to discuss the allegations. If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight...

Who doesn't love a good "Where are they now?" My very first guest on this podcast was Giselle, and she's back to give us an update on what's been going on in her life since she did the podcast. She talks about what her new dating life is like, the triggers she still experiences from her prior narcissistic relationship, and a realization that she came to recently that is sure...

All the way back on episode 4 of this podcast, I told you guys about how I confided in friends about my discovery about narcissism, and I told you I had a friend who told me their caregivers were narcissists. Then, I had my best friend Moe on the show. Well now, I have Moe's wife Noor here to tell us about her experience. Noor goes into great detail about the devaluing and manipulation, and ev...

On last episode, I told a story about how I didn't want my son playing football. Well, sometimes desperate times call for desperate measures! Check out this bonus episode! If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight is available on: ⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon...

I'm back after a month long hiatus, and I missed you guys so much! In this episode, I talk about my future vision for this podcast and where I want it to go with it. I also talk about what has been going on with my NEx and her ongoing shenanigans. And a story about a narcissist getting their justice which I think you will find fulfilling! If you would like to be a part of the show, please emai...

Episode 32 is another solo episode with some mediation settlement fallout! I was physically attacked by the NEx’s flying monkey in front of my children! I recap my first overnight visit with the kids, and give you an update about how the NEx wants to pull out of the settlement now that she knows she lost! If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com D...

Episode 31 is a solo episode where I take you through my first ever mediation, not expecting it to work, and leaving with a mind blowing victory! If you would like to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight is available on: ⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

30 Episodes deep! Crazy! Another friend of mine called me recently who has never been in a narcissistically abusive relationship angry that we just don’t leave! So Rebecca is still in her relationship and covers in detail the stages of her trauma bonding, what makes her stay, and even how her car got shot at when her narcissistic husband made some awful decisions! If you would like to be a part of...

Dimming The Gaslight Podcast welcomes in a special guest this week, Chelsey Brooke Cole (@chelseybrookecole on IG)! Chelsey is a licensed therapist that specializes in all things Narcissistic Abuse. We focus on recovery post narc abuse and cover a range of topics. We talk about statistics associated with the amount of people effected by narc abuse, the psychical and emotional effects, and great la...

Episode 28 welcomes in my guest @tatjana.anders ! Tatjana’s film @yourrealityfilm is a super triggering story about gaslighting and it has over 3.2M views on YouTube! She tells us all about her inspiration for writing and acting in the film, some of the challenges in making it, and whether or not the narc that the film is about has seen it! If you would like to be a part of the show, please email...

@IAmAlexaNicole is my week 27 guest on the DTG podcast! She is super into holistic healing and she has a great story about how she grew up in a family of Narcissists and it shaped her future relationships. She also guides people through holistic healing exercises to help them release their trauma and you can book sessions with her at www.iamalexanicole.com! If you want to be a part of the show, pl...

RG (@misadventurewiththenarcissist on IG) is the host of Misadventures With The Narcissist Podcast and she is my guest for week 26! She has such an amazing story about her experiences with her narcissist, how and why she started a podcast, and an absolutely INSANE wedding proposal that will have you laughing and in shock! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@...

Is Mike's NEx a narcissist? You be the judge! For the first time ever, I do a live interview with a friend of mine who went through a really messy breakup. He talks about the constant push and pull he endured, a terrible lapse in judgment during a beautiful sunset, and his ultimate discard that will leave you saying, "Wait?! WTF!" If you want to be a part of the show, please email me...

Thanks for coming back for Episode 24! This is a solo episode about the craziness of my life lately. I talk about a range of topics from how I'm coping with being super busy, to the absolute ludicrous recent behavior of my NEx, to some wild and hilarious stories about the mental fog I've been enduring! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming Th...

Episode 23 of DTG welcomes in my new friend Joy (@joypostema1 on IG)! Joy shares a tragic story about her experience with an abuse narcissist that broke into her home, was committed to a psych ward, and an ending to the story that will leave your jaw on the floor! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight is available on: ⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Want to know how my first hour long discussion with my NEx went in seven months? Episode 22 is a solo episode about the recap of a Best Needs Assessment for our children ordered by the judge. My NEx and I spent an entire hour on Zoom with a mediator, hashing out our issues. Was she able to not lie? Did she actually have the kid's best interest in mind? Were we able to come to any agreements? I...

Episode 21 welcomes in Keith @spiritual_samurai_ who is going to give you some advice on how to deal with one of the hardest things post narcissistic abuse: breaking the trauma bond! Keith explains the intricacies of a trauma bond, some things to look out for early in a relationship, and some solid advice on how to get back up on your feet! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at...

Episode 20 is an episode with Beau (@narcissiticabusebykels), one of the absolutely funniest pages on all of Instagram. Beau tells some jokes at my expense and some great stories about his NEx who had addiction issues, was a stalker, and ended up in the psych ward! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight is available on: ⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Episode 19 is a solo episode where I get you up to date with my current situation. I give you updates on my Nex's behavior, where I am with getting my finances from the home, my dating life, and a shocking reconciliation with my estranged family! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dimming The Gaslight is available on: ⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Episode 18 welcomes in my new friend Blake to tell us her story about overcoming not one, but TWO alcoholic narcissists! Blake shares her stories about trying to handle the alcoholism of her narcissit, how history repeated itself, and a shocking revelation at the end that helped her along her path to healing! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com Dim...

Want to hear some stories about my NEx from someone who knows her first hand? My Best Friend Moe joins the show to tell you about the "NExcorcist" as he likes to call her. We talk about what he remembers about my relationship, the wedge she tired to drive between our friendship, and the new crazy things she did just this week! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGasl...

Episode 16 features a guy who has been to hell and back with his NEx! Doug met his NEx through the Mormon church. She love bombed and trauma bonded him right from the start, she berated his son, and he tells an amazing story about how he had to stake out his own house that is going to make your heart beat fast! If you want to be a part of the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.com D...