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Book your free spot: Chiara’s Live Online Workshop “How To Share Your Secret Fantasies” – limited seats available Most people fantasise about being with someone other than their partner. That’s normal. The question is what you do with it. In this episode, we get into one of the most common — and least talked-about — sexual fantasies: desiring variety in sexual partners. We cover what ENM (Ethical...

⚡️Join us live: Free Online Workshop “How To Share Your Secret Fantasies”  - Limited spots available⚡️ What if the fantasy you've been hiding is the exact thing your relationship needs? Most of us treat our desires like secrets — something to protect our partner from. Today we are joined by Paris, a longtime tantric practitioner and facilitator who went from completely frigid to living out every...

What’s the thing that scares the shit out of most couples? Being seen for who they really are. And in sex? Sharing their fantasies. What’s the one thing that sits underneath every fantasy, every risk, and every deeply connected relationship? It’s TRUST. Most of us simply don't trust what will happen when we share ourselves completely. So, today’s episode is all about helping you doing exactly that...

>> FREE LIVE WORKSHOP: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" << REGISTER HERE Most of us were raised to believe that sexual fantasies are shameful - or just plain wrong. But what if those forbidden desires weren’t signs that something’s broken? In this episode, we get to the bottom of why so many people are turned on by taboos, what that says about our emotional w...

Most people think the key to better sex and exciting relationships is learning the right moves or finding "The One". In an interview with one of our teachers, Will and I talk about why the patterns that hold you back in bed are the same ones that limit you in life. Why lack of intimacy isn’t about the other person, the sex positions, or your performance. And why feeling stuck, unseen, or frustrate...

>> Register for Chiara's next LIVE WORKSHOP for free: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" To celebrate our podcast 1st anniversary, we address our clients’ most common questions in a live Q&A - from jealousy to sexual dynamics and open relationships. Partner communication, establishing trust, and addressing underlying issues in a relationship are some of the thing...

Secret Fantasies FREE LIVE workshop ALERT! Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies - yet only few people have the courage to act on them. Is it something you should try, or is it better left as a fantasy? In this episode, Will and Chiara explore the psychology behind group sex, the gap between fantasy and reality, and how to decide whether a threesome is right for you. They go over the key...

>> Register for Chiara's next LIVE WORKSHOP for free: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" Will and Chiara tackle another taboo topic that many men (and their partners) struggle with, but rarely discuss openly: erections. From performance anxiety to the pressure of always staying hard, they explore how much of the struggle is psychological rather than physical. They di...

>> FREE LIVE WORKSHOP: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" << REGISTER HERE This is a must-listen for both men and women looking to feel more, longer and better orgasms. Today’s episode will completely transform your understanding of what “coming” is: Did you know that there are many types of orgasms for women? And did you know that men can orgasm without ejacul...

Download our free guide: “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”   Changing gears with Season 2, love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara explain in very simple terms the concept of relationship Polarity, and the importance of balancing the masculine and feminine energies that you input in a relationship - regardless of your gender. They show how a polarity imbalance...

FREE LIVE workshop on how to share secret fantasies: RESERVE YOUR SEAT Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise coming up for you! We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom. We believe that sex should not be the driver of argu...

Next FREE LIVE workshop on sharing secret fantasies: RESERVE YOUR SEAT Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation.  They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it!  They talk about their j...

How open(-minded) are you, really? And how "free" do you feel? Our biggest fear is not being loved. And fears keep us stuck in the comfort zone. But what happens when we suspend fear? While reflecting on our peculiar summer, we explain how openness, curiosity, and feeling comfortable in your own body can bring you a deeper sense of connection and, ultimately, freedom. There's a different flavour w...

>> Register for Chiara's FREE LIVE WORKSHOP: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" (limited spots available) Communication is THE KEY in enhancing relationships and sexual experiences. Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on how you can initiate open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with your partner. As always we...

Jealousy can serve as a useful tool in relationships when rooted in objective facts: it can be a sign of real issues, but also a reflection of deeper insecurities. How do you know? In this episode we cover the various sides of jealousy, how to understand when it is keeping you safe, vs. when it’s signalling that there’s something deeper to look into – your body generally knows best. We look at jea...

Have you ever dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication. In this episode, we share a very intimate experience where we pushed our boundaries further than ever before: for the first and only time in our life, Chiara is "lent" for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband, while Wi...

ALERT: FREE workshop on how to share secret fantasies (Live with Chiara): RESERVE YOUR SEAT Are you “vanilla” or “spicy”? Are you into ENM? Are you not? Are you curious? How much should you share about this with your friends? And should you drag them into this exploration with you? These are all themes we discuss in this episode, focusing on the importance of respecting the boundaries of people ar...

Free resources + next steps for your sexual healing journey: - Download the free guide: “10 phrases to start deeper conversations with your partner” - Chiara’s free live workshop "How To Share Your Secret Fantasies": book your spot here   For more info, visit www.deeperlovers.com  

Have you ever experienced how sensuality and soft touch can 10x your sexual encounters?  Listen to the sensual birthday surprise that Chiara arranged for her husband Will: beyond the sexiness of it all, you’ll learn how embracing sensuality, soft touch, and vulnerability can positively impact your intimacy - and your relationship overall. Will describes his struggle to relax and surrender to recei...

FREE LIVE workshop with Chiara: "How to share secret fantasies without shame or fear" BOOK NOW  (limited seats available) Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment. Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play...

This is our Origin Stories episode. Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of their lives. We explain how we discovered ENM (ethical non-monogamy), survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus, but also how we learned to communicate to each other fearlessly, esta...

Body image is a very common problem for both men and women. Today we discuss how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your connection. Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey back to loving her body. We also ex...

>> Register for Chiara's FREE LIVE WORKSHOP: "Finally Share your Secret Fantasies without Shame or Fear" (limited spots available)   Are you longing for deeper, more intimate sexy time? Today we share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the ENM and kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge connections - in...

Contrary to what many people fear, today we talk about how non-monogamy can actually strengthen relationships. You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond?  We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together.  Allie shares how she made her...

Join Chiara on her next FREE LIVE workshop "How to share secret fantasies" RESERVE YOUR SEAT (limited seats available) What are the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades? Today we have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just ha...