Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

When it comes to sex for women, going down on her is one of the most pleasurable acts. Oral sex can bring immense pleasure ... or it can be meh. Whether in dating or committed relationships, men who are skilled in this sexual act stand out.

We get real and personal in discussing whether we feel "ready" to be in a relationship. Whether you're a man or a woman, and whether it's just sex, dating, or a marriage you're wanting, there's an art to understanding whether you're prepared physically, emotionally, and spiritually for relationship.

What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples therapist has been an invaluable addition to their relationship. Both men and women will get a lot out of this one.

In both dating and long-term relationships, there's a skill that some men have honed that makes us women fall in love. If it's not present, it's also frequently a deal-breaker. A woman who gets this from her man swoons.

Both men and women need relationship support, but the default couples counseling session and talk therapy overall can have limited success for men -- and there's nothing wrong with men who've been through that. Whether we're talking about sex, dating, marriage, or other things, we need to support and understand men in order to support lasting transformation.

Porn addiction has become a major issue in modern dating and relationships. Both men and women are affected, and it can destroy a marriage or relationship if it's not handled properly. Here, one couple shares openly about their journey through porn addiction and out into the other side.

Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships -- it's complicated. One thing that simplifies it is this relationship skill that, when guys do it well, makes girls swoon.

Men and women want to connect, and this relationship skill rises above the rest as critical when it comes to feminine turn-on. When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, we women LOVE when men *drive.*

There's a secret to attracting the right women, whether for sex, dating, or relationships. Hint: It's not actually so much about the women as about the man attracting them. Here's how to be a skillful attractor and picker.

Sex in a relationship is critical, but often really hard to talk about. One in ten women say it's "impossible" to tell a man what's not working sexually. Whether you're dating or in a marriage, learning to discuss sex and improve in the bedroom makes everything better.

Testosterone in men helps with sex drive, motivation, focus, hair growth, and more. Low testosterone is linked to depression, low libido, and more. These are 5 easy, natural ways to boost your testosterone, which will help with dating, relationships, and women, as well as in life.

Whether you're a man or woman, it's hard when you're dating or in a relationship but aren't sure that person is the one you want to commit to. Attachment theory (anxious/avoidant attachment) reveals interesting concepts around how to be ready to commit to the man or woman of your dreams.

Dating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dynamics you need to know about.

Men and women, or male- and female-bodied people, experience attraction based on difference, or polarity. Here's how to use polarity to your advantage in sex, dating, relationships, and more.

Cuddling, physical affection, and touch: both men and women need it, and not just in the context of sex, dating or relationships. As human beings, we need touch to feel connected. Cuddle party and connection expert Adam Lippin and I discuss how you can get your touch needs met outside a relationship.

Men and women meet, date, have sex, and get married from online dating. Eve Peters created her own dating app to help make the dating process feel easier and smoother, and has some brilliant insights about the future of both online and dating "in real life."

Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and relationship lives -- so how do we get there? Ken Blackman, relationship expert, breaks down how to get the sex & orgasms back.

Whether dating or in a relationship, if a man and woman are having sex, both are affected if she can't get wet (natural lubrication). If you've ever been with someone struggling with vaginal dryness or other ladyparts issues, listen to this! We delve into the jade egg, vaginal steaming,

Both men and women want even better, more connected sex (who doesn't?) Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship (or married), all couples can use help around communication in sex. This is a great episode for those who want an easy way to deepen their sex life.

What do most couples argue about? When "should" you go to couples counseling? Men and women can use support when it comes to dating and relationships, and couples therapists can help. Here, we go over encouraging research around attachment, and how it can provide more safety and nourishment in romantic relationships.

Going through a breakup is difficult. Jason Lange and I talk through how men with women who are ex-girlfriends or ex-wives can reenter the sex and dating even more resilient than before the breakup.

Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships: things can get complex. Dating advice is often to be clear and direct, but the reality of leading a woman on is complicated. 

What does it mean to lead someone on? Where's the line between dating and sex and rejection? When women and men connect, it can be beautiful. It can also lead to suffering. We'd love for men to approach this one thing differently when it comes to dating.

Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into love beyond monogamy reveals unexpected dating dynamics. 

Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refreshing on having deep, healthy, and fulfilling healthy relationships with women (and dating advice).