Daring Discussions: Real. Righteous. Sex Talk.

@yourfavoriteauntiespod  join Your Favorite Girlfraan in this crossover episode. We discuss dating, femininity, holiness, and the sexual education Christian women never received. Part 1 will air on this channel and Part 2 will air on theirs! Make sure you tap in!!!LinksIntimacy Insiders Email Listhttps://www.theintimacyfirm.comNaked & Unashamed Bible Studyhttps://www.theintimacyfirm.com/genesi...

Dr. Imani Steel published her research and agreed to have a Daring Discussion with me about it. Her Dissertation Unmothered: A Phenomenological Study of Black Daughters Who are Detached From Their Black Mothers is dedicated to Black daughters who received less than what they deserved from their mothers. Follow Dr. Imani   / imani_steele_   Want to read here research: https://digitalcommons.liberty...

Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do… is let go and be still. In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m talking with Yvette Henry , author and co host of ‪@HowMarriedAreYouPodcast‬ about her upcoming 30-day devotional Release, Rest, Remain, and baby… this discussion and this book felt like a deep breath I didn’t know I needed. We talk about being tired but still pushing, doing “all the r...

Is Pain Normal, or Are You Just Used to It? with Dr. Courtney Miller, Licensed Clinical PsychologistWhat if the pain you’ve learned to live with isn’t actually normal… it’s just familiar? In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m joined by Dr. Courtney Miller, a licensed clinical psychologist, for an honest, eye-opening conversation about pain, trauma, and the quiet ways we normalize suffering ju...

What happens when your story doesn't match the one you thought you'd be living? In this episode of Daring Discussions , I sat down with Sylvia Brooks whose path to 30 was anything but typical...and yet, deeply relatable. From purity culture pressures to shifting definitions of worth, we unpack what it means to hold space for desire, disappointment, and divine timing. This isn’t a conversat...

Whew. This one is real, raw, and redemptive. In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith , marriage coaches, and proof that healing is possible. We talk about what happens when the damage of pornography meets the covenant of marriage… and how grace, communication, accountability, and faith walked them through it. Drawing from their own journey of heali...

Heartbreak doesn’t just wound your heart, it can fracture your faith, your confidence, and your sense of worth. In this week’s Daring Discussions Testimony Service, recording artist and worship leader Cachet joins me to share her powerful story of healing after heartbreak. Together we discuss:-How heartbreak and infidelity can shake your identity and your intimacy with God.-The role of worship in...

This episode with Sharonica Lanae of Scent & Thred is full of truth, joy, laughter and actual tears. We talked about breaking generational curses , parenting after losing your mother , and running a business the Lord's way. Guest: https://www.instagram.com/sharonicalanae Episode Sponsor https://www.scentandthread.com

How do you trust love again after it’s let you down? How do you know the difference between rushing and divine acceleration? In this powerful episode of Daring Discussions, I sit down with a couple whose story is straight from heaven’s plot twist: Shon & Clarissa Hyneman met and married in 6 months. Together, they run to platforms Scary to Remarry and Loverfearlessly. Scary to Remarry helps si...

For the Season 3 premiere of Daring Discussions , we did something special — an intergenerational testimony service. I am joined by three women in their 20s, 30s, and 60s, and together we all share our stories of sex, intimacy, and relationships. Dr. Daniella Thorne, Dr. Cheryl Carr, and Sylvia Brooks sit down for a daring discussion that shows how God’s faithfulness spans every stage of life. One...

Let’s talk about who we really are. In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant S. Alise Moore — a licensed clinician who holds space with truth and tenderness. We’re discussing how our identity, spiritual formation, and personal history all come together (and sometimes clash) when it comes to how we see ourselves and show up in relationships. We talk: Confidence and embodiment (especially when t...

Let’s be real. Some of the deepest wounds didn’t come from the world, they came from people in the church. In this episode, we’re getting real about the quiet harm caused by purity culture, silence around sex, and spiritual manipulation that left many of us carrying shame in our bodies and bedrooms. We’re discussing what happens to folks who’ve been taught that desire is dirty, that modesty equals...

Whew! Being a godly woman means a lot of things to a lot of people, but who’s defining it? This week on Daring Discussions , I’m sitting down with Pastor Adara Sherron—wife, mom, and pastor—to get real about what it means to balance faith, femininity, and a little bit of spice. We’re talking about: 💡 How to own your sensuality without losing your holiness 💡 Why confidence in the bedroom can be a...

Lesson Starts at 2:22 Sis, let’s be real—knowing what you want is one thing, but saying it out loud? That’s a whole other story. If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires, initiate intimacy, or just find the right words in the heat of the moment, this episode is for you. It’s the replay of my Art of Erotic Communication Masterclass, and we’re getting into it. For all of my shy wives, We’re...

Is sex supposed to be this hard? Let’s be honest...some of us said “I do” and still weren’t ready for what sex inside marriage would feel like. This week on Daring Discussions, we’re talking all things Sex & The Christian Wife with  @alexisfreddyb  . We discuss mismatched desire to pleasure guilt, and what it means to be a whole woman in a Christian marriage. Whether you were taught that sex i...

Help Me, We Don’t Have Enough Sex (Workshop Replay)In this special episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sharing the full replay of my live workshop for Christian husbands navigating the quiet frustration of sexual dissatisfaction in a sexless marriage. We talk about the real reasons intimacy dries up, the emotional and spiritual toll it takes, and—most importantly—how to rebuild a marriage bed that’...

This week on Daring Discussions, I’m joined by Sheila Gregoire author of The Great Sex Rescue and a fierce advocate for healthy, mutual intimacy in #EvangelicalChristian marriages. We’re talking about the toxic teachings so many of us were handed, and how to unlearn what hurts so we can make room for intimacy that actually honors God and both partners. In this episode, we get into:-The damaging be...

If you’ve ever asked, “What does the bible say about sex?”... this conversation is for you. Let’s be honest, church taught a lot of us what not to do when it came to sex, but not enough about what sex is for. In this episode of Daring Discussions , I’m joined by Pastor Joel Moorefield Jr., and we’re digging into what scripture really says about sex, not just rules, but God’s design, intention, and...

Whew—this one’s for everybody trying to live holy with followers watching 👀 This week on Daring Discussions , I’m joined by Christian comedian Will Johnson and we’re digging into the real tension between sex, influence, and faith . What happens when you’re in the spotlight, trying to date, and still trying to honor God with your body? How do you protect your image without losing yourself—or your...

Let’s be real, sis #dating is already stressful enough. Add in anxiety, being a Black woman, trying to honor God, and navigate your own desires? That’s a lot. This week on Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with licensed psychologist and my good sis, Dr. Chanda Reynolds   / paging.dr.chanda   talk about the intersection of Sex & Anxiety—and not just in the bedroom, but in our dating lives, o...

In this episode of Daring Discussions , I’m joined by the incredible Shanae Adams of Wellness From the Womb —a doula and clinical psychotherapist who understands the deep connection between our bodies, minds, and relationships We’re talking all things Sex & Maternal Health —what happens to our bodies and our minds before, during, and after birth. We’re getting into postpartum healing, intimacy...

Sex, intimacy, and relationships don’t end after an HIV diagnosis—but the stigma surrounding it is still holding people back. This week on Daring Discussions , I’m joined by LaDeia Joyce , an advocate and educator who is changing the narrative around HIV, pleasure, and self-worth. We’re talking about what it really means to navigate love, dating, and sex while living with HIV, and why the conversa...

Menopause is not the end of your sex life, but let’s be real—it does change things. So how do you navigate intimacy when your body is moving through a whole new season? This week on Daring Discussions , I’m joined by Dr. Shamyra Howard-Blackburn, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist, and we’re breaking down what menopause really means for your pleasure, confidence, and rel...

Let’s talk about it—your attachment style is absolutely showing up in your sex life, whether you realize it or not. Are you someone who craves closeness and reassurance after sex? Or do you pull away when things start feeling too intimate? Maybe you’re out here wondering why you always seem to attract the same type of partner. This week on Daring Discussions , I’m sitting down with a relational tr...

What does salvation have to do with sex? In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m joined by Sefana Samples, a Christian family and relationship coach who specializes in helping you become successfully single!. This Daring Discussion is about the ongoing tension between faith, sexuality, desire, and intimacy. We’re breaking down how to honor God with your body and your desires, what purity cultur...